"In this life, a man may take care of you most when his wife is pregnant, but he will take care of you in turn, which is my most uncomfortable." 」
"That is, you are not as good as a hundred..."
Once, when Gu Zhixin was participating in a variety show, he recalled the scene when his wife Asru was busy around him after an accidental fall caused by a paralysis during filming in 2013, and he said these words with special feelings.
Although Asru was not married to Gu Zhixin at that time, and he was only a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, after the other party was paralyzed, what she thought of was not to leave, but to take care of him without abandoning.
In order to let Gu Zhixin recuperate her body at ease, she resolutely married him after the other party proposed to break up.
Fortunately, when Gu Zhixin was paralyzed and needed to be taken care of the most, Asru, who never gave up on him, not only created a miracle with love, but also made Gu Zhixin stand up, and the couple who gave birth to two children in 9 years after marriage are now a family of four who are particularly happy...
One
Born in 1981, Asru is a native of Inner Mongolia, and grew up in the steppe, not only good at riding horses and singing some nomadic songs, but also a variety of local dances, and has been loved by friends and family since she was a child.
When she was a child, her biggest wish was to leave the prairie, go to see the outside world, and experience the various customs and customs that are different from her hometown.
To this end, After graduating from high school, Asru applied for the Beijing Film Academy in Beijing and was successfully admitted to the undergraduate class of the school's acting department.
In 1998, at the age of 17, she officially entered Nortel's university campus, and she came here in the same year as The Nursery, Pan Yuchen, Zhao Zhengyang and other actors.
In order to learn to act well, Asjou made special efforts during his college years, in addition to studying in school, he often traveled to shoot in major drama crews and honed his acting skills through practical methods.
In 2000, when she was still a sophomore, she participated in her first TV series "Shen Xiang", although the attention was not high, but she began her acting career.
Throughout her college career, With a pair of smart eyes and a sweet smile, as well as a performance full of spirit, Asru was invited to participate in works such as "The New Female Horse", "A Generation of Heavenly Glory Genghis Khan", "The Legend of the Archery Hero" and so on.
Among them, in the "Legend of the Archery Hero" starring Li Yapeng, Zhou Xun and others, the "Princess Huazheng" she played, the image of waiting for love and obsessing for love, has left a deep impression on many audiences.
After graduating from university, due to her excellent academic performance and solid basic skills, she was assigned to work in a song and dance troupe, which is a job with an "iron rice bowl".
However, Asru only left here after five years of development in the troupe, because she did not like this step-by-step way of working, she preferred to go through the show business.
Two
She has always been active in the show business circle, and after graduating from university, she has successively participated in film and television works such as "Towards the Republic", "Yunnan Past", "The Great Han Towel", "My Ordos", "Full Moon Liangzhou" and so on.
Although she plays a supporting role most of the time and does not play many roles, she still gained many loyal fans with this work after another, and has been loved and supported by the audience.
While her career is developing steadily, Asru has also gained her love and come together with actor Gu Zhixin.
Gu Zhixin, who is three years older than her, was born in 1978 and is a native of Dandong, Liaoning Province, whose father is an engineer and whose mother is a worker.
He originally did not have the idea of becoming an actor, until he was 20 years old, he was selected by director Li Senxiang and participated in the drama "Camel Shoko", so he formed an indissoluble relationship with his acting career.
After that, Gu Zhixin successively participated in works such as "The King of the Stove in the World", in order to go further on the road of acting, in 2000, he was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama and began to study acting.
After graduating from Chinese opera, he officially began his acting career, and successively participated in works with particularly good reputations such as "Qia Classmate Boy" and "Mountain Chrysanthemum", and the cause of acting career was particularly smooth.
In 2007, while filming "Mountain Chrysanthemum", he met the most important woman in his life, and this person was Asru.
In the work "Mountain Chrysanthemum", Asru and Gu Zhixin play a couple, in order to play this play well, they often play together in private.
The two of them, who were playing hot inside and outside the play, gradually came together as the filming process of the work continued to deepen, becoming a loving couple.
After harvesting love, both of them are busy with their own careers, and each of them has developed their acting careers quite well.
Three
Since 2008, Asru has successively filmed "Eighteen Years of Enemy Camp", "Tiger Courage Ambition", "Wrangler", "Mother's Romance", "Save Me" and other film and television works.
She has developed her acting career better and better, although she is not a big hit, but she has also gained a firm foothold in the show business circle.
On the other hand, Gu Zhixin's development is not bad, after falling in love with Asru, he is proud of his love scene, and he has also participated in works such as "State Secret 2", "Bronze Dagger", "Broken Thorn", "China 1921" and so on.
However, to mention that he is the most concerned by the audience is the "I am a special soldier" drama filmed in 2011, the role of "Zhuang Yan" he played, the shape of the god has, which is still fresh in people's minds.
After the hit, this work not only won the support of countless audiences, but also won the best TV series at the 28th China TV Drama Feitian Awards and the Huading Award for China's top ten TV dramas.
As the protagonist, Gu Zhixin has also completely spread throughout the country with this work and has become a popular actor loved and supported by the public.
While their careers are getting better and better, the two of them have also ushered in a sublimation in their feelings.
In 2013, Asru, who had been in love with Gu Zhixin for nearly 7 years, accidentally conceived his child, and both of them were particularly surprised by the arrival of the child.
Especially Asru, who has not yet married Gu Zhixin, has been afraid that the other party does not want this child after learning the news of pregnancy, but Gu Zhixin did not expect Gu Zhixin to say to her: "Let's get married, and then give birth to the child." ”
After seeing Gu Zhixin's serious expression, Asru happily agreed and began to prepare for the marriage of the two.
According to the plan of the two of them, after Gu Zhixin completed the work at hand, they immediately held a wedding, but they did not expect that a sudden accident completely disrupted their plans and almost ruined Gu Zhixin's life!
Four
On July 26, 2013, when Gu Zhixin was filming the work "Soldiers Out of Tongguan" directed by Shi Chenfeng and cooperated with Liu Jia, Liu Xiaohu, Yang Ya and others, a major accident occurred because of a horseback riding scene accidentally falling off a horse.
After the accident, the crew immediately took him to the hospital, but because of the serious injuries, by the time he was taken to the hospital, his lower body had lost consciousness and became paralyzed.
Later, after the diagnosis of hospital doctors, this accident caused Gu Zhixin's spine to be damaged, and it is likely that he will no longer be able to stand in the future, and can only be paralyzed in bed or in a wheelchair.
After learning this news, Asru, who was pregnant at the time and had a big belly, felt as if the sky was about to fall, and instantly became overwhelmed.
However, she was not knocked down by this incident, because she knew that Gu Zhixin needed her encouragement and companionship more.
After learning the result, she did not tell Gu Zhixin at first, until Gu Zhixin lay on the hospital bed for a week and found that his lower body was still unconscious, he realized the seriousness of the matter.
After learning that he might be paralyzed for the rest of his life, Gu Zhixin, who was deeply shocked, seemed to suddenly have no goal in life, becoming more and more negative, and once suffering from depression.
In order not to let his beloved girlfriend suffer with him in the future, thinking that the two were not yet married, he said to Asru: "Otherwise, let's break up, I don't want to drag you down, and I don't want to delay your future." ”
At that time, Gu Zhixin, who was in the trough of his life, had only one idea in his mind, that is, not to drag the other party down.
It is reasonable to say that Asru was not married to Gu Zhixin at that time, and after the other party had this kind of thing, it was indeed understandable that she left, not to mention that now that the other party had offered to let her leave, she could leave generously.
However, she not only rejected Gu Zhixin's idea of letting her leave, but also took care of him unswervingly after this, even if Gu Zhixin said more exciting words to let her leave, she always stayed by Gu Zhixin's side.
Seeing that Asru had been taking care of herself carefully, Gu Zhixin finally gave up the idea of letting her leave, and entered the palace of marriage with her in the same year.
Due to Gu Zhixin's physical reasons at that time, they did not hold a wedding when they got married, and this became their later regret.
In order to take care of Gu Zhixin, Asru gave up her acting career after marriage and completely faded out of the public's sight.
In 2014, she also successfully gave birth to the child in her belly, and the arrival of the child not only made her and Gu Zhixin's relationship more stable, but also made Gu Zhixin rekindle her confidence in life.
Five
Since the birth of her son, Asru has to take care of their children every day in addition to Gu Zhixin, as well as the elderly on both sides, and is busy every day.
Seeing that his wife has paid so much for himself and this family, Gu Zhixin is also particularly distressed, in order to make his wife live a little easier, he has been making various efforts for his recovery.
In order to be able to get back on his feet, during that time, Gu Zhixin would do a lot of rehabilitation exercises every day, such as sit-ups, trying to walk with the support of his wife, and so on.
Although he almost shed tears of pain every time, he gritted his teeth and persevered for the sake of this family and for the sake of his wife.
I don't know if his persistence and efforts touched the heavens, or whether It was Asru's love that created a miracle, and under the care and companionship of his wife, he really recovered slowly.
He not only got up from the wheelchair, but also slowly resumed walking, after accumulating continuous efforts, he gradually resumed the movement of normal people, and the whole person was no different from normal people.
Not only did he feel particularly happy about this, but Alsou, who had been with him all along, was even more smiling, only because she had paid so much for this relationship, and finally ushered in the harvest.
In 2016, shortly after Gu Zhixin's recovery, they also gave birth to a child again, this time harvesting a daughter, whose arrival made their feelings more solid.
In order to let his wives and children live a good life, Gu Zhixin also returned to the development of the show business circle after recovery, although at this time he has missed a lot of opportunities to become popular, but with superb acting skills and continuous efforts, he has participated in many film and television works in recent years.
From "The Big Knife" to "The Young Marshal", to "Brothers Fire", as well as "Spring", "Farewell, Las Vegas", "Poisonous Sea Storm", "Curtain Open" and other works, very good.
In 2019, he developed a good career, and also won the 19th Huading Awards National "Audience Favorite Film and Television Star", and was shortlisted for the 28th China Television Golden Eagle Award "Audience Favorite Actor".
In August 2022, the work "Westward Journey" starring him was officially launched, and I believe that we will be able to meet the audience soon, we will wait and see.
Six
Compared with Gu Zhixin's acting career that is now developing well, Asru, who is willing to give up her career for the sake of her family and husband, has faded out of the show business circle for a full decade.
In the past ten years, she has not only not made any more film and television works, but also almost never appeared in front of the public again, but has been at ease at home to meet her husband and teach her children.
In the early years, she completely gave up her acting career, more for her paralyzed husband Gu Zhixin, but as the other party slowly recovered and developed her career better and better, she no longer had to worry about her husband.
The reason why she still maintains a state of retirement is more for her young children, especially her daughter, who is only 6 years old now, who needs her company and care more, so she can only give up her acting career.
She has no regrets about this, nor does she have any complaints, after all, she is more eager for happiness in life than for career success.
Just like when Gu Zhixin was injured and paralyzed, she resolutely gave up her career to accompany and take care of each other, and after busying herself for the other party, the reason she did this was because she wanted happiness in life.
And through her continuous efforts, now her husband is healthy, the career is stable, the children are growing up healthily, and Asru, who has worked hard in life, will certainly not give up all this in order to develop her acting career.
On the contrary, as long as she can maintain a happy and stable life today, even if she does not develop her acting career in the future, I believe she will not have too many regrets.
Now 41 years old, Asru is using her favorite lifestyle, enjoying the life she wants, and the family of four is living a warm and happy life.
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