Love is beautiful, everyone is also eager to meet the right person, but the world of feelings is very complicated, sometimes not to pay all can be rewarded, nor to come together to spend the rest of life together, marriage is not love, less freedom and more heavy responsibility, need to assume their respective family roles, but also to face more trivial and pressure, especially for women, but also to deal with complex mother-in-law contradictions or sister-in-law problems, once the run-in can not come, can not adapt, Even the deepest feelings before marriage will be consumed after marriage.
Women are emotional, in the face of love sometimes very blind, even for a moment of goodwill can give it all, do not know that to decide a relationship for a long time, often not romance and passion, but the other party's character and family style, so want to get married, you must be cautious, only after weighing the pros and cons, can you make the right choice, in the face of unfair treatment, but also to adhere to their own bottom line and principles, do not blindly choose obedience and compromise, otherwise it is difficult to have happiness in marriage.
Xinyu and Xu Yang met in college, after graduation did not run to each other, but stayed in the same city, the feelings have always been very good, but Xinyu's parents are very dissatisfied with Xu Yang, the reason is that the family conditions are general, there is no prospect for work, so that the first time to Go to Xinyu's home, the woman's family did not even leave him down to eat, just two sentences of greeting issued an eviction order, and even the gifts brought by Xu Yang did not receive.
Although the parents opposed, but Xinyu is sincere to Xu Yang, and did not choose to give up because of the parents' opposition, and then the woman's family proposed a dowry of 120,000, in order to get married, Xu Yang worked hard to get together this money, the two people got married smoothly, originally according to the customs of the old family, most of the parents will add some more money, and then return the dowry money as a dowry, as the starting capital of the new family of two small families, but Xinyu's parents did not do this, but said that they worked hard to raise their daughters, and this little money was taken as a little return.
Xinyu is also very helpless about this, fortunately Xu Yang does not mind, but also let Xinyu do not put on the heart, but not long after, the parents asked Xinyu to pay three thousand yuan a month, saying that it is to give them pension fees, Xinyu is naturally very difficult, his family has just stabilized, follow-up to the child when you have to spend money everywhere, now where there is spare money for parents.
After being rejected by Xinyu, the parents began to cry poor, but also in front of relatives to count the daughter's is not, Xinyu finally chose to compromise for the sake of quiet, but the husband had an opinion, after all, given three thousand a month, the quality of life also plummeted, for this matter, the small two also had a gap, the former intimacy also evolved into contradictions.
Later, Xinyu became pregnant, Xu Yang's career also improved, the feelings of the two people were repaired, but who knew that the mother came to the phone again, this time she wanted 100,000 yuan, saying that she was going to buy a car for her brother, Xinyu as a sister should support and help, this time Xinyu resolutely refused, she was afraid of continuing to help without a bottom line, and her marriage would sooner or later come to an end.
Mother but still do not forgive, every day is the phone call continuously, text messages do not stop, and even find the door, Xinyu is also helpless, since childhood parents are biased towards the younger brother, their own bride price has been taken to buy a house for his brother, and now they have to buy him a car, if they still choose to compromise, only afraid of encountering more unfair requirements, for their own family and children, Xinyu this time refused to the end.
For this reason, the mother was furious, saying that she forgot her mother when she got married, and did not regard her brother as a family, Xinyu was angry and directly replied: Mom, compare hearts to hearts, I am married, I also have my own family, there will be children in the future, I can't always help my brother, I have given you enough over the years, if you are still so messy, then I will not give you the monthly pension fee after that. Seeing her daughter's serious attitude, the mother had to restrain herself, and then Xinyu resolutely issued an eviction order.
In real life, there are still many families with the idea of preferring sons to daughters, thinking that daughters are also married when they are raised, and when the daughters who marry out are spilled out of the water, it is better to put the focus on the son, so that a bowl of water is uneven, excessive eccentricity leads to daughters being treated unfairly from a young age, even if she grows up, marries and has children, she is still blindly demanding and squeezing, not knowing that people's hearts are mutual, if the child's heart is completely broken, it is difficult to recover.