After reading "Dear Child", I understood that blessed people never say these three words

The TV series "Dear Child" came to an end, although it was a happy ending in the end, but when the role of Fang Yinuo was mentioned, it would still make many friends think of "misfortune".

The misfortune brought about by the first marriage is obvious to all, and when it was difficult to get rid of her ex-husband and harvest happiness, the child fell seriously ill and almost lost his life.

But if you think about it, you will find that a lot of things are.

Fang Yinuo chose it himself, don't always regret what you did, because it was once what you wanted, regret is useless, either forget, or work hard.

No one's life will be smooth sailing, and those blessed people who are envied by everyone are often relying on their own efforts to buy the current life.

And the blessed never utter these three words.

1. Discouraged words

Many people have such a habit, before doing anything, the first thing will think of the worst outcome, in fact, everyone's intention is to prepare themselves psychologically, so as not to be too disappointed after failing to achieve the expected results in the future.

It's not wrong to do everything, but don't say anything sad, no matter what everyone does,

Because there is a strange unwritten law in this world, the good does not work, the bad spirit.

When you have great expectations of something and feel that it will succeed, it may not necessarily succeed in the end, but if you always say something sad, then the result can easily fail.

In fact, this is related to everyone saying sad words, and frequent repetition of sad words will give the parties a psychological hint of "no".

When encountering difficulties in the future, the idea of "no" will not help but bubble up, and slowly, everyone's motivation will be consumed, and the matter will be really recognized from the heart.

So don't say discouraged words, cheer yourself up, even if the difficulty of this matter is really great, you must believe in yourself, even if you are not successful in the end, but as long as there is a one in ten thousand possibility, it also means that there is a chance.

2. Complaining

What you often hear in life should be all kinds of complaining words, some people complain about life, some people complain about work, and some people complain about family and love.

These people who always complain, their experience is certainly worthy of sympathy from others, but behind the sympathy, you can also see the existence of many problems.

When they complain, they involuntarily attribute all the causes of today's bad results to others, ignoring their own problems.

And by complaining, they will slowly add corresponding psychological hints to them, which will make them more firmly believe that they are innocent and blame others.

But in fact, the good or bad results cannot be caused by a person or a single factor, and there must be factors of the parties.

Even everyone should first conduct self-examination and review the mistakes they have made in this matter, only in this way can we try to avoid the recurrence of similar problems in the future.

If you just complain, then when you encounter the same problem again, the result will not change significantly.

3. Chilling words

In order to vent the dissatisfaction and resentment in their hearts, they can say anything, but some words can be said, and some words must not be said, especially those that are cold.

The leaves are not yellow a day, people's hearts are not cold, perhaps in everyone's opinion, even if they are angry, said those chilling words, as long as they apologize afterwards, but once, twice, the number of times, it is not an apology can be solved.

Cold words are sometimes like a knife, every time you say it, you will stab a knife in the heart of others, and if you talk too much, the wound will become deeper and deeper, and all your feelings will disappear.

Not only is love like this, friendship is the same, even family affection, will fade after a cold word, all the feelings and relationships in this world are to be managed with heart, not every time sorry, can be exchanged for a sentence that does not matter.

The so-called blessed people, in fact, in the eyes of others, is nothing more than the happiness of life, but the definition of happiness, everyone's standards are different, everyone should not base their happiness on the comparison with others.

Perhaps what seems to you to be a happy life is actually unacceptable to put on you, and the happiness you really want is only dispensable in the eyes of others.

Life does not need to be better than others, but it must be better than before, and the happiest thing in life is not to live like others, but to live more like yourself after hard work.

When you can continue to move forward in the direction you want, and use your own efforts to harvest the life you want, you will really feel what happiness is.

Sometimes, we don't always look into the distance, pay more attention to what we hold in our hands, and we will find that in fact, you have always had this thing of blessing.