Bay actresses get divorced, is it a collective awakening or a hardened wing?
"Is marriage really suitable for humans?"
Recently, the Taiwan entertainment earthquake, in addition to sexual assault, drug addiction such as "bomb" level fierce materials, there are all kinds of little Mars to "help", the most eye-catching of which is the frequent divorce incident.
When Big and Small S were constantly pushed to the forefront and almost became the target of everyone, Lan Zhenglong, one of Big S's famous ex-boyfriends, was exposed to divorce and ended his nine-year marriage with Zhou Youting for unknown reasons, but Lan Zhenglong said that he was still a friend.
In fact, 46-year-old Zhou Youting is also an actress and has made a lot of sacrifices for the family after marriage, so no matter what the reason, this divorce is finally an opportunity to start a new personal life.
Immediately afterwards, the famous guest of "Kangxi is Coming" Melody (famous Liu Gongxian) officially announced his divorce without warning, ending his 17-year marriage. Ms. Liu Ganggun issued a statement very seriously, attributing the reason for the divorce to "the gap between the personalities and ideological concepts of the two parties is too large" and "the balance of the relationship has been lost".
Although she has not publicly complained about her husband before, such as being ruthless, not careful, and very mommy, it may be that we acquiesce that these are not a big problem for a man, or we may feel that she can be allowed to speak out about these grievances, at least showing that the grievances in the relationship will not become a heavy stone in her heart, in short, it seems harmless to complain, no one thought that this marriage could really come to an end one day.
Now it seems that those "fussy complaints" will really become unbearable after accumulating over time, right?
Then, the women's divorce team added a new general, who is also an old acquaintance of Taiwan Entertainment, and is also very close to Big S, she is Makiyo in the former Seven Fairy Sisters Tao. This sister's marriage style is the same as herself, which is a capital and bold "unreliable".
Makiyo is a playmaker, and her marriage also reveals the taste of child's play:
was proposed five months pregnant; Smoking on the side of the road during pregnancy; On the first day of living in the confinement center, there was a quarrel and cold war, and the woman opened a live broadcast to complain...
Everything is a cliché plot of flash marriage and divorce, crazy for love, and then meet people who are not shut, chickens fly and dogs jump, and finally part ways. In this way, it is already a miracle that this marriage can last for a year. As netizens commented: unexpected and not unexpected.
In contrast, Lin Ketong's divorce is more likely to resonate with the public.
Lin Ketong, who was born in 1981, married Wu Guangming, vice president of the bank, in 2017, so far, the marriage has not left, but recently posted a long series of texts lamenting that marriage is not easy and becoming a mother is not easy.
The whole text looks like a woman who was squeezed dry by Erwa and her husband suddenly vented at a certain tense moment, while recalling the carefree before marriage and the infinite longing for marriage, while collapsing against the chicken feathers in front of her, she can only get a breathing space by "going crazy", and by the way, she exudes a little desire to be loved, just like Melody who has complained countless times in the show about "how desperate housewives are" before.
Can't help sighing, these female stars who look higher than everyone and marry well in the eyes of the world, when they reach middle age, they can't escape the fate of groaning and struggling in the mud of chickens and dogs.
Also beginning to reflect on marriage was Miss Hou Peicen. She is always smiling, gentle and gentle, quite like Lin Zhiling, known as "a model of high emotional intelligence", you can hardly imagine what such a woman looks like when she blows her beard and stares. But it is precisely such Hou Peicen who actually "speaks wildly": Sometimes I think, is marriage suitable for human beings?
Don't be too shocked, you can understand this as the title of the new media copywriting, she did not deeply analyze how anti-human marriage is, but said: I hope to know when I am young that marriage is not the only option in life, a woman who does not get married and have children, does not enter the family, does not mean that you are incomplete, nor does it mean that you are unsuccessful.
This statement comes from the mouth of a woman who has been married for 12 years, of course, it is still very convincing, as Jing Jing said, if you have not been married, you still have to try, and you know that marriage is useless after you are married.
But then again, if time is turned back, these female stars known as "sober in the world" are likely to still enter marriage.
Because whether it was more than ten years ago or twenty years ago, it is still a mainstream way of life for women to get married and have children at a certain age, women who refuse to marry and refuse to have children will still be regarded as outliers, and women who do not obediently comply without a rich material foundation will be regarded as an outlier among the outliers, most people will not believe that it is her free choice, but really no one wants it as a last resort, isn't the "unsuccessful" hat buttoned over?
To put it bluntly, no road is 100% easy to follow, and no life choice does not have to be paid. Married and having children, women cannot escape the squeeze of personal space, the inaction of husbands, the entanglement of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, and the difficulties of parenting; Being alone inevitably faces the pressure of public opinion, the loneliness of being unaccompanied, the risk of fighting illness and accidents, and the anxiety of identity.
Society cannot remove all barriers for women in a short period of time, but fortunately, as Hou Peicen said, at least the right to choose is in the hands of women.
There is no need to seduce them with false ideas of happiness, such as - "It's good to get married", "You are responsible for making money to support the family, I am responsible for looking beautiful as a flower", and there is no need to intimidate them with failed certifications, such as - "Women who can't marry are worthless" and "If you don't get married, you will live in vain", and jointly build a powerful force to push them into marriage.
No, let them face the facts and let them choose.
Therefore, these housewives' doubts and "defections" of "marriage" are actually very valuable, not only is it an indictment of those "coercion and temptation" in their youth, but also the honesty of their own mental journey, and not putting away the bitterness and disappointment in marriage like the seven aunts and eight aunts is already a kind of progress in itself. Descriptions of marriages that are closer to reality can help young girls break through the fog and make more heartfelt choices.
On the other hand, for the actresses themselves, no longer deceive themselves, in order to have a broader life landscape.
Looking back at the several Bay actresses mentioned in this article, in addition to Makiyo, several others are seriously examining married life, more or less facing their inner feelings, when a woman is thinking, doubting, refusing to work hard, it means that she already has more possibilities.
When women's social activity space becomes broader and broader, there is no need to financially depend on men, coupled with the openness of public opinion and the influx of various cultural trends, the bonds that maintain marriage will become more and more loose. Ms. Liu Gongxian's ability to file for divorce at this stage is naturally inseparable from the fact that her children are older and her career is becoming more and more prosperous. When the necessity of cooperation between husband and wife becomes less and less, the unbinding of marriage is inevitable.
Compared with the mainland, the wave of divorce in the Wanwan entertainment industry is still late, but fortunately, it is late.
Wanwan is a stitch between modern and feudal, has experienced a period of economic boom, and many times seems to be very open, but on closer inspection, it is simply not too conservative. On previous variety shows, Big Brother was keen to tactfully tease female stars, and female stars were keen to marry themselves into a good family at about the same age, and then show affection in the show. Men value power, women value marriage, and the criteria by which they judge their own worth are still the traditional ones.
But no matter how stubborn it is, it can't escape the invasion of the times, in 2023, the general trend of equality and progress has finally pried the iron plate of power and the archway of three from four virtues, women refuse to forget, and refuse to pretend that the years are quiet, they have insensibly accused, "crazy", ruptured, and tried to reconstruct their lives.
In any case, congratulations.
So I also want to ask everyone who sees here, now, for everyone, is divorce really a great event worth setting off firecrackers to celebrate?