The divorce has been blessed by the whole network, and this year should be only her, right?

When Taiwan's noble circle was in turmoil, a seemingly ordinary divorce news appeared.

Melody announced her divorce and rushed to the second hot search.

【1】

This year, divorce is definitely no longer something to hide, especially for women like Melody who divorce.

And looking at her statement, it is obviously well thought out, strictly worded and softly and firmly. 17 years of marriage, whether it can continue, is really very certain.

The attitude of netizens towards her is probably that she brainlessly supports all her decisions and wishes her a new life out of the sea of suffering.

Because she is Liu Hard Cannon, it's hard for you not to like her. Previously, Sister Pickpocket has said many times that she loves Melody, and she is really a very likable little master.

Although she has been complained by Xiao S many times that she is like a blonde stunner, exaggerated and contrived, often making people's hands itchy, but she can get praise from the vast majority of the audience on the show for the first time, especially next to the aura of a top family and education such as Mr. Qu.

The real audience is like this, even if you are noisy and coquettish and do not eat human fireworks, everyone can still see your sincerity and openness.

Yesterday, I saw that some netizens released Melody's magical voice, and everyone is familiar with it.

Others said that their work-study is a little bitter and bitter, focusing on their hard work or hardships and hard work, she said that she went out to work because she saw the skirts of her classmates working very cute.

As a result, she was persuaded to quit one day because the store asked her to brush the toilet, so there was a famous phrase "He asked me to wash the toilet, Brother Kang Yong." ”

Kang Yong said, what's wrong, are you going to sue him?

Many people say that Kang Yong is speechless about Melody's innocence and cuteness, in fact, Kang Yong himself does not know what the green onion and ginger body is, and when the bed linen should be changed once The rich flower of the world.

But even a Kochi woman like Melody with a good background, a cheerful personality, a prestigious school, and her own career can theoretically avoid many problems in marriage, but she still can't get rid of the ubiquitous constraints and distress.

【2】

In the past, I watched her complain about her husband and marriage on the show, and most of the pickpockets felt that it was the effect of the show, or a show of affection in disguise. But looking back now, it seems that he said the truth through jokes.

She said that her husband did not greet him on business trips, and said that he would leave;

After saying that she was pregnant, her husband described her as M&M chocolate beans;

Say that there is no hug and no kiss, and all the sweetness before marriage disappears ...

Speaking it is still the same Chinese-English Bitchy tone, which invisibly dilutes her real pain.

Adults may seem to be a little bit pretentious, but if the husband really shows nothing in marriage, let alone that he doesn't even have the minimum attention and care, it's hard not to feel disappointed.

Melody said that although she remained OK after marriage, she seemed to have become invisible, and her husband naturally regarded her as a "tool" or "background".

If that's all, her husband will still make trouble for her.

In this kind of family, the mother-in-law is already difficult to serve, Melody is busy breastfeeding and has no time to answer the phone, and the husband can directly tell the mother-in-law that she does not want to talk to you.

As we all know, a normal person, if he really cares about the other party's feelings, will not be "straightforward to make people crazy".

Although Melody is a Kochi ABC, she also has special traditional oriental feminine characteristics in her bones.

I hope to have my own children, I hope that my family is happy, and I will cry directly sad when I see that elderly women in Hollywood can give birth to twins, but I can't get pregnant.

In the current environment of not loving to have children, some people may think that she is self-inflicted, but she does like children, and for her, forcing her to give up having her own children is a kind of arrogance and discrimination.

However, she likes children, which does not mean that she will become the nanny of the whole family from now on, completely giving up her life and taking care of herself.

But her husband asked her so, he thought that the diet outside was unhealthy, and she needed to buy vegetables and cook to take care of the children before she had time to go about her own business.

So Ariel Lin's life, although ridiculed and sympathetic, may be a template for many people.

After the divorce, the topic of "peaches" suddenly fermented, in fact, this pickpocket sister also said before that she devoted herself to the family after marriage, and even things like dividing peaches must pay special attention to doing it herself.

Because my husband said that he likes to eat hard peaches, if he eats soft, he will always break his thoughts. But the daughter likes to eat soft, even if it is not broken, when the mother's will definitely remember.

Melody is grinning on the surface, but she is actually very sensitive and anxious, she wants to do her best, and she is so stressed that she wakes up in the middle of the night and runs to divide peaches. But no one cares what she likes, hard or hard, or doesn't actually eat peaches at all.

Melody husband is not a scumbag, he has a decent career and a good temper, and he has not heard any bad rumors so far (but his wife has also received some strange phone calls).

Speaking of his wife, full of affirmation, praising how smart and capable she is, her mind is running like a fly, and she is doing things resolutely. But then I thought about it, my wife even felt bitter before marriage, why is it so omnipotent now?

Melody was not fooled by her husband's sweet words, saying that she was completely trained to be like this, and the reason why her husband was like this was to make her the pillar of the family, and he was completely worry-free.

The daughter added: (Dad only) watch TV easily.

The husband has an old mother and three sisters above, even if he is not bad, he can imagine what a typical East Asian male treasure, he does not care at all and does not bother to pay attention to the trivial matters at home.

He was just instructed to put the specially bought oxtail in the refrigerator, but the next day the oxtail rotted in the car, and he also beat him to death and refused to admit it, saying that he didn't know about it.

It's really not a big deal, but many times emotions are crushed by such small problems.

Especially when Melody complained about this, Shen Yulin also added a sentence "You really love to call us ice things", and added a realistic footnote:

While asking you to do everything in detail and decathlon, I think you are nagging endlessly.

Before marriage, wherever she went, her husband would find excuses to stick together;

After marriage, her husband could not even remember the specific time when she had worked for several years;

Before marriage, her husband said that he liked her lively, cute and articulate the most, which made up for his lack of words;

After marriage, she wanted to talk like before, but her husband said that you are not hosting a show, why do you talk so much.

No matter what tone of voice is used, such a fact is undoubtedly hurtful.

【3】

In addition to her husband's indecency, she also has to deal with her mother-in-law.

The husband can talk to his own mother without talking, but the daughter-in-law is undoubtedly deliberately ruining the atmosphere if she does this.

When breastfeeding, she was framed by her husband and said that she didn't want to talk to her mother-in-law, and she wanted to immediately leave the child to appease her mother-in-law, which is not the case, mother, and then immediately began to chat with her mother-in-law. As for what to talk about, she said that she instinctively immediately found a bunch of words, and this time is to save herself.

Looking at Li Min's marriage and Melody's marriage in the past two days, Sister Pickpocket will really sigh.

Even women who look particularly good on the outside, women who are considered to be omnipotent and perfect wives experience little difference from the misfortunes experienced by other so-called "weak" women after marriage.

The husband's neglect, the in-laws' difficulties are only the threshold level, and other stories including cheating, domestic violence and even death are not uncommon stories, even Li Min has to be artificially inferred 9 times.

Li Min's husband (who is not yet divorced) came out after her death to say that she was a loved and released a painful obituary, but was debunked by Li Min's sister and said that it was a personal act, you can imagine what drama will be later.

On Melody's side, she may have thought about tolerance and acceptance of all realities, and now she is not going to force herself.

Fortunately, she never gave up her job, and in the face of external doubts, she insisted that her work and family were two different things.

In the show a long time ago, she said that she went to catch the junior of the male ticket, and the other party was very hot and sexy, but she didn't feel that she lost, "Please double degree, why should I lose others." ”

From the perspective of marriage, although she worked hard and gave up a lot at one time, she finally lived up to her "double degree".

My husband is 16 years older than his wife, but he is still a baby in the eyes of his mother-in-law, and he still calls him "brother" (Didi). Married for more than 10 years, I can still suddenly ask my daughter-in-law during a meal, why is Didi's hair gray?

Once upon a time, Melody would play haha, and then he also hid needles:

Mom, how old is he?

Don't say that his hair is gray, my hair is also white.

This may also be due to her own mother, who is not a "qualified mother".

The mother does not know the child's birthday and does not know what grade the child is in, but such a mother does not teach the child to be a horse Daha, or promote a love brain, but achieves an independent, cheerful, optimistic and confident girl.

It may be that there is such a growth experience, although the concept of marriage is still old-school, Melody strives to be a housewife while not completely ignoring her own feelings, self-fooling or even brainwashing.

By regurgitating these bad moments, she finally came to a sober understanding, which did not require great courage.

As she herself said, cold and warm self-knowledge, brave to face.

Pickpocket likes the hard gun lady because her joys and sorrows are always very honest.

Even when she was still trying to manage her marriage, she said that she once went to her mother's house to stay for a month or two under the pretext of talking about taxes. They don't leave after having children, but they sneak out for drinks after their daughters go to bed.

At the time, it sounded like a fun and a little sad routine, but now it seems that everything is a kind of foreshadowing.

She is not a wealthy dodder, and she earns no less than her husband, which is the most important confidence for her to bravely face her true emotions and make the final choice.

In addition, the child has grown up, and she does not need to be taken care of by her parents, and she also tells her daughters with her own behavior: Let you see that women have a choice, and it is worth believing in themselves.

【4】

Marriage can be a card table, in which you can easily occupy most of the chips, and you are undoubtedly a master; But people can also find it boring and choose to walk off the table and play with individual types.

"Breaking up is not hurt or failure, it is how the happiness of the dress rehearsal comes."

Congratulations to Ms. Liu Gongxian, after that, you can not eat rotten peaches, talk about taxes as much as you want, talk about taxes as long as you want, and dance freely wherever you want to show where you want.