Pretend to be pitiful stepping on your ex-wife? Persuade Melody's husband to stop

Judging from Sister Bao's many years of experience in eating melons, the seemingly open Bay actress is actually generally very conservative in her heart, from Xiao S to Wu Peici, from Fan Weiqi to Xu Ruoxuan, the heroic deeds of protecting her husband for marriage and having a baby are simply too many to fit in a basket.

Perhaps it is precisely because of this that Melody (stage name Yin Yue, originally named Liu Gongxian), a famous guest of "Kangxi is Coming", announced her divorce not long ago to usher in applause - "Congratulations Ms. Liu, finally don't have to get up in the middle of the night to pick peaches for your husband!" ”

The divorce statement pointed out that the two went to the end of the marriage "because the personalities and ideas of each other were too different" and "lost the balance of the relationship", and it seemed that they also broke up peacefully and decently.

Who would have thought that not long after, I don't know which of her husband Wu Yuqi's relatives and friends threw out Melody in divorce and several sins in the marriage relationship, such as:

1. Dumped the divorce declaration to Mr. Wu in the middle of the night, he believed that she signed it, and the next day he reacted that this was simply a deed of sale to leave the household;

2. Mr. Wu has been bullied by marriage for many years, and the woman once scolded the woman in front of everyone to the point of dog blood, and after she became famous, she looked down on him when she made rich friends and scolded him at home every day;

3. Even the children complain that their mother has nerves at home every day, and scolding is so terrible;

4. Melody did not pay off the tuition loan when she first studied UCLA, but Mr. Wu helped pay it;

5. She has always regarded Mr. Wu as an ATM. Mr. Wu begged her that many of the terms in the contract were difficult to do, to see if there was room for negotiation, but she replied: If you don't do it, I will kill you.

The central idea: It is clear that Melody is a shrewd and domineering strong woman, and Mr. Wu is a pitiful little child who cannot pay gratitude and is bullied and exploited.

Ah, what a familiar taste, and the state of Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei's divorce back then, they all seem to be "the man's innocent woman is strong", all of them are people standing in front to resist everything and the man chooses to be silently invisible. The difference is that Wang Leehom moved out of his octogenarian father, and the relatives and friends who came out for Mr. Wu are still unknown, and netizens have begun to speculate: It won't be which big sister, right?

Anyway, tired, really tired. In dealing with strong ex-wives, mom and baby men can always reach unprecedented agreement:

First, make crazy women.

Scolding is unreasonable, noisy and noisy, even children are annoying, even relatives and friends are afraid, even as a pillow person can not stand it, such a person do you believe her? Shouldn't she be put in an insane asylum?

But in fact, it is very common for husband and wife to quarrel in marriage, instead of taking out a certain fragment and a certain image to enlarge, it is better to recall why she keeps reading? Why is it so emotional? Could it have something to do with the fact that at 12 o'clock in the middle of the night you don't care where she is, but just ask her where to put her pajamas?

The state of the person is shaped in the relationship, not out of thin air, if you can, who doesn't want to be gentle and gentle and quiet years!

Second, create bad women.

Ouch, it's amazing, spending her husband's money is justified, and insatiable, climbing with richer people can't look at their husband, stepping on his self-esteem and face on the soles of his feet to rub it, as if it is a demon queen from heaven and messing up the world.

Anyway, a snobby, a gold worship, and a violent and cruel, can be called the three standards of contemporary red face and misfortune.

There is no need to gather, women you occupy the same, it is easy to be immediately pulled to the moral low point and accept the fingers of thousands of husbands. If you don't believe it, there is Zhang Xiaohui in the distance, and there is a big S in the near future, regardless of the rest, squandering the family property, basically can be stamped as an unreasonable "evil woman".

Third, create poor men who work hard but are not rewarded.

The other party is the perpetrator of all evil, and he is naturally an innocent victim, obviously working hard and complaining, but he has to be accused, picked, and asked for indiscriminately, isn't this bullying honest people?

In short, the basic strategy is to play pitiful and sympathetic if you can't beat it. (In fact, if you can fight, it is much more ruthless than the so-called bad woman, see Professor Lang and Wu actor.) ）

And you must emphasize your own efforts, pay tuition this kind of thing, of course, you have to mention. Just like Li Yapeng, the predecessor of the queen of heaven, he has mentioned in interviews more than once before that "Faye Wong opened a concert, and he bought tickets to send relatives and friends to spend millions".

Even everyone who hears it can't help but ask: Isn't Faye Wong's ticket always difficult to grab, is it really necessary for him to do this? Is it to really help his wife, or to move himself, or to send favors to maintain the network?

Then from face to point, focusing on a series of accusations made by Mr. Wu's relatives and friends, the more I look at it, the more I feel that there is no convincing at all, and at this time, distilling these points into words, the purpose is too clear.

The woman was an ATM at the time of divorce, why didn't she say it before? Because you want to keep a clear division of labor, your main task is to earn money to support your family, so that you can rightfully lose your housework and parenting to your other half.

When the divorce happened, the woman became a lawless and vicious demon, why didn't she say it before? Because the "wife management strict" character is also very pleasing, she is making me listen, just to highlight my broad mind, emotional stability, adults do not remember villains, is a certain degree of "good man model", otherwise, this kind of husband and wife scene will not appear in the Spring Festival Gala sketch every year.

When I divorced, I was a poor and simple fool Baitian, so how did I get over before? How did a sixty-year-old person get quite successful and make a lot of money in society for most of his life? By making a wish or by kindness?

When strong is strong, when weak is weak, but it is really a good hand that can flex and stretch.

Whether Melody is the perfect lady or not, we dare not say, but Mr. Wu's "exquisite self-interest" is already obvious.

Of course, I don't need to say that public opinion is not biased towards Wu Yuqi's side. One of the key reasons is that everyone is more familiar with Melody, she has not shared her family life in various programs, exported her own views and attitudes, those details are very real, as a housewife's occasional speechlessness and collapse is also easy to make women around the world empathize-

"Oh, it turns out that noble ladies will also become invisible people who no one cares about, it turns out that noblewomen will also be embarrassed and angry because of her husband's incomprehensible style, it turns out that noblewomen will also be troubled by the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and marrying into a rich family does not necessarily shield women from the general dilemma in marriage."

Not long ago, Melody wrote a letter to her daughter on social platforms that was even more moving:

"With two daughters, I naturally think a lot. Because we understand the various challenges that this generation brings to women~ we must be gentle and sensible, we must also be strong and insightful, we must be beautiful and can maintain, we must also be smart and have ideas, we may also know how to be soft and hard... Well, we... Is it easy? ”

In the years of being a daughter, a wife, a mother, and a professional woman, I have never been frustrated, confused, or struggling, and I really can't write these words. After 15 years of marriage, she may not have suffered a big loss, but she also paid a lot of effort and corresponding costs, and she will not instantly become a pure rentier and exploiter because of the accusations of her ex-husband and relatives and friends.

In addition, another reason why Melody can get more support is, of course, thanks to the development of feminism and the progress of the general environment. At this point, men's "trickery" is no longer so effective, and the situation of married women is no longer ignored.

No, Melody seems to have set off a chain reaction. Wanwan's 42-year-old actress Lin Ketong recently issued a long article complaining about the pain of marriage, saying that "life after becoming a mother is only strong", and will suddenly say to her children insensibly "You don't always ask for numbness", and also bluntly expressed her heart that "mothers often don't want to be a mother, and wives often just want to be girlfriends."

Even Miss Hou Peicen, who almost grew up according to the patriarchal norms, made an "awakening" speech: Sometimes I think, is marriage suitable for human beings?

It's not that marriage is really red, she just thinks: I hope that when I am young, I know that this (marriage) is not the only option in life, you are not married and have children, and you have not entered the family, which does not mean that you are incomplete, nor does it mean that you are unsuccessful.

This is probably her mother Lin Yueyun, who has a lifelong career for men, and can't say it in her life, right?

Even if it is to cater to the trend and create a character, it shows that the sky has really changed, presumably in the next Bay entertainment industry, there will be fewer and fewer "my husband" who are coquettish one by one, and more and more "desperate and sober" wives will speak.

Although it is a few years later than the internal entertainment of 85 flowers who divorced one after another, this "spring breeze of the new era" finally blew to the other side.

If you don't get it right, the next Bay entertainment circle will also usher in a wave of divorce. But I want to say that women can't just awaken, men must also grow up, at least next time divorce rights protection to change some new tricks~

Author: Miss Bovary

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