As we all know, both familiar and strange, but also very sensitive relationship is the contact between in-laws, sometimes the distance is too cold, frequent and easy to lose proportion, in short, different people in dealing with this relationship is benevolent and wise.
Recently, a video of a man passing by his wife's mother's house without entering the door has aroused the attention and heated discussion of netizens, as the saying goes: "The family has a difficult scripture", the man in front of the camera has never entered his wife's mother's house since he was married for 6 years, is he afraid of being looked down upon? Or can't you look at her home?
From the video taken, the man in the picture sits on a small electric stove with his hands in his pockets, always insisting that he does not want to enter the door of his wife's mother's house, although his wife persuaded in every way: "We have both been married for so many years, my family has long been your home, don't care how my family once treated you", the man still stubbornly remained silent after listening.
Afterwards, according to the wife, "The husband has been gambling in his heart, because when the two first talked about the bride price, their eldest brother thought that the bride price given by the man was too small, which caused a conflict, and as a result, when the husband received the relatives, who expected to be slapped by the eldest brother to see him unfavorably, which led to the two forming a bond."
Now after many years, although the man takes his wife back to his mother's house to visit relatives every time, he only walks to the head of the village and will not enter the village, and many netizens have expressed their understanding after learning the truth of the matter: "I will not enter if I change it, this is a shadow for a lifetime."
Netizen opinion:
Some netizens commented that being able to get so close was to give my wife face, and asked me to directly prevent my wife from going home and sever all relations.
Some netizens commented that smart people treat their son-in-law as an aunt, and love each other for a lifetime, on the other hand, those who oppress their son-in-law are enemies, who do not close the door for a lifetime, and suffer a lot of losses when they are angry!
Some netizens also commented that you can not enter the door of your eldest brother, nor can you not interact with him, but you still have to honor the woman's parents and parents, for the sake of lovers!
The author feels that people compete for a breath, Buddha is a blaze of incense, indeed very understandable to this husband's situation, but if you want to live a good life for the two couples in the future, the mother-in-law's house still has to go, and the eldest brother nodded on the surface, so as not to embarrass the wife, but also reflects your heart.