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"Dear Little Kid" finally came to an end.
Many people feel that the ending is too hasty, and many things are not explained.
In fact, if you think about it carefully, these life principles have been explained, but only those who have experienced it can understand it.
Let me summarize it for you.
01 Being a parent is not easy.
From pregnancy to childbirth, Fang Yinuo experienced long spots on his face, stretch marks on his stomach, and great changes in his psychology, which was a happy and painful process.
After giving birth, she became an anxious mother again, with postpartum depression, mood swings, and her husband's incomprehension, which eventually led to her husband's infidelity and the breakdown of their marriage.
Fang Yinuo remarried, and her daughter fell ill, pushing her life into another abyss.
Watching the young children get sick and suffer, Fang Yinuo deeply feels the hardships of being a parent.
In addition to Fang Yinuo, Fang Yinuo's parents also broke their hearts for their daughter.
From the beginning of Fang Yinuo's birth, it was her mother who accompanied her until she gave birth, her mother retired early to help her with the child, and then she divorced, it was her father and mother who helped to take the child.
While they were carrying their children, they also asked their daughters to find their own happiness.
After Hehe fell ill, it was also his grandmother and grandfather who accompanied the bed every day.
As parents, they sold their insurance to help their daughter raise money to treat their granddaughter.
And Xiao Lu's mother, although she looked very grinning, but for the sake of her two sons, she also broke her heart.
Xiao Lu had children and divorced, and the old lady had done her best.
The youngest son, Xiao Xu, is not doing his job, and the old lady is also busy, even whispering in front of her own card friends to find a job for her young son.
In addition, she also asked her daughters-in-law to come to the house and hope that the children's family would be happy.
And Chen Tianhua's parents are even more for their son to swallow their anger, only for their son to be happy.
In addition, there is a mother in the play who is even more touching to us, she is Xiaoying's mother, her son is sick, she is alone in the hospital to take care of, and her husband works at sea.
No matter how serious Xiaoying's illness, she has never given up on her children, like most parents in life.
This drama tells us from beginning to end that it is not easy to be a parent, as long as we choose to become parents, no matter how difficult it is, we should take responsibility for ourselves.
That's real life.
02 It's not easy to be a husband
The two men who run through the whole play, Xiao Lu and Chen Tianhua.
Xiao Lu is diligent and self-motivated for his family, never sloppy in his work, and cannot take care of his family every day when he works overtime.
Usually the days are fine, but when it comes to the birth of his wife Fang Yinuo, it is precisely when he needs care and comfort, Xiao Lu still cannot take care of her body and emotions, and naturally the husband and wife feelings will be tested.
Although Xiao Lu had moved in with his sister-in-law and his own mother to help for the family, these could not replace the responsibility and care from her husband for Fang Yinuo.
Although Xiao Lu was tired enough after Fang Yinuo gave birth, he still did not realize his responsibility as a husband.
Later, in his marriage to Dong Fan, he also reflected on himself and had grown and progressed.
However, when his daughter fell ill and wanted to have another child to save his daughter, this incident made Dong Fan sad and desperate, and brought crisis to their marriage.
And Xie Tianhua, as Fang Yinuo's remarried husband, also paid a lot.
He married Fang Yinuo, his family did not agree, presumably in order to persuade his family, he made a lot of efforts.
He accepted Fang Yinuo's daughter as his stepfather, and also treated Hehe as his own biological daughter, and he sympathized with Xiao Lu and often took Hehe to meet with him.
After Hehe fell ill, he took care of him with all his heart, took out all his savings, sold his house, and even accepted another child from his wife and ex-husband.
The reality is cruel, as a husband is not to pay more to do a good job, it requires men to run their families with their hearts, whether the marriage is happy, men's efforts can not be ignored.
So, being a husband is also a hard thing.
03 It's not easy to be a wife.
When Fang Yinuo was Xiao Lu's wife, she endured Xiao Lu's evasion of family responsibilities, and also endured the carelessness and unreasonable trouble of Xiao Lu's family.
When she was Xie Tianhua's wife, although Xie Tianhua was very fond of her, the accusations and dissatisfaction from their families, especially his sister Xie Dan's frequent pickiness and embarrassment, Fang Yinuo chose to seek perfection.
Everyone's marriage has a variety of problems, especially as a wife, she has to deal with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and various family conflicts.
It's a very hard and exhausting thing.
Dong Fan, as Xiao Lu's remarried wife, she has to endure Xiao Lu secretly going to see her daughter, and she also has to endure Xiao Lu's connection with his ex-wife.
This kind of relationship requires not only what wisdom can solve, but also the pattern and belly, and it is quite difficult for Dong Fan to live well in such a relationship.
But this is the reality, we as parents, as husbands and wives, are not easy things, these roles require us to put in the effort and effort to manage well.
The happiness of a family is always inseparable from parents who think about their children, responsible husbands, and wives who are dedicated to business and have patterns and tolerance.
A happy family is a group of family members who can understand each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other.
So in the finale of the play, everyone reconciled.
Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu reconciled, Lei Wen reconciled with his father, Xie Dan and Xie Tianhua reconciled, and Su Jingwei and Xiao Lu reconciled.
They are reconciliations between husbands and wives, reconciliations between children and parents, reconciliations between sisters and brothers, and reconciliations between friends.
After experiencing various physical and mental tortures, everyone will grow, and the manifestation of maturity is to understand the hardships of others, to understand forgiveness and tolerance.
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