Knowing the progress and retreat, knowing the general is an honor or an unfortunate
I don't know from what day, I found that I seem to have grown into a person who will not be planted in the relationship, because I seem to have understood what to do in the world of two people, how to say what to gain or lose, for example, I have understood that the more reckless you give, the more you can not care; for example, I have understood that two people who are tired of being together every day and do not have their own space for each other will always be prone to contradictions; for example, I have understood that love is not allowed to be taken for myself, and I must let go when it is time to let go. Otherwise, it will be scaled all over the body. Of course, in addition to these, I also learned a lot of inconvenient words, such as "I want to be clean for a while." For example, "You should have a little more of your own life." For example, "I'm busy first, and I don't have time to think about this for the time being." "And so on and so forth.
I don't know if the world is like this, obviously these truths have been written badly in the major emotional forums and Tieba as early as possible, but they always "can't learn", always have to try their own poison to get scarred, only to integrate all this, to cultivate the ability of "reasonableness", so I think it should probably be described in this way and not too much: those who talk about emotional issues and point out are just exchanging their own experiences.
Is it an honor or an unfortunate idea to "know the progress and retreat, to know the general body"? I think the answer has been decided immediately. And I, if I had a choice, I would really rather be a person who is not "aware of the advance and retreat, the general body".
There is a person who can love, how precious
Time pushes us forward step by step, step by step, step by step, and step by step to learn to protect ourselves, and it is in the process of changing step by step that the one who accompanies us gradually changes from like to suit or need. We have a scale for love, with a measure, we will change from not counting everything at the beginning to thinking about family, thinking about the city, considering the degree of life matching and many other things, sometimes I can't help but ask myself, is this change because I have become smart? Is this change a benign evolution for me?
I think most people should be the same, will feel that the first love is the sweetest, the most precious, the most unforgettable, this feeling is not through thinking without comparison, this is the truest voice of the heart, deep and unquestionable. Even in this first love, I lost the most, and I "worked hard and got nothing". But it is also the most unforgettable.
And in the future encounters, we will always feel as if something is missing, passion? Living and dying together? vigorous? In fact, it is not, we are just more calculated, less real, and this calculation, may be derived from life, may be from experience, but it is difficult for us to shirk, that purity has been difficult to lose and regain, there is a person who can love with the heart, how precious.
I don't want to love someone with a story
A person with a story, he is too sophisticated, he will calculate gains and losses, he will always wear a protective film for himself in the process of getting along, he has been injured, so it is difficult for him to be sincere like a moth to the fire. Of course, the most important thing is that he will deceive people, may not be malicious deception, this deception may be that the booing and warm greetings he gives you is just his habit of dealing with people, it may be that the sweet words he says are just the product of his hand, and it may be that the shan menghai oath he gave you is only a temporary intention that he knows your heart well. And the most terrible thing about this is not that he skillfully "deceives" you, but that he cannot deceive you, because you also have a story, you are no longer naïve, you can distinguish between true and false, so you cannot get the most precious human world from a "will" called love.
I don't want to be a man with a story
The story may make me mature enough not to hurt myself as before, but it will also make me lose the purest taste of love, I may agree that losing is not necessarily losing, I know that sometimes losing will win the conscience to jump crisply, but I may not be the one who is willing to lose, because my experience will always make me unconsciously weigh the pros and cons, perhaps this is an injustice to another pure encounter.
Born as a human being, I am sorry that I have a story, to youth, to conscience.