Without the wise leadership of the Central Committee, there would be no well-off life for the peasants! There is no central government's policy reform for the three rural areas, and there will be no earth-shaking changes in the rural areas! As farmers, we are always grateful to the central government for every policy reform of the countryside! As a farmer, the peasants have to speak out for the farmers the most bitterly! Let more farmers live a stable and old age! Hello everyone, here is the 'farmers are the most bitter' public number news, I am the most bitter farmers! Say hello to all the peasant brothers!
- The peasants are the most bitter
The phenomenon of more men and fewer women in rural areas is becoming more and more serious. At the same time, the conditions for rural women to marry are becoming more and more demanding. In the old days, in rural areas, the man only had to give the bride price, but over the years, the situation has changed, and the bride price is only one part of the process. At present, in order to get married smoothly, it is also necessary to meet the requirements of "2 throws 3 sides and 4 rounds".
Many say they are more sorrowful than the bride price. I believe that many people just heard this request, do not understand what this means, the following to briefly introduce.
The so-called second dumping means that the husband and wife do not live with their father-in-law and mother-in-law after marriage, do not assume the obligation to take care of their mother-in-law, and live independently after marriage. This situation is mainly to prevent possible contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
For a long time, in many families, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an inseparable topic, and there will always be some friction when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law meet.
The third side is to require the man to be an only child, his parents are in good health, and the new house he buys must be close to the city. It has been observed that families with many children are prone to property disputes, especially those with multiple sons.
If the parents are partial, the other sons will certainly not give up. Such a family is more complicated. Parents need to be in good health and have a house on the edge of the city to make their lives easier.
If the parents have no physical problems, they do not need their children to worry about it. At the same time, some parents are still able to work even at age 5.60 and can continue to earn money, improve their quality of life and raise their children.
Now, when most women get married, they consider whether men have a house or not, which has become the standard for men in the blind date market. After all, most people want a peaceful life after marriage. They can't always live by renting a house.
The last one to say is 4 rounds. In fact, it's easy to understand. This refers to a private car. This situation is relatively easy to accept. Now private cars have become very popular. For women, when the woman gets married, it is not too much to take this as a condition.
In addition, in the current rural areas, private cars have become a necessary means of transportation. Without a private car, travel will be restricted to some extent. From these situations, we can see that the cost of finding a wife in rural areas is getting higher and higher. This is not a rumor, but it does exist, and this phenomenon exists in many rural areas.
"Love without material is like a mess", which seems to have become a love creed on the Internet. However, love that chases too much material things also loses its sincerity.
Within the scope of what both families can afford, giving appropriate support to the upcoming small family is the meaning of the original bride price. Marriage is a happy thing. Marriage should not be a burden.
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