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"Paper Moon" in-depth analysis 2: Excessive kindness in marriage is a disease, and it is easy to cheat if it is not treated

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When "Paper Moon" premiered, it helped everyone analyze n ways to make a marriage fail from the perspective of a husband:

Korean dramas teach men n ways to respond to their wives, each of which kills widowhood

The heroine also couldn't bear it and then cheated.

How will the plot develop next? And let Scarlett analyze it for you.

"Paper Moon" in-depth analysis 2: Excessive kindness in marriage is a disease, and it is easy to cheat if it is not treated

In fact, "Paper Moon" has not been rated well in South Korea. The last 5 or 6 episodes don't even have a one-percent rating.

You know why?

On the one hand, it is a small station that broadcasts the TV series, and it is estimated that you have never heard of it. Many Korean audiences are estimated to be unable to find it,

On the other hand, Asian countries that also belong to the radiation of the Confucian cultural circle, for the relationship between husband and wife in ethical relationships, of course, there are many audiences who support traditional concepts, who can support extramarital affairs?

I think back then, when the divine drama "The Road to the Airport" was broadcast, the entire crew was worried, and the ratings were also very poor, without him, because you are an extramarital affair.

"Paper Moon" in-depth analysis 2: Excessive kindness in marriage is a disease, and it is easy to cheat if it is not treated

If Netflix bought the broadcast rights of this drama, maybe the ratings would be very different, Westerners love freedom, and absolutely support you to break the repressed marriage in the first place.

But watching the drama is your own business, and we return to the plot itself.

The previous article talked about the direct cause of the heroine's cheating, mainly the husband's daily verbal cold violence.

But after seeing the sixth episode, the cause and effect of this marriage are very clear.

"Paper Moon" in-depth analysis 2: Excessive kindness in marriage is a disease, and it is easy to cheat if it is not treated

The heroine played by Mr. Kim Seo-hyung had money and status in her family when she was a child, and she was considered to be above the middle class.

From the fact that her grandfather's paintings appeared in the gallery, we can know that it is a family of scholars.

And her parents went bankrupt, and the wife of the driver in the family made money by speculating in stocks, buying all of her family in one fell swoop, helping her parents pay off debts, and at the same time, also bought her future, making her the wife of the driver's child.

In essence, it is no different from our ancient selling and burying father.

Two people of different classes got married.

"Paper Moon" in-depth analysis 2: Excessive kindness in marriage is a disease, and it is easy to cheat if it is not treated

The driver's child, Mr. Kim Seo-hyung's husband, is covered with the label of an upstart who can't get on the table.

The first thing is investment and calculation.

The wife bought a dress, it was too expensive; But you can wear it to meet the vice president's wife, and it's worth it.

It's great not to have children, because children are the biggest bloodsucking borers of their parents (this is probably the conclusion that Kim Seo-hyung's parents came to when they saw them. If it weren't for the bankruptcy of Jin Ruiheng's parents, with Mr. Jin's temperament, he was afraid that he would not be able to get to Mr. Jin for ten lifetimes. )

Therefore, marrying Mr. Kim Seo-hyung is an investment for him to achieve a class leap.

Since then, he has also been middle-class.

That's why you will see Scarlett's first article about the countless daily life of her husband and wife.

Because in his heart, Mr. Kim Seo-hyung is not a wife, but a tool.

Teacher Kim Seo-hyung actually has a brave choice in the face of such a man? Like divorce?

We can trace this back to the character traits that she showed when she was a child.

"Paper Moon" in-depth analysis 2: Excessive kindness in marriage is a disease, and it is easy to cheat if it is not treated

When she was a child, when she saw her classmates stealing money, her practice was to take out her own money and put it in the wallet of her stolen classmate,

This act is great, but why don't you ask your classmate to return the money and then you lend her money?

When she was a child, she saw her classmates fall into the river and couldn't swim, she jumped down without hesitation, and both drowned.

Why didn't you call the police? Don't call an adult who can swim?

These two things, in fact, can see the character traits of the heroine, she is the kind of person who will be too kind to help others, will sacrifice herself for this, and even do illegal things. As long as she feels that others need it.

The goodness of the transition is also a distorted three views.

It's a trait that requires helping others to find a sense of presence.

"Paper Moon" in-depth analysis 2: Excessive kindness in marriage is a disease, and it is easy to cheat if it is not treated

Because she is such a character, it is understandable that she marries the child of the family driver when the family goes bankrupt, and she will feel that she has stepped forward to save her parents.

For this reason, no matter what her husband treats her, she will not think of divorce. Because her husband is always using the numbers in the small ledger to remind her, in order to help you, I invested so much money in your family, sent so many gifts to your parents, and paid so much medical expenses for your parents.

The heroine was too kind to accept all this.

So she is getting injections every day to be able to give birth to her husband, quitting her promising job in order to serve him, and busy eating three meals a day in order to take care of her husband's daily life.

In fact, in a family without children, is it necessary for the wife to resign and take care of her husband at home? The husband is not a paralyzed giant baby.

"Paper Moon" in-depth analysis 2: Excessive kindness in marriage is a disease, and it is easy to cheat if it is not treated

But this is how the heroine lives according to her husband's request, because this person spends money to buy her family's debts, which is equivalent to buying her future.

The heroine's inner need for love is obviously not satisfied, after all, the spiritual world of the two people is not the same at all. But she won't get a divorce, so when a little puppy that can meet her emotional needs appears, things go in an uncontrollable direction.

To be continued

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