Text/Pirate Jun (no plagiarism, the theft of the pictures produced must be investigated)
Title: The mother-in-law entered her daughter-in-law's bedroom to turn off the air conditioner, and the daughter-in-law shouted cold and was blinded by her mother-in-law: if she is too cold, get up and do more work
A mother-in-law is not a mother, and a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seem to be a natural enemy.
Many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law always can't get along, and often have conflicts because of a small thing in life. These small contradictions accumulate into small contradictions and eventually become irreconcilable big contradictions.
When these contradictions are irreconcilable, the two sides become unforgettable enemies.
In Hefei, Anhui Province, a 31-year-old woman was resting in her bedroom, when her mother-in-law pushed the door to enter and turned off the air conditioner directly and reprimanded her daughter-in-law: get up and work more when it is cold.
If the mother-in-law's thinking is more traditional and the daughter-in-law's mind is more open, the two sides will have differences due to some differences in philosophy.
These differences are not actually a big deal, and even have some truth from the perspective of both sides, and there is no right or wrong between the two.
But if both parties lack the ability to communicate, can't communicate well, or can't think from the other's point of view, it will accumulate hatred.
On that day, the couple rested in the bedroom, the two lay on the bed playing with mobile phones, and the air conditioning in the house was very warm.
At this time, the mother-in-law suddenly pushed the door without knocking, as if she felt the temperature in the room, and she immediately rolled her eyes at her daughter-in-law in the bed bed.
The mother-in-law walked directly into the house and picked up the remote control to turn off the air conditioner, and the son muttered "what do I do with the air conditioner", and the mother-in-law immediately said: This day is not very cold, how to turn on the air conditioner.
The son replied without raising his head: Isn't it very cold on such a cold day? In this way, the cold air conditioner is quickly turned on.
The mother-in-law ignored her son and was about to go out, when the daughter-in-law suddenly interjected and said: Children are playing here without clothes, and you can't turn on the air conditioner?
The daughter-in-law's words immediately poked the hornet's nest, and the mother-in-law immediately pulled her throat and shouted: You can't give him more clothes.
The daughter-in-law's temper came up and immediately replied: Isn't it uncomfortable to wear clothes? Isn't it cold to play here?
When the mother-in-law heard this sentence, she was not angry: if she was too cold, she would come down and do more work, and it was not cold at all.
Then the mother-in-law rolled her eyes at her daughter-in-law and slowly walked out of the bedroom, not forgetting to help her son and daughter-in-law close the door while rolling her eyes.
The daughter-in-law posted this video on her social account, which immediately made netizens explode, and many netizens said: It's too suffocating.
Some netizens said: It is too difficult for a woman to marry a deaf and dumb husband. Pay your own electricity bill, you can save a lot of gas.
This is completely a collision of two concepts of life.
From her mother-in-law's point of view, she knows from the hard days that life is not easy, it is difficult to make money, it is very frugal for her family to survive, and turning on the air conditioner in winter is "enjoyment", if you don't open it, you won't be able to live, and you can save a lot of money.
For her daughter-in-law: she grew up under the care of her parents, did not know the difficulties of life and making money, and her concept of consumption is relatively modern, thinking that money is earned to enjoy.
There is a crux here, that is, "money", money is the root of many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts.
Although "money is earned" for enjoyment, the premise is also "money", and there is no money to spend money on unnecessary "enjoyment", which is undoubtedly "wasting money".
In other words, is the whole family enjoying the air conditioning, or is it just this little couple hiding in their room and lying in the warm bedding enjoying the air conditioning, while the other elders in the family are working in the cold to earn money to feed the family?
Although mother-in-law is often outdated and outdated, and needs to be slowly guided by young people, it is not advisable for juniors to enjoy "eating alone" for themselves.
As the netizen said: make money to pay for electricity, don't gnaw the old and don't have to be angry.
Otherwise, when the mother-in-law says "if you are too cold, come down and do more work", you who lie in bed do not even have the confidence to refute it.
What do you have to say about this?