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April 1995 is an important date that deserves to go down in history, especially for Venus! With a mixture of excitement and nervousness, she bravely stepped into the suffocating door of the operating room and lay down quietly on the cold and biting operating table.
At this moment, she deeply understood that her life was about to usher in a drastic change.
The long and arduous procedure began, which lasted 16 hours. The most challenging part of this process is undoubtedly the removal of beard follicle cells.
Doctors must carefully lift the skin around Venus's lips and remove the hair follicles one by one to ensure that no trace is left.
The work was undoubtedly a severe test, with blood gushing out of the tiny but delicate surgical incisions, and pain piercing through Venus's entire body like sharp arrows.
In order to avoid the adverse effects of anesthetic drugs on the outcome of the surgery, Venus resolutely refused to use any anesthetic throughout the operation, and endured unprecedented pain alone.
She gritted her teeth and endured the pain, lest the slightest mistake would ruin her dreams for years.
However, at the most critical moment of the operation, a sudden hemorrhage accident brought a heavy blow to Venus. Due to the negligence of the nurse, the medical stent accidentally pressed on Venus's calf, causing the blood to circulate properly.
In the face of this sudden disaster, the scene suddenly fell into chaos. Although the surgery was eventually difficult to complete, Venus suffered permanent disability in both legs.
The doctors candidly told Venus and his mother the sad news and ruled that Venus was a second-degree disability.
Venus's mother watched the doctors enter and leave the ward, anxious and silently prayed for her son's safety.
When they heard this bad news, tears instantly burst out of their eyes, and the mother and son hugged each other tightly, grief-stricken.
As a mother, how could she endure to see her son suffer like this? After a brief period of frustration, Venus quickly perked up, how could she just give up and be stuck in a wheelchair for the rest of her life, just becoming a woman?
In order to get back on her feet and walk, Venus began to undergo extremely hard rehabilitation training, and she told herself over and over again: "Venus, you must stand up!" Yes, in the face of the merciless test of fate, she gritted her teeth and vowed to regain her life with perseverance.
No doubt! After countless hard work, Venus finally straightened her back again, showing vigor and vitality, radiating a new vitality of life.
Let's take a look back at Venus's inner awakening of feminine consciousness, starting from her childhood. Jin Xing was born into a traditional and rigorous military family, his father Kim Yong-chul held important positions in the army, and his mother Han Ji-sun was an ordinary clerk.
As the only boy in the family, Venus has been burdened with the responsibility of family inheritance since he was a child, carrying the hope of the continuation of the family bloodline.
However, even Venus herself could not answer exactly when exactly female consciousness sprouted in her heart. Perhaps, the answer dates back to when she was six years old, when, when her father first took her into the men's bathroom and saw the naked bodies of other boys, Venus felt an indescribable sense of disgust and resistance.
Since then, she has slowly begun to notice that the unique aura emanating from the male body makes her feel extremely uncomfortable.
However, despite this, the young Venus is still as studious, lively and cheerful as any other boy. However, what sets her apart is her extraordinary physical flexibility and deep love of dance, which heralds the gradual awakening of her inner feminine consciousness.
When performing on stage, Venus is even more keen to wear skirts and high heels to play the image of a female character, which makes her mother worried, but she is powerless to change her daughter's choice.
The turning point came in 1987, when Jin Xing was awarded a full scholarship to study in the United States to specialize in the art of dance. Upon arriving in that country of freedom and tolerance, Venus seems to have found a spiritual home.
Just a few months later, she met the first love of her life, a handsome and dashing cowboy man.
The two fell in love at first sight, and their attraction to each other was as strong as a magnet. Although Venus still retains its masculine appearance at the time, the cowboy man is not dismayed by this, and his eyes are as hot as fire, as if he is about to melt Venus completely.
In this free and open country, homosexuality has gradually been recognized by society, Venus is no longer bound by gender labels, they enjoy the sweetness of love to the fullest, and Venus even begins to look forward to a bright future with him for the rest of his life.
However, there was always a lingering uneasiness in Venus's heart, until in 1991, during a warm and joyful family gathering, she coincidentally heard that a beautiful and elegant waiter was actually a mysterious person who inspired and bravely achieved gender transformation! At this moment, Venus suddenly realized, like the first light of the morning, to fully realize the firm feminine consciousness hidden in the depths of the heart!
Since then, Venus has bravely embarked on a new life journey of self-discovery and feminine identity!
Determined to perform sex reassignment surgery, Jin Xing did not hesitate to return to China, the homeland where she was raised, and turned around to confess the truth to her beloved and admired mother first.
She knew that such a decision would be a heavy blow to a traditional Asian family, and her mother would definitely oppose it.
As expected, when Venus cautiously revealed her desire to undergo sex reassignment surgery, her mother's tears flowed like a gushing river.
Faced with his mother's sorrow, Venus was in agony. She tried her best to persuade her mother to support her with all kinds of words, but her mother's grief haunted her like a nightmare.
This seemingly prosaic sentence seems to endow Venus with endless strength and courage. Yes, no matter what the future holds, my mother will always regard her as a pearl in her palm and will never abandon her.
Therefore, from that moment on, the mother began to actively prepare for Venus's sex reassignment surgery, supporting her daughter's decision wholeheartedly in her own unique way.
However, the most difficult thing for Venus to talk about is how to confess to her father, who has always regarded her as a "son". She feared that her father would be extremely disappointed by his "non-mainstream" choice.
It wasn't until the eve of the operation that Venus finally mustered up the courage to call his father and nervously tell the ins and outs of the facts.
There was a long silence on the other end of the phone, and Venus even wondered if his father had been deeply hurt by him. However, then the father just said calmly: "Now that you have finally found your true identity, do what you want to do."
This incomparably magnanimous sentence made Venus feel relieved, and her father's understanding and support became the strongest motivation for her to move forward.
Originally thought that everything would go smoothly, but before the sex reassignment surgery, Venus's life went through a ridiculous episode.
In order to obtain a U.S. green card, she entered into a "green card marriage" with an American woman named Kenporin.
Venus's generosity in providing a home for Kempolin and her boyfriend Eric is more like a deep and delicate bond that has sustained their shared life for a full decade.
Time flies, straight to the year 2000, Kemporin is sweetly pregnant and longs to be thrown into the warm arms of her boyfriend, so she asks Venus for divorce. Even though Venus has transformed into a woman at this moment, she has always put Kemporin in the first place, announcing that the reason for the divorce is emotional breakdown, trying to reduce Kemporin's situation as embarrassing as possible.
In this way, a "green card marriage" that has aroused heated discussions in all walks of life has come to an end in a harmonious and approaching way.
After a difficult sex reassignment operation, Venus has completely stepped out of the shadow of men, and she firmly believes that she is a sincere woman. However, after repeatedly suffering the blow of blind date failure, Venus is deeply aware of the cruelty and ruthlessness of the real world - there are still many doubts and prejudices about her history of being transgender.
However, the god of luck seems to lend a helping hand when Venus needs it most. In 2004, Venus embarked on an overtime journey on an Airbus as usual, and she always fell asleep unconsciously the moment she sat down.
Perhaps because of overwork, she didn't even notice that a handsome and dashing man was sitting quietly next to her.
The man, Hans, was fascinated by Venus from the first moment he saw her. Venus's charming face, unique temperament, like a bright pearl, fascinated Hans, and he could not take his eyes off her, as if he was afraid that she would disappear without a trace in the blink of an eye.
The sensitive Venus immediately sensed the enthusiastic gaze beside him. She opened her eyes, just in time to meet Hans's gaze. Hans obviously didn't expect Venus to find himself so quickly, and for a moment he was flustered and incoherent, not knowing how to respond.
In the face of this helpless man, Venus showed a gentle smile. Her extensive social experience allowed her to take the situation in stride, and she took the initiative to break the ice and talk to Hans enthusiastically.
It turned out that Hans was an elite man with a higher education, and his speech and demeanor were full of wisdom and romance.
Unexpectedly, although they have only known each other for a few hours, the conversation between the two has become more and more intimate, and the atmosphere has become subtle and ambiguous.
In this way, an otherwise uneventful flight journey turned out to be a prelude to a romantic encounter.
Before getting off the plane, Hans was full of ambition and solemnly begged Venus for contact information. After much deliberation, Venus did not refuse, but told Hans in a soft voice: "Keep my address and telephone number in mind, and if you truly love me, feel free to visit me at any time."
These words undoubtedly gave Hans great motivation and confidence, and made him have high hopes for this underlying emotion.
Sure enough, a few days later, Hans bravely called Venus and poured out his deep love for her. However, Venus did not appear overly agitated after hearing these affectionate confessions, and instead invited Hans to visit her residence in person in a calm manner.
When Hans walked into Venus's house, he was greeted by such a warm and touching picture: Venus was taking care of her three lively and lovely children, like a kind mother.
Seeing Hans's slightly surprised expression, Venus answered his doubts in a timely manner: "I am a single mother, I used to be a man, and now my face has been shaped by sex reassignment surgery."
Faced with such an unexpectedly candid treatment of Venus, Hanston was shocked. His mind went blank and he was at a loss. After a brief silence, only Venus's gentle but firm words flowed slowly in the room.
Looking at Hans's reaction, Venus seems to have seen the end, which is rejection.