Kochi women retreat from marriage and are disappointed, and then what?

Boom! Li Huanying is getting divorced!

That is to say, how can the eight-million-year-old routine of "husband has an affair" still have a sense of freshness and substitution?

Because of Li Zefeng's last scumbag role, I haven't been able to look directly at Buzz Lightyear for a long time, who does he want in "Good Things in Pairs"?

One

Perfect masquerade scumbag

One step over the window paper is an abyss

Who in the family understands, the scumbag husband has iterated a new version!

Lin Shuang (played by Zhang Xiaofei) seems to have a perfect marriage and family life, but after she debunked the perfect mask of Wei Ming (played by Li Zefeng), she found that the original happiness was simply a layer of paper paste illusion, and there were abysses in all directions.

Wei Ming seems to be a twenty-four filial husband, gentle and handsome, full of love words, but in fact?

Lin Shuang took his daughter alone to seek medical treatment, anxiously called him 12 times, he was busy meeting his lover in the office, not answering a single one, and daring to bite back.

Lin Shuang accompanied him to the work dinner, and the dress he wore was specially sent to her by Mistress, which was one size smaller and the style was completely unsuitable for her. Even children know to say, mom, this is not your style.

At the dinner, Lin Shuang couldn't bear it, and said a word or two of prickly truths through the wine, which was quickly packed and sent away by him.

The next day, he still stinked his face, and the cold and hard bangbang threw out "if you can't drink it, don't drink it".

It is worth looking at the two bridges together, one is that Wei Ming was about to go out before, he was familiar with the road and raised his arm, Lin Shuang quickly and gently helped him get dressed;

The other is that Lin Shuang was drunk and vomited, and the next morning the whole person was haggard and weak, but he had a stinking face, accusations and disgust.

What about supporting each other? How it all became Lin Shuang's one-way pay.

The two went to the same university and worked for the same company.

Lin Shuang has excellent grades and excellent performance, and if he stays in the workplace, he will have a big killing day, but after giving birth, he retired to the family and became a full-time mother.

Doing it yourself, busy inside and out for this family, what did you get in the end?

A reserve ex-husband who is difficult to say. The kind that wants to transfer all her property and divorce her can only leave the household.

Such a terrible, hateful and hateful side is perfectly embedded in the illusion of daily love. There are both typical commonalities and dramatic tensions.

In the first episode, Lin Shuang made the bed in this box and Wei Ming's box brushed his teeth, very daily, very living, very old husband and wife.

Lin Shuang lightly complained: "No wonder my daughter and classmates say that my father is a mobile phone program and can only be seen on the mobile phone."

The atmosphere is very homely, the aura is very harmonious, but it is very informative and has a lot of hidden space.

You see, Wei Ming, aka large-scale "good husband negative teaching materials", walking "can't find such a man to marry" live signboard, mask layer after layer, words basket after basket.

The first step, loading. Pretend to be affectionate, considerate and generous.

The second step is to empty the home. The house where Lin Shuang and Wei Ming now live is in the name of Wei Ming's parents. The joint property of the husband and wife was taken by Wei Ming to buy a villa for his parents.

After finding that the villa had a pit and could not be bought, he "bought a wealth management product and put it in his mother's account", forcibly explaining that "he said that he could not break his word when buying a house for the second elder".

Wei Ming belongs to the gold-swallowing beast, focusing on a "empty part that belongs to Lin Shuang", stealing homes in his own home and stealing people outside every day.

The third step is to shake the pot, accuse the other party, and confuse the public.

Lin Shuang found out that he was cheating and questioned him, and he raked back, "You actually don't believe me after so many years of us"!

In the face of the ironclad evidence sent by the hotel, he bit to death that it was a prank played by a young colleague in the department. It is clear that he is not reasonable, and he has a strong posture.

It was obviously his fault, and he was forced to say "It's all to blame!" Just blame you! It's all to blame on you".

The mouth is hard, the attitude is arrogant, and the feelings are bad and cold.

This method is also a kind of PUA, suppressing the other party: you are not good enough, you are not good enough, you are not good enough, you cannot bring value to this family for my work, in short, "you don't deserve it".

Bah me!

Girls, please be sure to avoid Lei Weiming in time!

Wei Ming can even be used as an adjective, the new invincible bottomless pit in the marriage world, devouring the beauty that belongs to Lin Shuang.

Two

In the name of love, in the warmth of home

Conspiracy for chronic binding injuries

After seeing the truth that Wei Ming did not love anyone but himself, Lin Shuang set out to return to the workplace and recover the joint property of the husband and wife.

However, there is resistance on all sides.

The mother-in-law is yin and yang strange, the daughter-in-law does not work at home and reaches out for money all day, the son is old and hard every day, and no one takes good care of him blabla~ Come to eat a meal with a gun and a stick, full of our son has not been taken care of!

Lin Shuang's daughter Guoguo is sick, Lin Shuang is busy alone, Wei Ming is silently invisible (cheating), Wei Ming's mother is condescending, and Lin Shuang is remotely counted down: "It's not me who said you, but if you are careful, you can avoid it."

This Queen Mother, does your waist hurt?

Mother-in-law and Lin Shuang are not very easy to understand, girlfriends should always stand on Lin Shuang's side, right?

It's hard to say enough, but this scene in the play is a little interesting.

Lin Shuang was not good to talk about, and found a classic omnipotent but useless person under the guise of how my cousin told her about her own situation. When my girlfriend heard, ah, cousin, she can't divorce!

Two people cousin long cousin short, cousin inside cousin outside the meal said.

The core point of the girlfriend is that the scumbag is bad and bad, but the cousin still has to hold this man to death.

Very utilitarian and realistic.

The girlfriend advised Lin Shuang to stay by Wei Ming's side out of a plan for her good, but this "good for her" reflects a certain commonality behind it, which is the creepy.

Lin Shuang wants to take the child to start life again, from material to public opinion, from near to far, from individual cases to the overall ecology, every link is as difficult as heaven.

Money, money was emptied. Custody, she is not working, and the court is likely to award the child to the party who "can provide a better life for the child".

Compared with the bank account, which can be seen and touched, there is a more terrifying widespread perception, invisible and colorless, spreading all the time.

That is, they all feel that Lin Shuang is attached to Wei Ming's life.

In a sense, it was Lin Shuang who made Wei Ming who he is today, but many times she was regarded as Wei Ming's dependency.

It is obviously the same as the towering wood of the forest, the wings of the bird, obviously only the division of labor is different, but they say it directly or not directly, subconsciously or subconsciously feel that "this is an attachment marriage."

Lin Shuang's lawyer is the most direct, directly pointing out this article from the aspects of money and property rights.

The girlfriend didn't use the word, but her attitude of "cousin has to grasp marriage to death" is based on such a recognition of interests.

The mother-in-law does not like to drag these words, but in her value system, Lin Shuang is probably serving her son and granddaughter.

The home that should have been warm and the love that should have been bright, after Wei Ming deteriorated, at some times, the words "chronic poison" were actually written for Lin Shuang.

There is resistance in all directions of each link, either out of blood position, or from utilitarian inertia, or out of concern and disregard for right and wrong, in the name of love, with the warmth of home, conspiring to bind and hurt slowly.

Is "her dilemma" a temporary state at some stage or a shackle for a lifetime?

Three

Returning to work moms

Rebuild your light among the barren ruins

In the first few episodes, Lin Shuang's progress bar trying to return to the workplace has just begun, and has not yet entered the stage of killing all sides, but even if he encounters obstacles everywhere and is not going well, he can see Lin Shuang's various advantages in the past and infinite possibilities in the future.

The texture in the details, Lin Shuang's ability, is not the type of levitation where the aura is pulled up in place. On the contrary, in the process of being trapped step by step, the feathers are broken layer by layer, which is delicate and full, both dramatic and landing.

For example, Lin Shuang found suspicious nails, followed the nails all the way, nail shops introduced this use of too many people, the clue was broken.

Lin Shuang went downstairs to the company and saw Wei Ming dining with a woman, rushing in, and seeing the manicur at first sight.

Oh no.

Those who eat together in broad daylight will probably not be the person Lin Shuang is looking for.

Lin Shuang was at a loss and found an excuse to buy a cake, and after hearing that Wei Ming's colleague greeted that the coffee here was good, he was very clever and quickly launched the next step.

Buy coffee to treat everyone, and very considerate to help take it upstairs together.

Take the opportunity to investigate the case and carefully observe everyone's manicures.

Unfortunately, the mistress she was looking for was not in the office at the time.

But Lin Shuang can still grasp the clues, follow the bag in the gym at the other party's workstation, and touch the melon along the vine.

Just at the beginning, Lin Shuang made a cameo appearance in Sherlock Holmes, and the focus of this paragraph is not "Lin Shuanghao will find clues, she can go to a detective agency part-time", but the pain of betrayal in marriage, the despair of trust being torn apart, Lin Shuang's ability online, the sense of suspense and tension of the play constantly reversed, are all in place.

Dramatic, but also has a particularly embarrassing sense of substitution.

After Lin Shuang brought the coffee to the office, Wei Ming stretched out her hand and she was unwilling to hold it, pretending to be intimate and pushing back his arm, not showing contradictions and not many troubles in front of everyone, smart and knowledgeable, and steady.

On the other hand, the "refusal" of her inner pride and clear love and hate also jumped out.

A particularly embarrassing picture is that Lin Shuang silently put away his award certificate at home before, and wiped the dust with his sleeve before putting it away.

It's a fun thing to wipe the ash. Loving cleanliness may have become some kind of subconscious action, and this award is placed behind a series of honors by Wei Ming, deeply hidden, unable to see the light, dusty for a long time, the ash is not at the physical level but at the division of labor and state psychological level.

It is clear that it is more dusty and deeper, but it is carefully wiped, as if it is reluctant.

In all kinds of details, the character attributes are very full, three points of intelligence, three points of being trapped, three points of pain, she is originally light, wipe off the dust called Wei Ming, bravely start over.

The play repeatedly mentions that Lin Shuang was particularly good when she was studying, and her previous work ability was also outstanding, and in her past tense, she should have sat on flowers.

At the party with an old classmate who has not seen her for many years, the other party is still impressed, especially mentioning that she won the award that year.

Xingchong asked her where she was now, and heard that she had resigned long ago and was almost choked to death on the spot.

Lin Shuang was embarrassed, and could only save himself and said that he had also taken over some outsourced small jobs over the years.

She does housework and takes care of her husband with her children, and she is busy before and after she is not idle, and when she hears it, it is not a core technical job, and the money is definitely not much... Why do you still take these jobs?

On the one hand, maybe Lin Shuang wants to earn some money on his own, Wei Ming's stealing family attributes and extremely selfish practices, Lin Shuang has not seen through before, but she may not be unaware of it. Vaguely able to understand something, she is busy with some broken silver, of course, it is also the diligence and endeavor in her personality.

On the other hand, perhaps Lin Shuang wants to find some professional business to do, so as not to be born and completely abandoned.

Let a singer not speak, let a dancer not raise his hand, it is cruel, Lin Shuang is so intelligent and excellent, probably not willing to completely lose his profession.

What is revealing to women in marital difficulties is that when Lin Shuang made up his mind to divorce, he did not immediately tear up, but began to prepare for the long term emotionally stable and with a clear plan.

I especially look forward to seeing her future tense and rebuild her light in a barren ruin.

Sister E's epilogue

Lin Shuang retired to the family to take care of her children, and as a housewife, she had done a lot and all her merits and hard work were erased.

What she did for her husband for this family, a piece of sincerity and half a lifetime of merit all went to the water, and the white-eyed wolf scumbag said that it was all her fault and she deserved it.

If "she is radiant" is very attractive, then the tragic process of "she was originally radiant, returned to her home to make soup soup, and was finally disappointed" is even more heart-wrenching.

That bed without love will become the grave of her life if she is not careful.

"Good Things in Pairs" is not a suffocating desperate story that keeps falling. The point is not "you see, she is so smart and beautiful but so miserable", but "even if she encounters misfortune, she still has the courage to restart and the wisdom to continue her life".

Trek through the thorns on a rose path.

Life has given her bloody wounds, she returns with gorgeous totems, and she will eventually usher in a pair of good things in love and career.

Today's late-night topic is:

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