Fu Seoul's "top matching marriage" to be dissolved? How to break the strong woman and the weak man: there are too many combinations of the same style in the circle

"Goodbye Lover", a reality show focusing on the real marriage of stars, can really set off a hot topic among the audience every season.

And in the latest third season, the most jaw-dropping pair of CPs is actually Fu Seoul, a famous debater in "Strange Words" and her "salted fish husband" Lao Liu.

The reason why the appearance of the two is surprising is because the woman has indeed talked about the love story with her husband countless times in public programs, and it once became a beautiful talk.

In the audience's impression, Fu Seoul's husband Lao Liu is almost perfect, "a sweet gift after the world treats her poorly", and is also one of the ideal models of "strong women and weak men" marriage in the entertainment industry.

But now, she took him to the front of the stage and personally tore open the pain point behind "perfection".

Throughout the entertainment industry, there are many similar marriages of the same type, many of which have broken up early, for various reasons.

But some of them are exceptionally solid, and how do they balance each other?

1. Fu Seoul and her "salted fish husband"

Fu Seoul, the "queen of golden sentences" who came out of "Strange Words", is not the proud daughter of heaven - her road to counterattack is quite bumpy.

Born in rural Anhui Province in 1984, her parents divorced early, and she lived a difficult life with her mother at a young age, even living in a rice barn full of rats for three years.

Later, his mother remarried, and Fu Seoul could only live with his elderly grandmother, and he lacked love since he was a child.

Fortunately, she was very good, and because of her imperfect native family and poor family situation, she was admitted to Beijing Forestry University, and during her studies, she relied on flea market stalls to seriously make money.

After graduating, she went to Shanghai to become an advertiser, then developed a side hustle of writing, and published several books that she hoped would change her fate.

In 2009, Fu Seoul met her future husband Lao Liu, and the two fell in love and soon got married, but although she lived an ordinary life, she never gave up.

A few years later, she successfully "got out of the circle" by updating articles on the public account, and gradually achieved an annual income of 2 million.

Subsequently, Fu Seoul, who had accumulated for many years, entered "Strange Words" - but in fact, before this, she was rejected several times, and finally saw the light in 2017.

After going around in circles for 3 years, she became the glittering "Queen of Golden Sentences", in which the content of the output became an indispensable element.

Fu Seoul refers to her husband as a "salted fish" type of partner, that is, the so-called peaceful, indifferent man - she is the outside of the main and the inside of the other, which is a near-perfect model of "strong women and weak men marriage".

The two seem to have complementary personalities: Fu Seoul is quick and temperamental, and still loves to tirelessly make money; Old Liu, on the other hand, is gentle, generous, and unambitious.

It is said that when the two got married, Lao Liu said to her: As long as I have one hand empty, I will not let you carry something in my hand - he did what he said.

And Fu Seoul also returned the favor, and when the two participated in the "21 Days Before Marriage" reality show together, she confessed in public:

"If I hadn't met you, I might not have gotten married in my life." I have talked about schoolboys, talents, and rock youths, and I can't get along in the end, and I think you are a gift to me. ”

She even said that Lao Liu's marriage to herself was a "top match".

And now, less than three years later, the two have joined hands on "Goodbye Lover", which is also a mango station.

In the opening chapter, the female convenience reveals that they have been separated for more than a year; The husband directly took the initiative to talk about divorce.

At that time, after the news became popular on the Internet, many people complained about Fu Seoul, the husband who would write "help you fly high" for her birthday wishes, a little choked.

But in fact, they are indeed the most "problematic" couple in "Goodbye Lover 3":

The man emphasizes that after becoming a full-time cook, he has no social circle, professional honor, and no personal value - he is like a full-time mother, confused and inferior.

Of course, after this situation was seen by netizens, they also commented sharply: "Their problem is not that women are strong and men are weak, but that women are strong, and men are unwilling to be strong." ”

Although he said that "divorce is for change", is it just because of the marriage of "strong women and weak men" that led to his current "weak" situation?

In fact, there are too many combinations of "strong women and weak men" in the entertainment industry, how do they go from the most intimate relationship to the breakdown, or gradually find a balance in a dull life?

2. Internal entertainment "strong women and weak men" is difficult to settle

The representative of the first generation of "strong women and weak men" in the entertainment industry may be Ma Yili and the article, the man was still small and transparent when the two met, and the woman became the big heroine early.

In particular, there is an 8-year age difference between them, but the two unexpectedly got married quickly and gave birth to two daughters.

During this period, they have always appeared as a model couple of love, and the article always refers to his wife as "Commander Ma", and has repeatedly publicly stated that his greatest achievement is to marry her.

But unfortunately, in 2014, when Ma Yili was pregnant with her second child, her husband and the actress Yao Di, who had worked together, were photographed cheating.

Although his wife chose to forgive at that time, she also left a golden sentence: Do it and cherish it.

But after that, she began to make a strong comeback, and also came up with works such as "Beishang Guang Don't Believe in Tears", "Chinese Relationship", "My First Half of Life" and returned to the front line.

Soon after, the two officially announced their divorce, ending the "happy marriage" that had been talked about.

The same situation appeared in Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei, when they first got together, the woman was also a popular fried chicken, and Liu Kaiwei was a half-red and non-purple, debuted for many years, and a round older than her.

But Yang Mi didn't care, and even brought each other with him many times, taking him to film, participate in shows, and open companies.

After giving birth to her daughter, the child was raised by her grandparents in Hong Kong, but it is said that this also seems to have become a family conflict between the two.

It is rumored that the man only visits Yang's father and mother a few times a year, and the old man misses his granddaughter Xiao Nuomi and can only visit Hong Kong in person.

But Yang Mi doesn't care about this, and even though his business value and career have reached the peak, he still smiles every time he mentions his husband.

However, in Liu Kaiwei, she has already changed from a "little fairy" to a "nanny".

In 2016, during the filming of the new drama "Reckless Age", the man was photographed by the paparazzi with a "luminous script" incident, and his career fell into embarrassment, and the relationship with his wife disappeared a few years later.

Also caught in the "suspected cheating" incident that led to divorce was Wang Yuelun.

When he and his ex-wife Li Xiang were in love, they were just an indecent advertising director, and although Li Xiang was married for the second time, he was a "first sister of Mango Stage" with a double IQ and emotional intelligence.

The huge "status" gap makes the couple a strong woman and a weak man from beginning to end.

However, Li Xiang didn't care, and even took the initiative to pull 30 million funds to help him transform into a movie in order to promote the man, and then the two naturally got married, had a daughter, and began to operate a happy family of three.

However, after shooting two film works, Wang Yuelun returned to his comfort zone and was willing to be a full-time father, even if the outside world said that he "eats soft rice hard".

It wasn't until he took his daughter to record "Where Did Daddy Go" that he regained some confidence, but it didn't last long, and he had to go home to take care of his daughter.

Before the couple officially announced their divorce, Wang Yuelun had spat bitter water on variety shows, saying that his wife was too strong.

However, he did not find a way to solve the problem, but gradually let go of himself, and was frequently photographed with intimate behavior with young girls.

Until he suddenly officially announced that he and his wife had divorced, he didn't forget to step back, but Li Xiang didn't care anymore - after all, she was worth hundreds of millions of yuan and had decided to retire.

However, compared with the above negative examples, there are also "strong women and weak men" who get along well in the entertainment industry, how do they balance?

3. There are many perfect models, each with its own secret

In fact, the problem between Fu Seoul and Lao Liu was also encountered by actors Qi Wei and Li Chengxuan.

When the two choose to be together, the man's popularity in internal entertainment is definitely not as good as Qi Wei's, and the workload is also clear at a glance.

So there is a stage, Lee Seung-hyun is also a complete "family cook" - in order to support his wife's career, he chose to be a full-time daddy for 6 years, and also bluntly said in the process that "he will be depressed".

He said that when his daughter slept, she actually cried and was "very emotionally unstable, feeling worthless and losing her freedom." ”

But fortunately, during the period of being a full-time father, the two couples have always discussed and discussed, and the woman and her family have not given any pressure.

Until the beginning of 2019, Lee Seung-hyun appeared in various variety shows with his wife and daughter, and made a comeback as a "super daddy", which unexpectedly gained more respect and love from the audience.

Especially when participating in "Brother Who Broke Through Thorns", he still won the second place with solid basic skills and effective management of his body and appearance.

In other words, although he has been away from his favorite stage for many years, Lee Seung-hyun has not wasted his strength, and when the opportunity arises, he also firmly grasps it and becomes popular again.

Similarly, when Xie Na and Zhang Jie were just together, they were also ridiculed by the group because of the unequal coffee positions, especially at that time, the woman was a "fast book corner", and it was also complaining that she frequently showed her face with Zhang Jie.

But their marriage gradually stabilized amid this ridicule, especially after Xie Na "lost" the position of "Fast Ben" and her career gradually began to decline.

The two also once showed affection on variety shows, and the audience soon found that the relationship between them was worth learning:

Zhang Jie can always put the other party first in everything and respond to everything, so the audience gradually forgets all kinds of doubts about their seemingly mismatched marriage, and chooses to bless instead.

And Qin Hao, who married his idol many years ago, is also the husband of the same "response to everything".

Although his wife Yi Nengjing, who is 9 years older than himself and is known as "Zuojing", always looks a little impatient, but she is actually very pampered.

Just like the clip of his public marriage proposal in 2014, he also said quite straight men:

"There will definitely be no third party after I marry you, and if there is, I will shark myself."

After getting married, Yi Nengjing also gradually gave up her career and worked hard, dedicated to assisting her husband, and transformed from a niche movie actor into a first-line student.

She once publicly revealed on the show that she never changed clothes or went to the bathroom in front of her husband, in order to maintain the mystery of both parties.

It is enough to see that Yi Nengjing has been running her marriage with the feeling of a little woman, which is her wisdom.

Indeed, today's Yi Neng has cultivated his marriage into the traditional model of "strong men and weak women", and the run-in is naturally smoother.

However, just as there are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand viewers, each family has a unique way of getting along, some of which are mutually fulfilling, and some of which cannot be digested after encountering contradictions - even wise women like Yang Mi, Ma Yili, and Fu Seoul.

This is because in a marriage where only women strive to move higher, and the other half settles for the status quo or remains in the imagination of "social rights holders", then there can never be a balance between them.

In fact, "family cook" does not mean "little man", but also a great spirit of sacrifice.

If you are not aware of this greatness, and at the same time it is easy to give up your profession and ability, and blindly indulge in the concept of "value is not seen", then it is really better to return to singleness completely - this may be a responsible embodiment of both parties.