There was once a shortage of wives in the countryside, the reason is that the proportion of rural men and women is unbalanced, many rural men should not find a partner to become an older leftover man, and now there are 4 major monsters in the countryside, people are also very helpless about this, which are the 4 major monsters?
Rural wives are barren
In the concept of mainlanders, getting married and having children is the top priority in life, for rural people to pay more attention to marriage, the scale of marriage of rural people is no less than that of urban people, but now rural men have an embarrassing situation of not being able to find a partner, many rural men have reached the age of about 28 years old, it is reasonable to say that they have reached the age of marriage, but they can not find the other half of their choice, what is the reason? To sum up, there are several reasons.
First of all, the current imbalance between men and women in rural areas, more men and fewer women, many rural women choose to go to the city to develop, will find a city man to marry out locally, in addition to this situation, the dowry that rural women want often scare off the man, the income of rural men is lower than that of urban men, and the rural women's families believe that their daughters must need a certain dowry when they marry out, and the male family with poor economic conditions will often look embarrassed about the wedding bride price, which is also the reason why rural men can not get married.
In addition, rural men are relatively honest and simple, and often do not spend careful thoughts when pursuing the other half, and now women have a sense of ceremony, even if the two sides of the male successful blind date will also have contradictions on such issues, so that they cannot go together, but in addition to the wife shortage, there are 4 major strange phenomena in the countryside.
4 great monsters in the countryside
The loss of rural girls is one of the four major strange phenomena in the countryside, in the traditional concept, girls should stay at home to do some housework, and now women have higher pursuits, do not want to stay at home, want to go to the city for better development, but also reflects that girls in both urban and rural areas are now stronger.
The second strange phenomenon is that after marriage, "less grandmother" frequently appears, in the past women gave the impression of gentle and virtuous, and now this situation has changed, women have been pampered since childhood, because they are the hearts and livers of their parents, so that now rural girls basically do not do housework, and they often participate in entertainment activities with three or five friends on weekdays, and sometimes they will use funds for grooming and dressing, and after marriage, they cannot help their husbands share housework, becoming a young grandmother in the family, and male parents dare not say anything more.
The third strange phenomenon is the reluctance to have children after marriage, in the past rural women are willing to have children, a family has multiple children that is a common thing, and now women are more disgusted with having children, one is because october pregnancy is too painful, but now women pay more attention to their own appearance, generally believe that having children will be significantly out of shape, and there is also an important reason is that the pressure of having children is too great, it will have an impact on their own lives, so they prefer not to have children
The fourth strange phenomenon is just married to divorce, in the past people married because of the identification of a person's most future life of the other half even if there is a contradiction in life will try to tolerate each other, run on and go on, and now people often because of some trivial things to the point of divorce, do not attach importance to marriage, in their view divorce is also a normal thing.
summary
Following the shortage of wives, there are 4 major strange phenomena in the countryside, which can also reflect the problems that appear in society, and some parents of children also express helplessness for these strange phenomena.