Oh my God, Selina is pregnant!!!
At noon today, she boldly announced on her radio: "I! Ren Jiaxuan Selina! I'm pregnant! ”
Immediately afterwards, she also disclosed the baby's nickname "Little Cashew".
As soon as the news came out, netizens sent their blessings one after another: Congratulations sister! Must be happy!
Selina, 41 years old this year, actually has fibroids and it is not easy to get pregnant smoothly.
And she also revealed that her boyfriend Xiao Xu was so excited that he cried after learning about it.
I sighed that Selina, who was once full of scars, now has irrepressible happiness and sweetness in her words.
It is also very gratifying that after surviving the cold winter, she finally came out of the pain of divorce and disfigurement.
She yearned for love so much, and finally ushered in her own happy ending.
She said: Forty-one flowers for women, my spring has come.
Speaking of which, many people's first reaction when they see Selina pregnant is: When did my sister get married?!
In fact, she is not married, but has a stable boyfriend.
In March last year, some media photographed her entering and leaving the hotel with a mysterious man, behaving very intimately.
The boy not only helped her carry large bags and small bags, but also was very considerate to her.
And she is also very relaxed in front of the boys, bouncing like a cute girl.
After being photographed, Selina did not hide it, and came out to confess her love generously.
The two dated in September 21, and her boyfriend Xiao Xu is an outsider, in business, and is 7 years younger than her.
Although her appearance is average, she is very spoiled and has been unanimously recognized by the group of girlfriends.
At a friend's party, because the man is a fan of S, he boldly confesses to her.
The cute S ran to the other friends with a big grin and said, "He said he likes me!" ”
And Xiao Xu is also completely in line with S's ideal type, not only an amateur, but also loves her and loves her.
After being together, the two also sprinkled a lot of dog food.
Xiao Xu is Selina's exclusive driver, and will come to pick her up no matter how late she is to and from work.
After seeing a grid scar on her body that was burned by fire, she would say, "That's the scales of a mermaid."
It was also this sentence that untied her heart knot about scars for many years.
Selina and her boyfriend said "I won't get married again", which can be announced to the world, but not registered.
Her boyfriend also respected her decision.
As Selina puts it, "We are in charge together, but I am the master." ”
Seeing that Selina is so happy now, many people have begun to let go of her two relationships that did not go well.
Back in 2010, Selina, who was at the peak of her career at the time, received a seemingly perfect marriage proposal at a concert.
Four months later, Selina and Zhang Chengzhong got engaged.
But no one expected that a fire would burn everything.
While filming the TV series, Selina was hospitalized with extensive severe burns and disfigurement.
At that time, because Zhang Chengzhong desperately chose to marry S, many people praised it as a fairy tale into reality.
Who knew how quickly a slap in the face would come.
While Selina was suffering from skin grafting and rehabilitation, Zhang Chengzhong was repeatedly exposed to scandals.
What's more, he not only published a book talking about S's burn rehabilitation experience, but also told the media that he was nauseous and wanted to vomit when he saw S's leg.
Outsiders seem to think that the words are excessive, and Selina, as the person concerned, is even more chilling.
The marriage lasted only 5 years and she announced her divorce.
The shadow of this failed marriage on Selina is huge.
Once she longed to be a housewife, and after this marriage, she still believes in the existence of love, but no longer believes that it will happen to her.
The next time I heard the news about her relationship was in the 19-year romance series "Daughters in Love".
In the show, she met the little milk dog Zhang Xuanrui, and the other party said that he came for her, and her first reaction was not to believe it.
But later, she gradually opened her heart to accept this hard-won heartbeat.
What moved Gigi was that in the confession of the show, she finally let go of her defense:
"I feel angry at the thought of being brave, and I kind of hate why I have to be brave like this."
"But this time, I want to be brave, and this bravery is for myself."
But it's a pity that after the show ended, this seemingly true and fake relationship disappeared.
Because of the two unsuccessful romances, many people began to worry about Selina's vision of men.
First, she is worried that she will be foolishly deceived and used by others to stir up the heat;
The second is that she is afraid that she will be hurt in her feelings again, and what she expects does not match reality.
Everyone begged the man not to hurt her and to be nice to her.
In everyone's hearts, she is still the sweet little princess, easily injured and naïve.
But in Gigi's view, to regard her as a "petite girl" is to look down on her too much.
Under her sweet and smiling exterior, the undertone is unique tenacity and gentleness.
She said that she hated bravery, but those years when she had to grit her teeth and persevere condensed into a new medal in her.
She said "dare not love again", but compared to those who dare not take steps after being hurt, she still did not give in and compromise in love.
On the contrary, it is a little more thorough and sober.
After the divorce, she bluntly said that love is no longer the most important part of her.
And tell everyone, "A failed marriage is not equal to a failure in life, don't keep looking at us before, you can look forward to our future." ”
When she meets a new fate, she values the present of the two more than a marriage letter.
So she accepted the marriage proposal, but did not receive the license;
You can live with your boyfriend, but you don't divide your property.
Pregnancy is the same, becoming a mother completes her life.
You'll notice a lot of variation in Selina.
In recent years, she has learned to embrace herself.
She started a new company, founded her own brand, and released new albums.
I also have more hobbies, flower arranging, swimming, mountain climbing, marathons...
She boldly put on a bikini to show off her scars, and she didn't care about the extra wrinkles on her face.
Afraid of heights, she will challenge a five-hour climbing trip to enjoy the scenery at the top of the mountain.
Every October, she holds a "birthday party" where everyone who accompanied her through the trough is invited to celebrate.
She accepts everything in life, good or bad.
Some people feel sorry for her and want to tell her: in fact, you don't have to be so strong and brave.
But she doesn't really need everyone to worry about her, because of those good things, she can reach on her own.
In life and career, she can be a big queen on her own.
In love, she believes that she also trusts each other and is the naïve little girl again.
These years of experience have made her understand that loving and being loved is actually rare.
But there is nothing wrong with giving sincerely, and failed love has not stopped her from moving forward.
At the age of 40, she is more calm, because she finally understands: after being reborn, she no longer needs to rely on others, and the person who can support her entire weight in life is herself.
With twists and turns of fate, this girl with a soft heart but a steel bone finally took back the initiative in her life.
At the end of the story, I suddenly remembered the song that S.H.E. wrote for her.
"You're a little injured, you're still my princess."
"Pink, to describe her / delicate rose, but also only for her fragrance."
It is said that on this road of life, there is a total number of sufferings, and if you don't eat in the front, you have to make up for it later.
Then, Selina's future life must be full of roses, bright and fragrant.
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Responsible Editor / Niu Hu Lu Sang
Edit / duck duck