Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law show that the two people do not have any blood relations, and only rely on family affection and the same man to maintain superficial harmony and harmony.
Once between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but anyone who crosses the line, or has a big face and no self-awareness, then the superficial harmony between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to maintain.
No one likes a mother-in-law with a big face and no self-awareness, let alone relatives. If you live in someone else's home for a long time, you must have self-knowledge and know how to measure up, rather than blindly letting others accommodate you and obey you.
As the saying goes: Staying for a long time is despicable, and frequent relatives are also alienated. Meaning: Staying in someone else's home for a long time can be annoying; too many exchanges between relatives can alienate relationships. Even the best relatives, the best family members, must be separated by a bowl of soup.
01, the son bought a house, the in-laws did nothing
In this world, there is always a kind of person who has a thick skin and is not self-aware. Zhong Qing's mother-in-law is such a person. Obviously, he did nothing when his son bought a house, did not pay or contribute, but he liked to talk about the house and threatened Zhong Qing to compromise with her daughter.
When Zhong Qing and her husband got married, they were naked and had nothing. The in-laws did not give a penny of dowry, did not buy a marriage house, and the parents did not agree with Zhong Qing's marriage, naturally they were not willing to give too much dowry.
Not long after marriage, the couple went outside to work, saving money and working overtime, just in order to save enough money for the down payment of the house as soon as possible. After three years of hard work, Zhong Qing's parents gave 100,000 yuan, plus the money they saved, and finally they were able to buy a house in the city.
When renovating, the couple had no money, and Zhong Qing's parents couldn't bear it, and they forced their daughter to give 100,000 yuan. Therefore, the parents spent 200,000 yuan for their house.
When applying for a real estate certificate, the husband said very generously that his parents-in-law had paid 200,000 yuan, and the house only wrote Zhong Qing's name. Seeing that her husband was so insistent, Zhong Qing did not refuse again. Anyway, both people are married, and the title deed writes whose name is the same.
02, the mother-in-law let the daughter-in-law suffer from the master bedroom for the divorced daughter to live
After buying a house and settling down, Zhong Qing conceived a child as she wished. It's just that after pregnancy, Zhong Qing's body is not as good as before, and she often feels nauseous and wants to vomit. And the husband was busy at work and couldn't take care of her, so he had to let his mother-in-law come to the city to take care of Zhong Qing's food, clothing and living.
When the mother-in-law first came, people were very diligent and rushed to do everything. Later, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along for a long time, and slowly there were contradictions and quarrels. Especially for housework and three meals a day, the mother-in-law is not very attentive, think of it to do it, can't think of it and make Zhong Qing do it.
Some time ago, the mother-in-law suddenly gave her a lot of courtesy, not only to make her three meals a day, but also to carry out a big hygiene, even Zhong Qing's master bedroom, the mother-in-law carefully cleaned it. Zhong Qing thought that her mother-in-law was found by conscience, but she did not expect that with the arrival of her sister-in-law, she found that her mother-in-law was too scheming.
The husband also has a younger sister who married three years before them. The mother-in-law has always been very fond of this daughter, and every three or five minutes she sends things to send money to subsidize it. Even the sister-in-law gave birth to two children, but the mother-in-law rushed to serve, and people who did not know it thought that it was the mother-in-law's grandson.
Some time ago, the mother-in-law did not go through Zhong Qing's consent, directly brought the sister-in-law and her two children to the home, saying that the sister-in-law was abused by the family, divorced in a huff, and now the two children with her, she is a divorced woman, and with two children, strange and pitiful, the mother's family can not not take her in.
Although Zhong Qing was a little surprised, she thought that her sister-in-law had a strong personality, and after marrying her, she always worked against her mother-in-law, and the two often quarreled. This time, because of a small quarrel, the sister-in-law first pushed her mother-in-law, but she did not expect that her husband just happened to see it. Without saying a word, he slapped his sister-in-law. The sister-in-law was angry, but at the instigation of her mother-in-law, she divorced directly, and now she has no place to go, so she can only go back to her mother's house.
For the sister-in-law's encounter, Zhong Qing was still very sympathetic and agreed to live with her two children. But the mother-in-law opened her mouth again, saying that the sister-in-law lived in the in-law's house and was accustomed to a big house, and now with two children, the guest room was too small and too crowded, and the three of them could not live, so that Zhong Qing vacated the master bedroom for the sister-in-law to live.
03, "Daughter-in-law, the room is my son's, vacate the master bedroom for my daughter to live"
As soon as Zhong Qing heard it, it was a fire. She was kind enough to take in her sister-in-law, so why did she ask her to be a sister-in-law to accommodate the divorced sister-in-law and free her up the master bedroom?
But my mother-in-law stifled her, so I bought the house at my son's expense, and his house is my house, and I have the right to be the master. Daughter-in-law, the house belongs to my son, is it not a matter of course for my daughter to vacate the master bedroom for my daughter?
The mother-in-law's words made Zhong Qing cry and laugh. She resolutely refused to let go of the master bedroom, and her mother-in-law also cried and made trouble and hanged herself. Looking at her lying and messing up, Zhong Qing was really speechless to the end. She did not show mercy to her mother-in-law, nor did she want to grievance herself for her husband, so she directly took out the real estate certificate and fell in front of her.
The mother-in-law picked up the real estate deed and saw clearly that it only had the name of the daughter-in-law written on it, and she was immediately blindfolded. The mother-in-law shouted, this must be fake, my son bought the house, how come only your name is written?
Zhong Qing can not care about the mother-in-law pretending to be crazy and selling stupid, she directly told her mother-in-law, buy a house and renovate, my parents out of 200,000, you, nothing, you have no right to be the owner of my house. The sister-in-law is divorced, I sympathize with her, it is okay to live down, but for a maximum of three months. Either live in the guest room, or make a floor in the living room, or go out to rent a house, I am not used to her.
The mother-in-law is crying and crying, the husband is still advising Zhong Qing, the sister-in-law with the child to live in the guest room or the floor is really inconvenient, or they vacate the master bedroom. Looking at her husband, Zhong Qing was completely speechless. Where is the divorced sister-in-law who robs her brother-in-law's master bedroom? Not to mention that she was pregnant, so the big family did not have any rules.
Since the mother-in-law and sister-in-law were unwilling, Zhong Qing did not force them and directly drove people away. Anyway, let her vacate the master bedroom, there is no door. What qualifications does a mother-in-law who has not paid a penny have to point fingers in her house?
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