The happiest thing for people to reach middle age is: there is a home, there is money to earn, and porridge can be warm

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The British writer Owen said: "The purpose of all human efforts is to attain happiness." ”

Some people think that having money is happiness; others think that living a free life is happiness.

And Lin Yutang believes that happiness is nothing more than four things:

One is to sleep in your own bed; the second is to eat dishes made by your parents; the third is to listen to your lover's love story; the fourth is to play games with your children.

Life is in the sea, through half a life, learn to look down on many people and things.

When you return, you will slowly understand that happiness is nothing more than:

There is a home, there is money to earn, someone asks you porridge is warm.

There is a homecoming, which is the backing

Ma Dong once said: "All the bitterness in the heart only needs a little sweetness to fill it." ”

The moment the adult collapses, it is nothing more than looking at the lights of thousands of homes in other places, but none of them are lit for themselves.

Life is not easy, everyone has pain in their hearts, and home is that sweetness.

Home can not only eliminate the haze for you, give you warmth, but also give you the confidence to retreat, so that you have the determination to start again.

In the eyes of the world, you can only stand on your feet if you succeed, only your family will give you comfort, and after you have tried again and again without success, you will say to you: "No, let's go home." ”

A friend shared an experience of his own.

She just broke up with her boyfriend, and she was also severely scolded by her superiors for a mistake at work.

She has always been independent and strong, and all her grievances instantly surged into her heart, and her mood was very low.

Returning to the residence at night, I think back to all my recent encounters, feeling that life is hopeless and dark.

At this time, my mother called and asked if she would come home for dinner on the weekend.

She really wanted to go back, but she felt that she didn't know how to face her family when she went home now, so she replied with a broken sentence, "Let's talk about it."

After hanging up the phone, she received a WeChat red envelope from her mother, with a note that read "taxi fare".

The friend broke through the defense in an instant and cried loudly.

After the weekend, her whole person seemed to have gained some kind of energy, all the grievances and frustrations disappeared, and she returned with confidence and calmness.

There is no frustration that cannot be cured by returning home, and there is no grievance that a meal made by a parent cannot be alleviated.

In the days of working outside, home is your dependence and harbor; all unsatisfactory, as long as you go home can always be cured.

The first half of his life was busy, running for money and fame, and the second half of his life was going around, and he found that home was a place worth stopping and waiting for.

Home is the place of the heart, and only with a home can there be everything.

Having money to earn is a guarantee

A popular saying on the Internet:

The world is panicked, but it is for the sake of breaking silver, but it is these two pieces of silver that can solve all kinds of panic in the world.

Although money is not omnipotent, but without money it is impossible, and having money can directly give you dignity and security.

Huang Shengsan in Cao Yu's drama "Sunrise" is a small bank clerk.

Because of the market downturn, banks laid off employees due to financial difficulties, and Huang Shengsan unfortunately became one of them.

For years, the honest and honest Huang has been working at the bank and has no other livelihood skills than banking.

After being dismissed, his life was extremely embarrassing, and his wife divorced him, leaving a group of children waiting for him to raise.

On days without any income, he could only go to the bank secretary Li Shiqing over and over again to intercede, hoping to get the opportunity to earn money.

After the fruitless plea, Huang Shengsan had no way back, he thought that the children would starve to death sooner or later, so he chose an extreme way: poisoning his own children, and then jumping into the river to commit suicide...

The end of Huang Shengsan is tragic, without a job, he loses the ability to support his family, and the family can only suffer along with it.

We don't know which of the accidents and tomorrows comes first, and we have the ability to resist risks with a deposit.

With money in your pockets, you can say without hesitation in the face of illness: "See the best doctor, live in the best ward, use the best medicine..."

During the 11 years of Ho's illness, he spent more than a billion yuan to save his life.

Can't help but marvel: money, really is life.

Having money, in addition to saving your life at critical moments, can also eliminate most of your troubles.

There is a saying that makes a lot of sense:

"Without money, what do you do to maintain your affection, to strengthen your love, to connect your friendship?"

The ideal is plump, but the reality is bone, you have no money, really messed up.

Rich, harmonious and happy family, happy and harmonious; no money, tea, rice, oil and salt are difficult, life is a chicken feather.

Having money to earn gives you more choice and more initiative.

The suffering of life is often in the back, so for the happiness of the second half of life, less temperament, more money.

Trying to make money is never out of date because everything you want is expensive.

Porridge is warm and a blessing

Gu Zhixin, an actor who played Xiaozhuang in "I Am a Special Soldier", has an affair with Asru.

Just as the two were preparing to enter the marriage hall, Gu Zhixin accidentally fell while filming a horse riding scene, and his injuries were serious, and he was at risk of paralysis at any time.

In the face of gu zhixin, who was seriously ill, Asru could have left, but she chose to wait and stay by his side without abandoning.

After Asru's careful care, Gu Zhixin was finally miraculously restored. Now the two have children and live a happy and satisfying life.

Life will inevitably encounter lows and helplessness, at this moment someone will not give up, give you unlimited love and warmth, and finally help you move towards new success.

Composers Tan Dun and Huang Jingjie only had two hours from acquaintance to marriage, but this has never affected the two of them to enjoy the joy of the world, and in the blink of an eye, the two have been together for 28 years.

After becoming famous, Tan Dun performed a lot, frequently traveled back and forth at home and abroad, did not have much time to stay at home, and the big things and small things in the family were taken care of by Huang Jingjie, which saved him a lot of worries and freed up more time to pursue the music he loved.

Someone once asked tan dun if he would worry about his wife leaving with the child and the property, but Tan Dun said that there was no need to worry, because he felt that what he gave his wife was probably only less than one-tenth of what she gave himself.

Those who are willing to wait for you have eyes full of you, and their hearts are also filled with you.

Sometimes the loneliest thing is not to be alone, but to have no one in the house waiting for you; people who are wandering and working outside, long for a house lamp to be lit for you at night, and a table of delicious food to prepare for you.

The movie "Love Letter" has a line:

There is one person to miss, and that is happiness.

The beauty of the world is that there are people who love you as much as they love themselves, and there are people who are waiting for you to come home forever.

Someone waits, live up to the encounter, cherish it.

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What people pursue in a hurry is nothing more than happiness.

Someone is waiting for you to come home, three meals are delicious, and there is a job, which is the simplest happiness.

Time is fleeting, the years are not living, may you live the rest of your life:

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