The mother-in-law did not take good care of her during the month, which caused the woman to be dissatisfied: Mother-in-law, you remembered, and you will eat this later

Looking at the slightly perfunctory meal in front of her, the woman in the moon was not a taste in her heart, and then remembered the scene of being completely ignored during the previous pregnancy, and a fire rose in the woman's heart.

This is the content of a video posted by a woman on her online account recently, and it is clear that from the perspective of the picture and text description, I am afraid that this "liangzi" is concluded.

It is said that it is not appropriate to settle the knot, let alone between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

But it is undeniable that in real life, this contradiction occurs between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the light ones fall into quarrels with each other, and the heavy ones, the two may be strangers for a lifetime.

It can be said that since ancient times, in the family relationship, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship to deal with, and this problem has Chinese faced for thousands of years and has not yet found a good solution.

Generally speaking, there is no direct contradiction and conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and many times the outbreak of contradictions is accumulated from sparse and ordinary small things, and it is gathered to a certain extent before it finally breaks out.

In the face of this contradiction, the husband's mediation is indispensable, but the war between two women, the man as a son and the husband, in fact, is often very entangled, it can be said that this choice problem is not easy to do.

It is said that "men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women marry the wrong man", for women, marrying the wrong man is terrible, and if you can't meet a mother-in-law who can live in harmony with yourself, it is also a serious hidden danger.

This time, it was a woman who was in confinement who complained to her mother-in-law, and it was obviously difficult for the woman to accept her mother-in-law's carelessness.

In front of the woman is the woman's meal, look at the table in front of you, a bowl of porridge, a bowl of orchids, a pancake, this is the woman's meal.

Women know how sensitive women are in confinement, and this sensitivity is not only mental sensitivity, but also physical sensitivity in many cases.

Chinese women have to confinement after giving birth, which is not to say that Chinese women like to confinement, but because of physical factors, they have to sit confinement, and the confinement is not good, and the second half of their lives are sick.

It is precisely because of this lesson and experience that women should sit in confinement after giving birth to children, take good care of their bodies, and avoid leaving what we call "confinement disease" in the future, so it can be seen that whether the confinement is sitting well or not is directly related to the health of women.

Obviously, this kind of "coarse tea and light rice" placed in front of the woman is too careless for confinement people, and according to the woman, this meal is made by her mother-in-law.

From this kind of meal, the woman saw that her mother-in-law did not care, so she was very annoyed, so she said: This is my confinement meal, my mother-in-law you remember, you will eat this later! It seems that the contradiction between the woman and the mother-in-law will be difficult to resolve in the future.

Some netizens persuaded the woman, perhaps the mother-in-law came from the era of suffering and was accustomed to a hard life, so there was no malice in this regard, but the intention was insufficient, and did not mind too much.

But just as the so-called contrast is harmful, not compared with others, just in terms of her own experience, the woman said that she returned to her mother's house, her mother killed chicken and cut meat, made a table of rich meals to entertain her daughter, and the woman also had a full meal.

And once the mother's meal and the mother-in-law's meal are compared, the woman is not angry, and the breath that is held in her heart cannot be swallowed.

If the mother-in-law cooks such a meal because of a problem of habit or negligence, rather than a deliberate disregard for the daughter-in-law, then this situation is still forgivable.

But the woman once again said that such a performance is already the mother-in-law's greatest "gift" to her.

It turned out that this time confinement was already the third time for a woman, and when she gave birth to a child in the first two times, her mother-in-law behaved even worse than now, and she didn't even ask.

Now that she has given birth to her third child, her mother-in-law has finally changed a little and begun to cook herself a few meals from time to time, but just like the meals on the table, even if she has made a meal, it is enough to see that the mother-in-law is not careful.

For the woman's encounter, many netizens sympathized, but many netizens expressed envy.

Some netizens said: their mother-in-law has never cooked for herself, and some said that the best rice made by her mother-in-law in the month is tomato scrambled eggs.

It can be seen that even if this kind of thing is treated in the confinement, there is no worst, only more miserable. Care that many people don't like is what others want and can't expect.

But then again, after all, confinement is related to a woman's physical condition for the rest of her life, so in this kind of thing, women need to be well taken care of.

As far as the author knows, I have heard too many elderly aunts and grandmothers around me, because the confinement is not done well, the body has left a variety of problems, this disease has a root cause, and it is basically difficult to cure for a lifetime.

It can be said that it is understandable that women have this dissatisfaction in their hearts.

However, as an adult, others are good to themselves, remember the good of others, others are not willing to do, do not force others to do. Just understand one thing: do what you have to do.

If the mother-in-law is willing to help take care of herself, she must be grateful, and those who are unwilling to take care of it do not have to be forced, let alone remember hate. This is everyone's choice, not by themselves, and blame others, and how to go in the future is also their own business, do a good job of yourself.