Mother-in-law busy sightseeing, daughter-in-law caesarean section to give birth to their own confinement, 5 years later mother-in-law stroke daughter-in-law: no obligation

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the first ten years to see the mother-in-law, the next ten years to see the daughter-in-law. In the first ten years, the mother-in-law knew how to give grace and knew that it was not easy to be considerate of the daughter-in-law. Then in the next ten years, it is natural to exchange for the retribution of the daughter-in-law.

Everything has a cause and effect, and the mother-in-law has not treated the daughter-in-law kindly, and the daughter-in-law naturally will not think of the mother-in-law's kindness. Don't use the moral kidnapping set to scare people, the reason why the daughter-in-law is frightened is not because she is afraid of her mother-in-law, but because she does not want her husband to fall into a situation of filial piety.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always exchanged their hearts for sincerity. If the mother-in-law pays sincerely, the daughter-in-law will not throw you a face. But the mother-in-law has never paid sincerity, so how can she force her daughter-in-law to fulfill her filial piety?

01, the mother-in-law looks down, no bride price and no marriage room

When Mo Min married her husband, her in-laws were strongly opposed. The reason is that Mo Min is from the countryside, and there is a younger brother in the family, which is a heavy burden. Moreover, the mother-in-law also believes that Mo Min's education is not as high as her son's, her salary is not as high as her son's, and she is not worthy of her son, and Mo Min belongs to Gao Pan.

Under the many blows of his mother-in-law, Mo Min almost gave up. If it were not for the husband's insistence on marrying, perhaps the two people would have parted ways long ago, and there would not be so many trivial things that occurred later, affecting the feelings of the husband and wife.

Because the mother-in-law looked down on herself, the mother-in-law did not give Mo Min a penny of the bride price, let alone buy a wedding house. Fortunately, Mo Min has a good temperament, although the in-laws look down on themselves, but she has endured for her husband, and she also honors her in-laws with her husband.

Later, with the joint efforts of the husband and wife, they bought a house in the city, moved away from their in-laws' house, and also stayed away from the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Only three years after marriage, Mo Min has not been able to conceive a child as she wishes.

Although the husband did not say anything, the mother-in-law's attitude was very bad, and she was difficult at every turn, and she said some cynical words from time to time. Although the husband is uncomfortable to hear, but the other party is his mother, he is not good to do with the mother-in-law, most of the time, can only persuade Mo Min to endure.

02, the mother-in-law is busy sightseeing in the mountains, and the daughter-in-law has a caesarean section to give birth to her own confinement

Fortunately, Huang Tian did not pay off, and after Mo Min adjusted his body, he was still pregnant after all. In order to reduce the burden on her husband, Mo Minyan insisted on going to work until she gave birth. What she didn't expect was that even if she had a child by caesarean section, her mother-in-law did not come to take care of it.

The husband is on the phone again, and he is back to his hometown to pick up, but the mother-in-law refuses to come, saying that he will have a handmaiden film, who is rare and who goes to serve. She is now busy traveling and enjoying her old age. Anyway, she does not expect her daughter-in-law to retire in the future, whose daughter will take care of her.

The mother-in-law's words reached Mo Min's ears, and she was silent for most of the day. After that, Mo Min didn't say anything again, and even she was so strong that she didn't even inform her mother and parents, and she endured the pain of the knife wound of the caesarean section by herself and got up to take care of the child.

Although the husband also feels that the mother-in-law does things excessively, after all, taking care of the confinement and taking the child is the love of the elderly, not the duty, and he is not good at demanding too much from his parents. In the end, the whole confinement is Mo Min taking care of himself. It's just that even when it comes to the full moon, Mo Min's wounds are still not complete.

The husband goes to work during the day, and at night he helps to take down the children, and sometimes he works late overtime, so he can only take the children alone by Mo Min. During that time, Mo Min was in a very bad mood, very anxious, and even slightly depressed. Fortunately, watching her daughter gradually grow up and become cute, Mo Min slowly let go of herself.

03, 5 years later mother-in-law stroke, daughter-in-law: no obligation

In order to raise children, Mo Min quit her high-paying job and stayed at home full-time. The financial pressure is all on the husband alone, the mortgage car loan to raise children, the husband is overwhelmed.

But every time he went to ask his mother-in-law to help take the child and let Mo Min go out to work, the mother-in-law always said with a straight face, I don't want you to marry this daughter-in-law, you prefer to marry. Since you have enough to drink, do it yourself, and don't come to me.

When Mo Min heard what her mother-in-law said, she cried a lot and had a big fight with her husband. Just quarrelsome, for the sake of the child, Mo Min still endured. When the children are slightly older, Mo Min also earns some pocket money part-time to reduce the burden for her husband.

5 years later, the mother-in-law suffered a stroke and needed to be cared for in the hospital. Her husband told her that he hoped she could take care of her, but Mo Min ignored it. In desperation, the husband had to work during the day and accompany the bed at night, and when the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, the husband was much more haggard. Although Mo Min was distressed, he did not intend to take care of his mother-in-law's pension.

But after the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, her husband had to take her to the house and wanted Mo Min to take care of her. After all, he also has to earn money to support his family and take care of his mother-in-law who has suffered a stroke, and he is really lacking in skills and has no time to take care of it.

04, the daughter-in-law turned away the mother-in-law

But this time, Mo Min did not accept it, but directly pushed her mother-in-law to the door, telling her husband: Your parents have always looked down on me, did not give a bride price when they got married, did not buy a wedding house, and even got pregnant and gave birth to a child, your mother still travels around in the mountains, let alone waiting for the confinement and taking the child. Since she stood idly by when I was most difficult, she was sick and had nothing to do with me. My mother-in-law is not obliged to serve my daughter-in-law, nor am I obliged to serve my mother-in-law.

Mo Min cried as he spoke, as if the heartache and grievances of so many years had only been vented at this moment. But after venting, Mo Min also closed the door. The mother-in-law who was locked out of the door was angry and sad, and finally shed tears, and kept confessing her mistake.

But wrong is wrong, and making up for it will not help. The husband is very embarrassed, on the one hand is the mother, on the other side is the wife, he can not completely ignore his mother, but Mo Min's attitude is very resolute, if he dares to take his mother to the family, Mo Min will divorce him.

The husband was still pleading outside the door, saying that the feud of the confinement was really not shared in the sky? If his mother knew that she was wrong, would she be hated for the rest of her life?

The daughter-in-law of other people's families has been treated unfairly, how to turn Gan Ge into a jade veil, and still accept her in-laws to provide for the elderly, Mo Min does not know. But in her case, the feud of the confinement is that it cannot be passed.

The grievances and heartaches suffered at the beginning were not understood or compensated by anyone, but after the mother-in-law fell ill, one by one morally kidnapped her to serve without regard to her previous suspicions. She thinks she's not so broad-minded that she can't laugh at people who hurt her.

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