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In the mouth of the matchmaker, the post-00s girl came to the court to grab a man, how should I look at it?
This is a topic promoted by the matchmaker a while ago, a girl born in 2000, who is 24 years old this year, has indeed reached the marriageable age, and the legal age has arrived, but are they really actively getting married on a blind date? From an economic point of view, not necessarily.
What do you look at from an economic perspective? Wait a minute.
This group of 00 girls may be the object of reception by the matchmakers, but this order may not be delivered smoothly. But what! Because there is a new order, it can indeed cause real pressure on the inventory, what is inventory? That is the group of girls in their 27-30s, urging them to be positive, and women after 30 can keep them awake at night.
This trick of the matchmaker door is actually quite powerful, and it accelerates the success efficiency of the order.
The matchmakers opened their mouths and said that 00 girls robbed men, and there is a question here, which men are grabbed? What kind of man was robbed by a post-00s girl? Post-00s girls are in the blind date market, are they robbing post-00s boys?
It is also necessary to make it clear here that it is in the direction of marriage certificates, not the act of falling in love. If the post-00s girls are in the blind date market and grab the post-00s boys to get married, it means that the world tends to be normal, and the post-00s girls are directly resisting the capitalist trap and brainwashing with cultural invasion. The post-00s girls struggled to carry the mess left by the two generations of women in 8090 with the strength of a generation.
But what if not?
What if it's not the post-00s boys who rob it? Then you have to ask, which men are they robbing? Therefore, in the mouths of these matchmakers, the so-called robbery of men by post-00s girls has two real intentions, 1. It is not actively serving the marriage situation of post-00s girls, but speaking to a large backlog of inventory women, you can sell it. 2. In the killing of post-00s girls, use a welcoming attitude to induce younger girls to come over. Because, the girl that capital likes, when she grows up, is worth her youth.
Of course, there is a cruel reality here, if these post-00s girls come to the court to grab men, it is not the post-00s boys who rob, that is, the post-8090s men, then for the post-00s boys, it is the reality of the law of the jungle. The post-00s boys are facing exactly the same as the post-8090s girls who were brainwashed by capital, which is actually the same, extremely realistic.
As for post-00s girls, how sober and how not controlled by capital are of little use to post-00s boys' marriage and love. A 23-year-old marriageable girl who is not clearly controlled by capital is not very clear and not controlled by capital, for an ordinary post-00s boy, there is not much difference, and it can even be said that there is no difference. Post-00s girls, sober and not, for ordinary post-00s boys, they are all the same, they are all one word, difficult. If the post-00s boys are not ordinary, they are the rich second generation, and the girls are sober or not, you are the same, you are not difficult. From an economic point of view, that is, pigs can be slaughtered and can make money.
If the post-00s girls go on the field to grab men, not the post-00s boys, then they are not actually robbing men, they are making profits, and youth profits. Correspondingly, which men can take out their interests to exchange the youth of post-00s girls, it goes without saying, it is a man who was born in society early to make money, so calculated, it is clear at a glance, it is a man born after 8090. Therefore, this is not a post-00s girl grabbing a man, but a man grabbing resources and women.
The ultimate orientation is still the problem of the man's world, the overall rules of society, and it is not because of what is sober! What understands! And any change is still the law of the jungle.
From this set of logic from the perspective of the economy, there is nothing wrong, I sent a private message in the background, and a brother shared a story, he said that now more and more young girls are more inclined to marry men older than themselves, which is called "mature".
Therefore, whether age is related to maturity or bank card deposits?
This kind of girls are very sober and thoughtful in choosing a mate, first of all, they are younger than men, so they have room to choose; Because correspondingly, men older than them must have experienced a lot of blind date experiences, but they are still single, as they get older, these men must be very anxious, but on the contrary, these girls have a lot of choice. This older man can't do it, just change it, anyway, it's not over 25 years old, it's still very young anyway, but you're an older man, you can't afford it.
This will make boys more anxious, in this way, they will blindly invest huge energy and financial resources in them, and even in marriage, there is no room for negotiation (the bride price cannot be discussed, what specifications are required for the banquet, and even the wedding dress, where to go for the honeymoon, you have to listen to others, and the slightest carelessness will be wasted), which will also prompt men to fall into a kind of involution.
And this kind of girl will pretend to be very aggrieved, I am younger than you, you are so old, you married someone younger than yourself, this is what you earned. Then after marrying in, they can enjoy the income fruits of this man's years of hard work with peace of mind, and they don't need to go through the same ups and downs. The name is beautiful: It's all a family, and I'll keep it for you.
This kind of girl is much more terrible than those older leftover women who have been brainwashed, they have a clear understanding of themselves, know their strengths, will fully grasp their advantages, and will cash out at the highest point of their advantages (mainly age).
Finally, he also said that there are now two such girls in their unit, and they are actively going on a blind date. This should be the girl who grabbed a man at the door of the matchmaker. From a business point of view, the faces of these matchmakers, no, are the faces of businessmen, which are ugly and ugly.
You will now see the comments of those emotional bloggers who are starting to be unfriendly to older women and divorced women, especially girls of marriageable age, and even more unfriendly to these women. This was unimaginable before the epidemic, recalling that in the early short video platform, a divorced woman, with a daughter, walked on the road, accompanied by a melody of music, it was amazing, and now, there is almost no more. By means of profit, in the way of deception, people's sympathy has been completely overdrawn, at that time, even if someone stands up and says, many women will scold you back with saliva, what is wrong with the divorce of women! Is a woman's divorce inferior to others? and so on, pulling a group of women with social problems too high, and thus driving a group of women to divorce quickly, join the organization, and think that divorce is a normal thing.
And now, young girls are beginning to stop defending this, and the unfriendliness towards divorced women has been revealed, which is diametrically opposite compared to before the epidemic.
I don't dare to ask for this for the first time!
Is it not fragrant to find an unmarried person with this condition? Looking for a son with such conditions?
When I got married to my husband, our eldest girl didn't dare to ask for such a high demand, and she didn't dare to ask for a bride price, and she even married 50,000 yuan. Now more than ten years have passed, and life is getting better and better. After the marriage, the two of them worked together to complete it.
Such a request is made to the child's father, and I am afraid that the idea of remarriage will be dispelled in an instant! There is a reply below, I think too.
There is also this, she just bought a house after she got married, and as long as she paid a dowry of 20,000 yuan, her sister didn't ask for it when she married far away, and the other party gave it to her. I don't know if I have feelings, but the boy wants a bride price of 280,000 yuan, and he wants to find an 18-year-old girl for the full house, etc.
These remarks were unimaginable in the early years, and some people once used public opinion to satirize men, what a big deal to find a second marriage! A second-married woman is not something you can marry if you want to! A woman's divorce is not inferior to others! Some poor men don't know what to think, thinking that it's okay to marry a divorced woman, etc., it can be said that they have poured a lot of poisonous chicken soup into these women, making them extremely excited, and the videos of smug people are everywhere, which is really shocking to watch.
Now, it's not the men who are beating them, it's the younger girls. It's really how high it was at the beginning, and how bad it is now.
Why don't women now maintain these women who have drunk too much chicken soup? In fact, it is very simple, because normal women have to maintain social order.
The moral order of society is maintained by married women, because their children, who are now half older, have begun to think about the future for their children, and have begun to react to the intrigues and tricks of this society.
So, if you pay attention, the women who are trying to maintain the overall moral order of society will be known by looking at how old their children are.
And those so-called sober girls, I don't dare to mention this request on a blind date? It's easy to understand. Back to the beginning of the article, which men did the post-00s rob?
It's those men who have a little money, if these older women and divorced women want so much dowry, they are robbing them of resource men who have a little money.
After all, resources are limited, so sober-minded women began to suppress and began to be unsociable with the big sisters.
If this set of theories is not wrong, the kind of divorced woman pulling a girl, with a piece of melodic music, and posting divorce certificates everywhere to show off, and saying that your divorced woman is not what you want to get, and so on, there is no need for men to come out and suppress it.
The reason for this is well understood, that married women whose children are half as large need to maintain the overall moral order of society. There are also those marriageable young girls, as long as these women demand more than themselves, they will immediately fight back, there are two points:
1, my first marriage and even a yellow flower girl, why are you taller than me? You don't deserve it, if you do, then what am I! This kind of demand is not worthy of its position, and in contrast, it will make them extremely unhappy.
2. Resources are limited, they can clearly see the reality, because these social problems women are living examples, these women have not found a partner yet, for young girls, they are in the same environment, the purpose is the same, is to rob their own resources, so you can't tolerate it. These things, when you look through human nature, everything can be understood.
Why hasn't this ever happened? In fact, it is very easy to understand, because at that time, the licking dog economy had not yet collapsed, and the most important point is that there was no reference for those chicken soup women in the past, and the so-called so-called sober young girls today are because these older leftover women and divorced women are the best reference for today's marriageable girls. They shouldn't want to give 100 million leftover women in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and send a number of heads, and they will be sprayed miserably.
Being sprayed by others is not the most important thing, no one wants it, you are not allowed in the emotional and marriage market, you have nowhere to go, no one can tolerate you anymore, this is the most important thing.
This is a living example of reality, and such an example, in front of the post-80s woman, there is no reference, and for the post-90s woman, the reference has not yet been officially revealed. For post-00s girls, the front reference is formal, thorough, and visible to the naked eye.
Infrastructure determines the height of the upper level, history is a mirror, look at it from an economic perspective, and use the competition for resources to understand, for why the post-00s girls are now encouraged to be sober, and some female groups no longer maintain the reason for the older and divorced women.
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