There is a line in the TV series "Let's Get Married": "If I have a beautiful face, you must have a mansion that matches a beautiful face, and if you want a luxury car, I must have a body that matches the luxury car." ”
"Equal conditions" is a problem that must be considered when talking about marriage, whether men or women do not want to suffer losses on this issue, only when both sides recognize each other and reach a consensus, they can achieve positive results.
The bride price is a topic that cannot be avoided in marriage, young people marry more than three or four hundred thousand, less than twenty or thirty thousand, the amount of the bride price varies from person to person, which can increase the festive atmosphere of marriage, but also can make both sides have a light on their faces, so the young people's wedding dowry is indispensable.
Middle-aged and elderly people usually regard material things such as marriage rooms, bride price, and three golds as very light, they think that two people are in love, have the same three views, can support each other, take care of each other and enjoy their old age together.
Some elderly people are entangled in the issue of bride price, she not only wants the bride price, but also the amount of the bride price is difficult to accept, few men are willing to agree to her request, the result can be imagined.
Uncle Gao is 62 years old, a retired teacher, uncle Gao has a 90 square meter house, pension of more than 4,000 yuan. Uncle Gao is tall, loves to talk and laugh, is a cheerful and talkative person, and has a good popularity.
When he is idle, Uncle Gao likes to read books and practice words, and also likes to play cards and chess with a group of old guys, and Uncle Gao arranges his time to be full, and his life is very fulfilling.
A few years ago, his wife died, Uncle Gao helped his son with a baby alone, and his pension was basically used to supplement his son, and he had no complaints about it. After the grandson went to school, Uncle Gao was liberated, his heart was empty, and he often felt lonely and lonely, so he had the idea of finding a wife.
Uncle Gao wanted to find someone who was gentle and considerate, thrifty, healthy, and willing to take care of him and his companions until the old age. There is another thing that Uncle Gao is very concerned about, he wants to leave most of the pension to his grandson, leaving only more than 1,000 yuan for living expenses, and he does not want his wife to intervene in this matter.
According to Uncle Gao's request, HongNiang arranged for Sister Yan to come on a blind date. Sister Yan is 52 years old, widowed, working in an insurance company, earning more than 3,000 yuan. Sister Yan is beautiful, has a good temperament and can dress up, and looks much younger than her peers.
Sister Yan can speak the Tao, cheerful personality, very good at enjoying life, her salary is barely enough for her to consume, Sister Yan believes that women should be better to themselves, eat and wear should be exquisite, only in this way can there be a high-quality life, in order to make themselves happy and happy.
Sister Yan is avant-garde and fashionable, she is very different from the traditional woman required by Uncle Gao, and Sister Yan is 10 years younger than Uncle Gao, can Uncle Gao match Sister Yan? Can they spark love?
After meeting, Uncle Gao behaved very unconfidently, and Uncle Gao praised Sister Yan's beauty, but he had no bottom in his heart, and he said to the Red Lady: "You arrange a beautiful woman for me, how can I be worthy of her?" ”
We all know that it takes a lot of money to marry a beautiful wife, the price of raising a beautiful wife is even greater, Uncle Gao's economic ability is limited, he wants to find a wife with slightly better conditions, Sister Yan exceeded his expectations, and in the face of such a beautiful girl as Sister Yan, Uncle Gao naturally wants to retreat.
Under the persuasion of the Red Lady, Uncle Gao promised to stay and talk, in case Sister Yan did not dislike Uncle Gao, what if they were concubines who wanted to see each other?
Uncle Gao took the initiative to introduce his situation, his son started a family and has a stable job, Uncle Gao has no burden, and lives alone in a big house. Uncle Gao does not worry about eating or wearing, the only regret is that there is no one around to be a companion, which is also the original intention of Uncle Gao to find his wife.
Sister Yan's children also started a family, Sister Yan's husband died unexpectedly, Sister Yan and Uncle Gao have the same experience and encounter, they have a lot of common topics. The more they talked, the more speculative they became, the more they talked, the more intimate, and the atmosphere of blind dates was very good.
Sister Yan is a straight child, and she bluntly said her mate selection conditions. Sister Yan wants to find a man with a house and a car, Sister Yan asks the other party to have a big house, which can make her live comfortably, and more importantly, after the death of her wife, Sister Yan does not want to be driven away, Sister Yan is particularly concerned about this problem, so she asks to add her name to the property certificate.
Sister Yan has high requirements for the quality of life, and she hopes that her future wife can meet her material needs and provide her with a superior life, giving her two thousand yuan per month for living expenses. Sister Yan said that what she wanted was not money, but a guarantee.
Uncle Gao is a person who is not bad money, he has the ability to meet the requirements of Sister Yan, but also to let Sister Yan live a good life, Sister Yan is beautiful and temperamental, marrying Sister Yan as a wife will make Uncle Gao's face have light, at the same time Uncle Gao will be physically and mentally happy, whether to interact with Sister Yan is a problem that Uncle Gao has to consider.
Just when Uncle Gao hesitated, Sister Yan put forward another request, and it was this request that made Uncle Gao petrified in an instant.
Sister Yan said: "No matter which man marries me, he must give me a dowry of 100,000 yuan, and this requirement has never changed." I have no interest in men with bad conditions, and dating men like that is delaying my time! ”
Uncle Gao has a house and a car and good economic conditions, he has the qualifications to marry Sister Yan, he can accept other conditions of Sister Yan, but he cannot accept the dowry of 100,000.
Uncle Gao immediately expressed his position: "I have no money, even if I have money, I don't want to spend money on you, this is my bottom line, you are not worth my money!" ”
Sister Yan tried to persuade Uncle Gao to think about it, but Uncle Gao's attitude was very resolute, and they could not talk about the bride price, and the blind date was so unhappy that they broke up.
As the saying goes: "There are only men who can't get a wife, and there are no women who can't marry." "Women are very confident in the issue of marriage, even if the woman's conditions are worse, there are always men willing to marry her, and women's advantages are clear in this regard."
For this reason, some women with good conditions will open their mouths, and she will put forward some excessive conditions to men, such as asking men to earn millions of dollars a year, asking men to buy a house for her, and giving hundreds of thousands of bride price. In the eyes of others, these demands are crazy, but she thinks they should be taken for granted, and firmly believes that there are always men who are willing to marry her.
Sister Yan is 52 years old, she is well maintained, she looks very beautiful, but her age is a hard wound, no man is willing to give her a dowry of 100,000, marry a beautiful girl in her 20s as long as 100,000 dowry, how can Sister Yan compare with a beautiful girl? This is also an important reason why Uncle Gao rejected Sister Yan.
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