The first time Fang Yinuo went to the Xie family as Xie Tianhua's girlfriend, he was told by the would-be eldest sister-in-law Xie Dan in a yin and yang strange way.
Xie Tianhua wanted to take a stand and formally introduce the identity of Yinuo to his family.
Xie Dan immediately stopped him, and on the surface politely clipped a chopstick fish meat to Fang Yinuo, but his mouth was very sharp and asked: "I remember that you seem to be like Xiao Lu, you love to eat fish, right?" ”
Fang Yinuo smiled awkwardly and made a perfunctory sound, but Xie Dan still refused to give up.
"You said that this child is sometimes very interesting, how his father beat him and scolded him, he looked for me, he didn't look for his father." Is this daughter just like Xiao Lu? Don't they all say that this daughter is Daddy's intimate little cotton jacket? ”
If Xie Dan first mentioned Xiao Lu as a deliberately disgusting person, then the second time she mentioned Xiao Lu was to poke Fang Yinuo's heart socket.
Knowing that Xiao Lu had an extramarital affair, Fang Yinuo divorced. On the full moon wine of her daughter Hehe, Xiao San came to the door and made a noise that everyone knew about her relatives and friends.
For this reason, Fang Yinuo regarded Xiao Lu as a disgrace, and after the two divorced, he was not allowed to visit his daughter again.
Xie Dan poured well, mentioned Xiao Lu several times and three times, and deliberately said that his daughter was daddy's intimate little cotton jacket. If you don't give Fang Yinuo a good face, it's really cruel enough to poke people's hearts like this.
This family banquet was not happy and dispersed, but Fang Yinuo still married into the Xie family.
More than a year later, Xie's father, Mother Xie, and brother-in-law both accepted Fang Yinuo, and only Xie Dan still carried a gun and a stick to Fang Yinuo, the younger sister-in-law.
Fang Yinuo got up late in the morning, and she complained: "What time is it, why doesn't your daughter-in-law get up yet?" ”
Fang Yinuo helped her in-laws to do some housework, and she buried: "Yo, how about busy working here early in the morning?" Okay, no wonder your parents like you, more dear than to my daughter. ”
Xie Mu pet Hehe, she accused: "Are you such a grandmother?" What, pro-grandson is not pro-grandson is not? You're funny enough, it doesn't matter how far or near. ”
Father Xie asked her to say two words less, and she sneered: "Oh hey, now this world is really difficult, the old saying goes, the daughter who marries out, it is all spilled water, there is no status at home, it is not as good as a daughter-in-law." ”
Xie Dan's mouth is really too capable of rattling, and the words inside and outside are looking for Fang Yinuo's unhappiness.
Fang Yinuo endured, sometimes when he didn't hear it, sometimes he would even curry favor with Xie Dan.
But Xie Dan never appreciated it, and the most embarrassing time was he he celebrated his birthday.
Xie Dan held up his wine glass and said something against his heart, even her husband Song Guangming could not listen to her, saying that she was too hypocritical and too fake.
Seeing that the two couples are about to quarrel, or Fang Yinuo himself stood up to mediate, anyway, it has been spread to the open surface, it is better for everyone to open up and say a happy.
Some viewers said that Xie Dan is really too capable of provoking trouble, she no longer likes Fang Yinuo, people have been married into the door for more than a year, they have become a family, why do they always hold on to Fang Yinuo.
In fact, Xie Dan's reason for not being satisfied with Fang Yinuo was very simple.
"Fang Yinuo, I don't like you, and I don't accept you either." I feel like a loss, and I don't think it's worth it for my brother. My brother is a big boy, what kind of girl, he can't marry, why does he have to marry you? He doesn't even have his own children, so why bother with raising children for you every day? I feel sorry for him. ”
This is not only Xie Dan's heart words, this should be the heart words of everyone in the Xie family.
Fang Yinuo's reaction was: I accept, I change, until you are satisfied.
Some viewers were indignant: What happened to a woman with children married for the second time? Why should you be so aggrieved? Xie Dan had a temper towards her brother, and had the ability to ask his brother not to marry.
Some viewers also exclaimed: Fang Yinuo has become too much, if he did the same for his previous mother-in-law and husband, he would not have reached the point of divorce.
I agree with this view and oppose half of it.
What I agree with is that Fang Yinuo has really changed too much.
You see, Xie Danming tore his face with her, but Fang Yinuo also took the initiative to talk to Xie Dan, and even said that she could attack herself at any time like today.
"Where it is not done well, I will definitely try to correct it, from now on, if you feel unhappy one day, it is no problem to be like this at any time, I want to stay in this home."
It sounded very humiliating, not at all like what Fang Yinuo would say, but why did she have such a big change?
Before entering the door of the Xie family, Xie Dan was not satisfied with herself, Fang Yinuo knew it, but she did not know how to get along with Xie Dan as a sister-in-law, she said that home and everything was happy.
She knew that the reason why Xie Dan's nose was not her nose and her eyes were not eyes was because she was distressed by her brother Xie Tianhua.
Fang Yinuo also knew that Xie Tianhua had married herself as a stepfather, which was really a bit of a grievance, so she could bear everything she could bear.
But these were not the real reasons why Fang Yinuo was willing to accept Xie Dan's humiliation, the most important reason was that she met the right person.
Let's compare one thing.
When Fang Yinuo and his in-laws had a conflict, xiao Lu and Xie Tianhua, who were sandwiched in the middle, handled the problem.
When the first marriage was given, the mother-in-law came to bring Hehe, and Fang Yinuo did not allow the mother-in-law to smoke for the sake of the child's health. The mother-in-law secretly smoked and was caught twice by Fang Yinuo.
She asked Xiao Lu to talk to her mother-in-law, and she must let her mother-in-law quit smoking, and she must not smoke when taking the child.
Xiao Lu's approach was to coax both ends and persuade both ends to conceal.
Facing Fang Yinuo, he firmly denied that his mother smoked. Facing his mother, Fang Yinuo agreed that she could smoke when she was not with Hehe.
As a result, Fang Yinuo felt that her mother-in-law was dead and still lied, and her mother-in-law felt that Fang Yinuo was more than generous.
When the second marriage, the eldest sister-in-law Xie Dan always looked for Fang Yinuo's unhappiness.
Every time Xie Dan harassed her, in addition to firmly standing by Fang Yinuo's side, Xie Tianhua would also reason with Xie Dan and reiterate his position again and again.
"This is my own life, I hope you understand, and I hope you respect my own choices, I am your brother, you definitely want me to be well, right?" 」
"In the year of marriage, you have also seen how Yinuo behaved, what kind of relationship I have with her, in your eyes, no matter what you think and how you think, I don't care what others think and talk about, isn't it enough for me to live well?" Right, sister? ”
Because Xie Tianhua understands Fang Yinuo, she will also tolerate his family for Xie Tianhua.
After a long time, Xie Dan could not say any more gossip.
Have you ever found that a man's attitude is really important when a woman is with her in-laws.
When Fang Yinuo was Xiao Lu's wife, he felt like a lonely person every time. There is a gap with the mother-in-law, and there is a contradiction with the little uncle.
Her man Xiao Lu is mostly in the middle and thin mud, the problem can never be solved, not to mention, the hidden danger is still buried bigger and bigger.
When Fang Yinuo was Xie Tianhua's wife, Xie Tianhua was always her strong backing.
Xie Tianhua never evaded problems, they were all positive solutions, and he never let Fang Yinuo bear the pressure and harsh rebuke from Xie Dan alone.
When she first married, Xiao Lu turned a new mother into a female warrior.
At the time of the second marriage, Xie Tianhua turned a woman who had lost faith in marriage into an understanding and good wife again.
A good marriage is always mutually successful: a good man can make his wife more gentle, and a good woman can make his husband more responsible.