On February 22, the TV series "Nine Bends of Love" was updated to episode 12. In the latest plot content, Yang Shumao's mother summoned the ability to cry, make trouble and hit her head three times, forcing Yang Shumao to break up with Ye Fei and marry Zhao Yajing. Yang Shumao was even kidnapped by fucking emotions and had to make a breakup call to Ye Fei, which caused many subsequent misunderstandings. This play really made the old editor stunned!
However, I have also seen some young viewers think that the play in which Yang's mother can force her son to succeed is unreal, and in real life, there will be no such mother, and even if she appears, she will not succeed. It is not surprising that young audiences have this view, on the contrary, it is a manifestation of the progress of the times. Moreover, this kind of progress is the result of thousands of "poplar mao".
In the eighties and nineties of the last century, there were many parents like Yang's mother who left and right the marriage of their children, and even wanted to arrange the marriage of their children. They do this for a number of reasons. The most direct reason why I can talk directly to my children is that parents are more experienced and know what kind of marriage is more conducive to the stability of life. This kind of high-sounding words has even been said until now.
The second reason is that these older parents are themselves arranged by marriage, so they lose their power and are definitely not willing to let their children gain it. This is something that many people are reluctant to mention, or do not want to believe. However, this phenomenon is widespread among a large number of uneducated parents. Therefore, education has a long way to go. Yang Mu and the like are like this.
The third reason is that this group of parents has typical egoism. In "Nine Bends of Love", Yang's mother and Yang's father are even thinking about how much money they will pay to the family after Yang Shumao gets married. This is typical pension thinking. Under this mode of thinking, who helps their pension, or helps more directly in the short term, is their most welcome.
However, it is important to remember that in the eighties and nineties of the last century, there was a social phenomenon that must be paid attention to, and the ratio of men and women was similar. Moreover, women of the right age, who do not marry over the age of 22 and do not have in-laws, will have to endure the "irregularity" of powerful public opinion. Therefore, in the marriage "market", there is no problem of female strength. Even, many times, some relatively good men will be competed for. Under this situation, Yang's mother is a strong side.
Therefore, she dared to obstruct her son's marriage and dare to directly rebuke Ye Fei. This is determined by the characteristics of the times of that year. Today's young children feel that the content of this plot is fake because the current marriage "market" has changed. What has become of it? First of all, there is a serious imbalance between men and women, and there are particularly few women of school age. Then, a large number of women do not marry and are not morally condemned.
In this situation, the marriage "market" is tilted towards women. Many parents who have recognized the situation, especially those parents who have boundless chickens, have long known that no matter which girlfriend their son finds, as long as others are satisfied, they will have to carry a hundred. I have seen that many parents now, in front of their daughters-in-law, have become maids. This is the change caused by the social reality that the marriage "market" is heavily tilted towards the woman.
Many children who have not experienced the 80s and 90s feel that the story of Yang's mother in "Nine Bends of Love" is untrue. As everyone knows, there are many things that this group of children don't know. Back then, that's what it looked like. In fact, at present, the same mother-in-law makes young people unable to empathize, you may wish to change your thinking, the same mother-in-law? After the marriage "market" is tilted towards the woman, does the same mother-in-law appear in large numbers?
In the marriage of young men and women, the woman's parents do not respect love, but only want to make profits, right? This Yang mother in "Nine Bends of Love", if the woman's parent, put it in the present, does everyone feel particularly real. His daughter wants to marry a young man, and his mother just fancy a richer young man, so is it particularly present to cry and hang himself with his daughter?
Even in the marriage of their daughters, these parents think not of the happiness of their children, but of how much bride money you can give me. Isn't that true? Even after their daughters get married, these parents still think about whether they can get more money from their daughters' marriages. What is the difference between this and what Yang's mother thinks, her son needs pension money after marriage?
At present, it is not easy for boys to get married, so the parents of the man have converged, they are all honest, and they all know not to make a mess. The woman's parents are not. They know that even if they mess up the marriage of the girl, the girl can still remarry again, remarry again, and still receive bride price money, which can obviously cheapen the parents of this group of women. Does the same mother-in-law like Mother Yang exist everywhere?
Whether it is the same mother-in-law or the same mother-in-law, why can they be coerced to success? It is really the simple affection of our countrymen. Your mother is going to hang herself, your mother hits the table, what can you do? You can only sacrifice your love. At the moment, there are no such mothers-in-law. At present, this kind of mother-in-law is flourishing. You bump into whatever you bump, the breeze blows the big post. How many girls dare to do this? Therefore, the value of "Nine Bends of Love" is here. (Text/Ma Qingyun)