During confinement, the mother-in-law does not listen to the reason, and the daughter-in-law does not quarrel or make trouble: you will regret it

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Confinement is actually a woman's more special thing, at this time she, whether it is the mind or the body, are fragile to the extreme, at this time she urgently needs a person to take care of, although the husband can accompany the wife, but the husband generally does not know how to take care of the confinement wife, in the eating, drinking and dressing, most of them are by the mother-in-law to take care of the confinement daughter-in-law.

However, not all mothers-in-law will be aware of this, and many mothers-in-law will ignore their daughter-in-law during confinement, resulting in contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

For the mother-in-law, during the special period of confinement of the daughter-in-law, even if there are important things, they should be put aside for the time being, and everything is based on the daughter-in-law.

01 Before marriage, I felt that my mother-in-law did not act, and the same was true after marriage

Before Xiaofang and her husband got married, when they went to the mother-in-law's house for the first time, the mother-in-law did not pay enough attention to the future daughter-in-law.

At that time, Xiaofang thought that this was her own delusion, so she did not go to her heart, but after marrying her husband, her life after marriage made Xiaofang deeply feel the indifference from her mother-in-law.

Because Xiaofang and her husband's house is off-plan, they can't move in for the time being, because after getting married, they live with their mother-in-law, and during the day, Xiaofang and her husband both go out to work, leaving their mother-in-law alone at home.

Because Xiaofang's work unit is relatively close to home, sometimes Xiaofang will go home to eat at noon, although her mother-in-law will also prepare meals for Xiaofang in advance, but most of them are staple foods such as noodles, and occasionally stir-fry one or two dishes.

Although Xiao Fang was unhappy in her heart, she did not tell her husband about these things, because she knew that even if her husband knew these things, it would not help, and it would only increase family conflicts.

Therefore, Xiaofang has been silently bearing all this for the stability and happiness of the family, and later until Xiaofang became pregnant, her mother-in-law's concern for Xiaofang was obviously more. The mother-in-law began to inquire about Xiaofang's taste, changing the law to make some delicacies that Xiaofang likes to eat, and the mother-in-law also considered letting Xiaofang quit her job and rest at home. Only this time it was rejected by Xiaofang.

02 During pregnancy, the mother-in-law is meticulous, and during the confinement period, the mother-in-law does not pay attention

During the pregnancy, Xiaofang felt the meticulous care of her mother-in-law.

Even in order not to let Xiaofang work hard and run, the mother-in-law sometimes personally sends Xiaofang to and from work, and will bring some fruits that Xiaofang loves to eat on the way back, and wait for Xiaofang to wash and put them on the table after work.

During this time, it can be said that the relationship between Xiaofang and her mother-in-law is the best period, and Xiaofang even once regarded her mother-in-law as her closest person.

However, the good times did not last long, and after Xiaofang gave birth to the child, the mother-in-law's attitude suddenly underwent a great change.

After giving birth to the child, Xiaofang opened the confinement period, because the new house had been renovated at that time, Xiaofang and her husband discussed going to the new house to confinement.

And the mother-in-law also moved in with her, in order to facilitate the "care" of Xiaofang.

However, things did not go as smoothly as expected, during the period when Xiaofang was confined, although her husband would try to find time to accompany her, the daily life problems all fell on the mother-in-law.

However, the mother-in-law's enthusiasm at this time is far less than when Xiaofang was pregnant, and the attitude of taking care of Xiaofang is also more and more perfunctory.

Even after a month, the mother-in-law actually left Xiaofang's home for an excuse, and in the end, if It were not for Xiaofang's mother-in-law's mother-in-law who came to take over the position of mother-in-law, the husband would probably have to resign to take care of Xiaofang.

And it is precisely because of these behaviors that Xiaofang's heart is greatly angry, and she said to her mother-in-law: You will regret it in the future.

03 No one to take care of after old age

After hearing Xiaofang's words, the mother-in-law did not pay attention to it, because in her heart, she only cared about her grandson.

After Xiaofang finished confinement, there was no contact between her and her mother-in-law, non-essential situations, and the mother-in-law seemed to be aware of what Xiaofang was thinking, and never took the initiative to contact Xiaofang.

Time flies, very quickly, many years have passed, although many things have long been wrong, but the feelings between Xiaofang and her mother-in-law are still unchanged as always.

As the mother-in-law gradually grew older, the side slowly began to need a person to take care of, and at this time Xiaofang did not intend to take care of the mother-in-law's heavy responsibility, the husband saw his wife's performance, but also helplessly sighed, after all, these years between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, he is also a piece of not falling in the eyes.

In desperation, the husband had to take the mother-in-law to the family and take on the responsibility of taking care of her himself, so it became the husband's daily routine to take care of the mother-in-law during the day and night.

And the mother-in-law saw that her daughter-in-law was indifferent on the side, at this moment she finally understood the words of the original daughter-in-law, and the emotion of regret could not help but arise spontaneously.

Conclusion: The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law itself is difficult to avoid and many families have appeared in many families, but the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not so difficult to mediate, as long as the original intention is based on the family as the center, there will eventually be a day of reconciliation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but this is based on the premise of mutual understanding and mutual understanding between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If it is like between Xiaofang and her mother-in-law, because the mother-in-law does not pay attention to the confinement period, it is really difficult to reconcile the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.