Married because of love, but broken up because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, such things happen around you repeatedly, which makes people feel very pity, and the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become a hurdle that must be overcome in marriage.
Jiejie and her husband Wang Qing are college classmates, the love in college vows mountain alliance, sweet and romantic, the two got married after graduation. Jiejie's mother-in-law's family is from the city, she is a foreign student, and after getting married, she will marry far away, originally she thought that she was used to the city, but what she didn't expect was that she couldn't get used to her husband's family.
My husband Xiaoyu is the only child in the family, and then, there are grandfather, grandmother, father, mother, and their two little couples. Because the family's house is big enough, there is no new marriage room for marriage, they are a large family of three generations.
However, this big family does not make people's lives so happy, and on the morning of the second day of marriage, her mother-in-law said to Jiejie: "You go and wash Xiaoyu's socks, you will wash his dirty clothes in the future, and you will prepare the new clothes he will wear the next day." You have a family, you are an adult, you have to learn to take care of him. I've been married to your dad for decades, and that's how I did. ”
Jiejie listened with a confused look, how did she get married, she became a nanny. She said to her mother-in-law: "Xiaoyu is also an adult, he is my husband, and he must also learn to care about me, why do I wash his socks, my mother's socks are all washed by my father." ”
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law almost broke out in a "big war" on the first day, and the future life was even more like sitting on pins and needles, and her mother-in-law thought she didn't cook breakfast, and she thought her mother-in-law was too lenient.
In the end, it was decided to buy a new house, and they moved out, but the mother-in-law's family was reluctant to let their husbands and demanded that they must buy a house in the same neighborhood, and they ate at home at least twice a day, otherwise the old people would not agree.
If you say that if you love someone, you will marry him, Jiejie feels that it is a family of five who marries herself, and you need to love them and tolerate them at the same time, so that this life can go on. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become a grain of sand in married life, making you have a toothache and you can't speak.
Many young people are reluctant to get married because you are not the only one in marriage. Whether the family relationship is harmonious, especially whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be handled well, also determines whether your life is happy. Many girls who have just married feel that the in-law family always makes it difficult for themselves and it is difficult to integrate into the family, which is actually the reason for the original family of the in-law family.
[gf]25c9[/gf]Ma Bao's family, mother-in-law always sees that the daughter-in-law is not competent enough
Is it necessary to continue the marriage with Ma Baoman? Many girls who encounter Ma Bao Man will have such questions, living with Ma Bao Man, why do most people feel unhappy? Because you are married to a husband, the family is to have a stable life, a sheltered harbor, but what you need, "Ma Bao Man" can not give you at all, he has relied on his parents for decades before marriage, and after marriage, he only hopes that you can take over the task of your in-laws and continue to take care of him.
If as soon as you get married, you become a man's "mother" and need to take care of him at will, it is estimated that few people can do it. Moreover, even if you have tried hard to adapt, your mother-in-law will dislike you for not doing well enough to care for your children like her.
In such a family, the mother-in-law thinks that you are not doing well enough, and the husband only listens to his mother, it is difficult to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
[gf]25c9[/gf] Mothers don't love their sons enough and don't treat their daughters-in-law too well
There are many families that are more special, a friend of mine married a family of two brothers, her husband is the eldest in the family, and then the child who grew up with his grandmother, his mother's feelings for him and his brother are judgmental, and the two daughters-in-law and children are often treated differently.
Mother-in-law can not love her son enough, let alone daughter-in-law, if you encounter such a situation, can only say that if the husband and wife are of the same heart, life is relatively happy.
[gf]25c9[/gf] The husband does not pay enough attention to his wife, and the in-laws will despise you
Marrying a husband who loves you is happier than marrying you someone you love, this is the voice of many married women, of course, it is best for couples to love each other very much.
When a girl arrives at her in-laws' house, she enters a strange collective, they are all people who love each other and are related by blood, only you are an outsider. Therefore, your husband's attitude towards you directly determines your status in your in-laws' family.
The daughter-in-law is an outsider, but the son is biological, if you are the person your husband values the most, the mother-in-law loves the house and Wu will also be better for you, because you are not good for the daughter-in-law, and the son will also be unhappy. If your husband does not pay attention to you, or even neglects you, there will be no one to protect you in the family, and the situation will be more difficult.
What does marriage really bring us? This is a question that many women have after marriage. However, we can't give up easily, marriage needs two people to maintain together, and it is also a harbor of love built by two people, and do and cherish it!