The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an unsolvable problem.
In "Dear Child", the contradiction between Fang Yinuo and his mother-in-law is particularly obvious, not only the difference in living habits between the two generations, but also the difference in the parenting concepts of the two generations, which further intensifies the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In the play, Fang Yinuo is a staunch advocate of scientific parenting, but what about the mother-in-law? But they believe in the experience of their older generation. Therefore, the differences between the two people's parenting are obvious, and the differences in the parenting concepts of the two generations in the play can be found in our real life.
For example, in the end, when the mother-in-law washes the baby's clothes, she washes the adult's clothes with the baby's clothes. Fang Yinuo, on the other hand, was very unacceptable to this, believing that the baby's clothes must be washed separately from the adults. But in the mother-in-law's view, for so many years, the laundry obedience has been washed together with the clothes of a large number of people, so many years have come, there is no problem, I feel that there is no need to wash the clothes of adults and children separately.
Should my baby's clothes be washed separately or with the adult's clothes?
I have to say that the experience of many elderly people still has a lot of merit, but there are inevitably some misunderstandings.
Some experiences may have passed away due to the development of the times. Therefore, we should not blindly superstitious experience, but should keep pace with the times, and pay more attention to scientific parenting methods in parenting, so that babies can suffer less.
Baby skin is delicate, especially newborn babies need to pay more attention, otherwise, it is easy to cause skin problems in the baby, so that the baby suffers unceasingly.
Common misconceptions when washing clothes for newborn babies
Myth 1: Wash adults' clothes with your baby's clothes
First of all, adults are exposed to many more bacteria than children. The area where the baby moves is small, while the adult often walks around outside and is exposed to more bacteria. If the adult and the baby's clothes are washed together, the bacteria on the adult's clothes will be transmitted to the baby's clothes.
And the baby's skin is delicate, and the body's resistance is weak. Therefore, washing the adult's clothes together with the baby's clothes is more likely to cause the baby to have skin problems.
This is actually the same as adults feeding babies with their mouths. There are many more bacteria in the mouth of adults than children, if adults touch food and then feed them to the baby, then it is possible to transmit the bacteria in the mouth of adults to the baby, causing the baby to get sick.
Myth 2: Use ordinary laundry detergent to wash your baby's clothes
Some parents who are not careful enough may wash the clothes of adults and children separately when washing clothes for their babies, but they use adult laundry detergent to wash their babies' clothes.
Because of the laundry detergent used by adults, the substances added to it may have no effect and damage on the skin of adults, but for small babies, it may cause problems with the baby's skin. Because there are many chemicals in adult laundry detergents, it may affect the health of your baby's skin.
Baby skin is delicate, weak resistance, for the baby's skin health, it is best to wash the baby's clothes when washing clothes for the baby, give the baby a special detergent for the baby to wash clothes, so as to better maintain the health of the baby's skin.
Myth 3: Add disinfectant when washing your baby's clothes
When some parents wash their baby's clothes, in order to better sterilize and disinfect, they may add disinfectants when washing the baby's clothes, thinking that the clothes washed out in this way are cleaner and have fewer bacteria, so this practice is also undesirable.
Adding disinfectant to the baby's laundry is a very wrong approach, disinfectant more or less contains a certain degree of toxicity and corrosiveness, may not have a big impact on adults, but it is a big problem when used in the baby, the baby's skin is delicate, and the harm to the baby's skin is very large.
When you want to wash your baby's clothes, better disinfection and sterilization, then the best way is to use a washing machine with blue light disinfection and sterilization effect for your baby, so as to better disinfect and sterilize.
Myth 4: Use a washing machine to wash the clothes of infants and babies
Some parents in order to facilitate and save trouble, when washing clothes for the baby, they directly use the washing machine to wash, which is also not good, especially newborn babies.
Because the washing machine is most likely to hide dirt and dirt, hiding bacteria. Especially in some washing machines that have not been cleaned for many years, it is easier to breed bacteria in the washing machine. Using such a washing machine to wash your baby's clothes, even if it is washed clean, it will be contaminated with a lot of bacteria, which will lead to skin problems in the baby.
It is recommended that babies under one year of age, preferably using handwriting. And use infant-specific laundry detergent and laundry soap to wash the baby's clothes, so as to better protect the health of the baby's skin.
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Different stains on your baby's clothes, use different cleaning methods
When washing your baby's clothes with urine stains, it is more convenient to add a little yeast and then soak for 10 minutes before washing. When cleaning the milk stains, add some laundry detergent that uses enzymes to make it easier to clean.
Tips:
It is best to wash your baby's clothes as soon as possible, which is not only easier to wash, but also avoids the accumulation of clothes for a long time, breeding bacteria and cross infections.
If the baby's clothes are too dirty, you can soak properly, it is best to keep it within 30 minutes, soaking time is not good, easy to breed bacteria, resulting in bacterial cross-infection.
It is best not to be lazy when washing your baby's clothes, but should be washed in time.