For 30+ "single dogs", the last festival may be the annual Spring Festival for the whole family, others celebrate the holiday, the family is happy, the single dog festival, the first to the sixth day of the junior high school, the queue is full of blind dates.
The pain, in addition to the parties, may not be experienced by outsiders, but this cannot be completely blamed on the parties, from school to society, everyone's social circle is getting narrower and narrower, work is getting busier, and their own time is getting less and less.
If you want to know a person who can be completely compatible from the material level to the spiritual level, it is easy to talk about, especially some people with high education and good conditions, and the requirements for the other party may be higher, so the chance of meeting the right person is naturally smaller.
"The probability of my sister getting married is 0", the younger brother complained that the doctor's sister was on a blind date, and he felt stupid to read
A netizen who is a younger brother, sharing the blind date process of his doctoral sister, complaining that the probability of his doctoral sister marrying out is 0, seeing his own brother say this about his sister, netizens are still a little confused, but looking at the whole experience, the first reaction of many netizens is: another doctoral student who reads stupidly.
In the description of the younger brother, in fact, the sister is a very good person, born in 89, doctoral degree, is a teacher in a public middle school in Beijing, the income is unknown, but it should not be too low, in fact, this degree and this job, logically speaking, in the blind date market, is already very good, but the doctor's sister's "emotional intelligence" is slightly problematic.
Because he is worried about his sister's marriage event, if this younger brother meets the right one at work, he will also think of helping his sister Zhang Luo, and it turns out that the younger brother of a sister in his unit also works in Beijing, and he looks very good in all aspects, age 92 years, although the age difference is a few years, but it is also similar.
But the doctor's sister took up the shelf and asked the other party to send photos and introduce themselves, and the other party also sent it sincerely, but the doctor's sister felt that the other party's photos had filters, needed to be taken fresh, and could not wear thick clothes, to see fat and thin, and so on.
Not only that, when it was really agreed to meet, first my sister did not show up, and sent parents to understand the situation first, and the parents were also relatively strong, when it came to some problems of buying a house and decorating, the conversation was not very pleasant, and finally broke up unhappily.
But in the evening, the doctor's sister said that she glanced at the boy, felt that she looked good, and wanted to add a WeChat chat, and her brother also forced her to call her colleagues, but the result can be imagined, when encountering such a blind date, it is strange that the other party is not angry, so the two people missed it like this.
High education and good work should not become their own "shelf", at least there should be no less emotional intelligence
If you complain about a female doctor from a different perspective, such as the man or the man's sister, there may be some exaggeration in the process, but the brother comes forward to complain, then maybe the doctor's sister's emotional intelligence does have some problems.
First of all, I feel that this sister, because of her education and work, may have some sense of superiority, and there is no way to look at her actual situation more objectively, and finally she feels that in the process of blind date and love, she has more choices, but in fact, the problem of feelings has always been mutual.
But the problem is not only in education and personality, in most of the people I contact with high education and good work, some although the personality will be more restrained, but can read to this position, absolutely not low emotional intelligence, so the problem of this sister can not be completely attributed to education.
And through the description of the younger brother, in fact, it is not difficult to find that the parent's education method also needs to be reflected, perhaps in normal times parents also hold their daughters too high, although daughters are the pearl of the palm of parents, but blind dates also need parents to "take the lead" is indeed a little boundary.
It is said that college is the best time to fall in love, but here we must also advise college students not to fall in love for the sake of falling in love
Before college, if students dare to fall in love, it is early love, once discovered by the school, the teacher tells the parents, or the worst may be directly suspended and punished.
But when it comes to college, it's different, students are under easy academic pressure, and they are also adults in age, so many people will suggest that college students must have a campus love, and some people will even feel that if the university does not fall in love, life is incomplete.
It can't be said that everyone is wrong, but I still have to advise the students, if you really meet the other half who is going in both directions, can accompany each other, grow and progress together, then it is okay, but if you talk for the sake of talking because of the so-called not leaving regrets for yourself, and finally delay your studies and affect your grades, it is really worth the loss.
Topic discussion: What do you think about the fact that your brother spit on the probability of his sister marrying out is 0? Welcome to leave a comment.
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