#头条创作挑战赛#
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How can Venus scare people?
In the face of repeated revisions to the process of the star awards ceremony.
She was furious on the spot: You guys are really hard to serve, it's really hypocritical.
In the face of the differential treatment of Chinese flight attendants, she said bluntly: Little girl, what about two faces?
Describing the keyboard warrior who scolded women on the Internet, she said that she was "the garbage scum of the keyboard warrior".
In short, Sister Jin treats people she doesn't like in one sentence: I'm definitely not used to it!
For all kinds of industry chaos, she can boldly open the microphone without fear of offending people;
She didn't hold it at all when it came to other people's hypocrisy, and she picked up Zhang Dalai until his expression was out of control for a second.
She is not afraid to offend people, because she always speaks from her heart.
And when it comes to the people she likes, she makes no secret of her appreciation.
Observing her likes and dislikes, I found that she only loves women like Yang Mi and Zhao Liying who are sober and have a strong core.
It is a recognition of his ability and mentality, and it is also an appreciation from the heart.
Why is Venus the only one who can be his true self in the "mixed" entertainment industry.
may be because she has already experienced thousands of sails and been reborn from a cocoon.
Born with a male body, seeking self in gender recognition
According to Venus himself, he has always considered himself a girl from the time he was gendered.
Before he was 3 years old, his mother took him to the women's bathhouse, and he didn't find it strange at all.
After he was 3 years old, his father took him to the men's bathhouse, but he felt extremely awkward.
is different from Leslie Cheung in "Farewell My Concubine", who was forcibly brainwashed the day after tomorrow.
Venus belongs to the congenital gender cognition, dressed in a man's body, but her heart is a female Jiao'e.
Since he was a child, he has loved to watch people dance and like the beauty of stretching and slenderness.
At the age of 9, he joined the People's Liberation Army Art Troupe to learn dance.
In the dance, he felt unprecedented enthusiasm and pleasure.
Probably because of the specialness of his heart.
He also maintains a style of both strength and femininity in his choreography.
Whether it is technique or content, Jin Xing's dance is at the top level, and he won the first prize of the Taoli Cup at the age of 19.
At a young age, he quickly made a name for himself in the dance world and was well received at home and abroad.
When he was well-known at home and abroad, he still couldn't let go of his knots in his heart.
After a long inner struggle, Venus made a decision.
Do sex reassignment surgery!
He went to the hospital for a consultation, and the doctor handed him a psychological test.
There are 1000 questions, and there are many repetitions, in order to keep asking questions and test the most scientific answers.
Venus's final score was 94, well above the 75 points of the heart's feminine standard.
The doctor told him: Go for it!
Undergoing sex reassignment surgery, "rebirth" after painful struggles
Her sex reassignment surgery is divided into three main parts: chest, Adam's apple and hair, and lower body.
First, the first step: the chest
This operation was relatively mature in China at that time
So the surgery went quite smoothly.
Step 2: Masculine characteristics - Adam's apple and hair (beard).
Everyone knows how critical the location of the Adam's apple is.
The slightest mistake can affect future vocalizations, so Venus needs to stay awake and constantly try to make sounds throughout the process.
Then it is even more troublesome to remove the hair completely, especially the hair between the lips and nose.
The doctor told Venus: "This process cannot be anesthetic. ”
Venus: "Then don't fight!"
From the sharp pain at the beginning, he gradually became numb, and Venus's mouth was stitched with more than 30 stitches.
At that time, she had only one thought in her heart: if she wanted to become a woman, she had to pass this hurdle.
The most difficult part is the third level.
When it came to the third step, even the doctor wanted to persuade Venus.
"Otherwise, you can't tell the difference from the outside"
"How's that going to work? That's not going to be a shemale. Venus thought to herself, "We have to take one last step." ”
Even the doctors couldn't bear her to do this, but Venus never hesitated.
Faced with a 50 percent success rate, Venus pinned half of her life on God.
16 hours of general anesthesia and four major bleeding episodes.
Venus's surgery was a success.
Although the postoperative nursing, catheterization, pooping and urinating made her suffer.
Every time the lower body gauze is replaced, it must be torn raw from the sticky flesh.
The pain was almost the same as that of a human abortion, but she endured it one by one.
But in the midst of this operation, there was a huge accident.
A nurse's negligence almost ruined Venus's dancing career.
Her left calf was pinned down by a rack throughout the operation.
Venus was under general anesthesia and didn't know that the doctor was exhausted when he insisted on surgery.
And the nurse, who should be noticed the most, was negligent!
After waking up, Venus was completely unconscious in her calves.
"I won't be able to dance anymore", Venus was despairing.
Fortunately, the heavens still have a little "compassion" for Venus.
Or it can be said that this is another test of Venus by God.
Only by breaking out of the cocoon can you be reborn!
One day, she suddenly saw her toes move, and she immediately called the doctor to treat her.
The hospital was not right, so I immediately transferred to the hospital.
Half a month later, she began to be able to get out of bed in a wheelchair, slowly to crutches, and then to throw away crutches.
Venus's leg is slowly recovering.
Until one day, she reappeared on the stage after a long absence.
Great dancer, sharp host
It's a wife, it's a mother, and it's a "Venus"
A lot of people like to talk out loud about Venus's "transgender" experience.
But for Venus, this has always been the least important label.
Her dance is a teaching material and a goal for many people in the professional field.
As a dance judge, she always emphasizes one point on the basis of objectivity and fairness.
Don't uncover other people's scars, we have to look at the dancers' performance on stage.
Her three views were conveyed from variety shows and interviews, influencing many young people.
Always follow her inner life, and she really did.
At work, she is a great dancer and a sharp host.
In life, she is more of a happy woman.
Her marriage to her husband Hans has gone through a long period of time, as before.
She is always open-minded and respectful of her children's education.
She was an elegant wife and a gentle mother.
But she is also herself - Venus
epilogue
On the show, Jin Xing asked Haiqing: "What kind of woman do you think is beautiful." ”
Haiqing said decisively: "You are like this!"
It's not politeness, it's not flattery, it's not ridicule.
Haiqing said of Venus: "She became a woman in exchange for her life, and she loves women more than anyone else." ”
Yes, Venus is the only one in the world, and she will love "women" more than anyone else.
Just like our lives, we will always walk at various forks in the road.
Each choice will lead you to a completely different ending.
Whether it's retreat, patience, bravery, or charge, it's up to you.
Who you live is up to you.
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