If in this world, in addition to the biological parents, there will be anyone who will be good to someone else's son, I think it is the parent-in-law.
For their daughters, they can live well in their in-laws' homes, and for their daughters, they can get more care and respect from their sons-in-law, and their parents-in-law will often treat their sons-in-law well. It's not how much they like their son-in-law, it's that they know very well that if they don't treat their son-in-law well, their daughters won't get treated well.
It's just that the in-laws treat the son-in-law kindly, but the son-in-law may not be kind to the parents-in-law. After all, just like the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are not related by blood, the parents-in-law and the son-in-law are not related by blood, but they are related by family.
In fact, it is said that raising children to prevent aging, but in the end, you will not know whether you are raising children to prevent aging, or raising children to prevent children?
01, the daughter rebelled, upside down to marry
Aunt Song and her wife, with only one daughter, have been carefully cared for from childhood to adulthood. It's just that the daughter has just graduated from college for three years, and she is clamoring to marry her college classmates, saying that the two sides are true love.
Aunt Song still does not think that young people who have not suffered social beatings have any qualifications to say true love? As a result, the parents' opposition has made the daughter even more intense, directly running away from home and severing relations.
Aunt Song was anxious, but she had to compromise. It's just that the other party's family is generally poor, there is a brother who is studying in college, and his parents are just very ordinary migrant workers, it is not easy to maintain his livelihood, where is the spare money to buy a house for them to get married?
Aunt Song originally didn't want to pay attention to it, and let her daughter suffer hardships. As a result, the daughter was soft and hard to them, and all kinds of pampering, and finally the old couple had to take out their savings to buy a dowry house for their daughter.
The daughter's rebellion, upside down to marry, so that Aunt Song is very faceless between relatives and friends. But at this point, she can only fulfill her daughter, and the scenery and scenery have married her daughter out, but she has a heart.
02, the parents-in-law moved to the son-in-law's house for 7 days, and the daughter's room lights were on for 7 days
If it were not for the illness of her wife, Aunt Mo would not be able to take care of her alone, and perhaps they would not choose to go to her daughter's house for the elderly. But the daughter was graciously invited, aunt Mo took care of the wife as the most important, and consulted with the wife to bring the family's 500,000 passbook.
They thought so at the time, the old two have a daughter, and in the future they still have to count on the daughter and son-in-law to retire. If the son-in-law treats them and welcomes them to stay and recuperate, then they will give the 500,000 passbook to their daughters, which is considered to be a body for the daughter.
The old couple was picked up by their daughter, and before leaving, the old two were particularly happy, feeling that the days had a head start, and they could enjoy the joy of the world in the future. As a result, the old couple moved to the son-in-law's house for 7 days, and the daughter's room lights were on for 7 days.
On the first day, the daughter was very happy, but the son-in-law behaved lukewarmly, not particularly polite, not particularly enthusiastic. At night, the old couple rested early, but in the middle of the night there was a quarrel in the daughter's room.
Aunt Mo was a little worried and uneasy, and often asked her daughter, but her daughter did not let go. It wasn't until the daughter and son-in-law quarreled for 7 days, and Aunt Mo also listened to the corner for 7 days, the daughter told Aunt Mo that the son-in-law said that she took her parents, then he also had to take his parents to the pension, all parents, to treat them equally.
03, parents-in-law hid 500,000 passbooks and left
But the house that Aunt Mo bought for her daughter at the beginning was only three bedrooms and two halls. If the family comes back, the house will become very crowded. After all, the grandson has gradually grown up and has to have his own room.
Seeing that the daughter did not agree to receive her in-laws, the son-in-law was anxious, saying that the son-in-law had no obligation to support her parents-in-law, either let Aunt Mo sell her old house and take money to exchange them for a big house, or Aunt Mo and her wife returned to their own home to retire, and he wanted to take his parents to the pension.
The daughter was angry, but she quarreled with her son-in-law every day, and the son-in-law also took a firm stand this time, did not let go, and said that either she would raise both parents at the same time, or raise both parents separately.
Hearing her daughter's words, Aunt Mo's heart was full of mixed feelings. The reason why she and her wife bought this dowry house at the beginning was also to think that when their daughters got married and started a family, they could also come to the pension in their later years. But now that the son-in-law has refused, Aunt Mo's heart is also very unhappy.
Especially when she heard that her son-in-law blatantly wanted to drive people away, Aunt Mo was even more angry and cold. Originally, she still wanted to give 500,000 passbooks to her daughter, but the son-in-law's ruthlessness still managed to force her back.
The next day, Aunt Mo hid the passbook, packed her luggage again, and returned to her home with her wife, regardless of her daughter's retention. After going to her daughter's son-in-law's house, she found that the golden nest and silver nest were not as good as her own kennel. The daughter is filial piety, but the son-in-law does not give strength, and the parents-in-law can only be wronged and seek perfection.
Today's Topic:
Do you support Aunt Mo's approach?
Half-summer commentary: Dissect the emotions of marriage, teach you to read the human nature of the human heart!