The in-laws have no pension, the husband has an idea, the little two do not have to pay for the pension, and the wife proposes a divorce

Don't marry low, don't marry low, don't marry low.

In marriage, women have to find a partner on the same level, which will be a lot less troublesome. These troubles refer not only to the economy, but more importantly to the mind.

Li Fuzhen, the eldest daughter of the Samsung family, divorced her husband Ren Youzai, and this woman who "gambled on love" still lost in the end.

With Li Fu's real family background, can there be no money? But many problems in marriage, just having money, can not be changed, the difference gap between them, with nothing to fill the dissatisfaction.

In the end, Lee fu-jin paid Ren Youzai 14.1 billion won (about 73 million yuan) in exchange for a court decision to dissolve the marriage between the two. However, Ren Youzai expressed dissatisfaction and will continue to appeal.

It's silly to bet only on a woman you love, and it's hard to win.

Wen Wen is simple, quiet, and her appearance is medium and high. When I first entered college, there was no shortage of suitors around me. However, she looked at Xiao Yu and did not pursue her.

Xiaoyu scored well, and both exams were at the top of the grade list. In addition to working part-time in the cafeteria, Xiaoyu lives two points and one line between the dormitory and the library. It is also this difference that has attracted Wen Wen's attention.

Wen Wen ran to Xiaoyu's canteen stall almost every day to eat, and gradually Xiaoyu also felt Wen Wen's gaze. He didn't know what kind of expression to use, and always deliberately gave Wen Wen more dishes.

Wen Wen's classmates watched that each time Wen Wen had more meals than others, they coaxed, and the two naturally came together.

In the past few years of college, the two people are not without friction, but fortunately, Xiaoyu let Wen Wen everywhere, Wen Wen, although some girls have a small nature, is not an unreasonable person, and the two people have been getting along until they graduated from college.

After graduation, Wen Wen's parents saw xiaoyu's progress, and they only sighed that Xiaoyu's family conditions were really dragging their feet, but they did not make any substantive objections.

After graduation, the two also encountered some small episodes. After Wen Wen worked, a colleague in the company has been pursuing her and said that as long as Wen Wen is not married, she can compete fairly.

That colleague and Wen Wen's family conditions are the same, and their personal conditions are also matched. But Wen Wen was reluctant to have a relationship with Xiaoyu for many years, and refused one after another.

After Xiaoyu learned about it, he asked Wen Wen to change jobs, and the two of them had a fight because of this matter and almost broke up. Later, the male colleague did not know what reason, first changed jobs, and this matter was stopped.

This incident has left a gap between the two people. Later, Xiao Yu took the initiative to show kindness, and Wen Wen thought that Xiao Yu was also because he cared about himself, so he gave up.

The two people went all the way to marriage, Wen Wen knew the situation of Xiaoyu's family, and neither old man had a pension. Xiaoyu's father is still working outside, and Xiaoyu's mother is working in the farm at home.

Therefore, there was no entanglement in the issue of the bride price, and I asked for 18888 yuan. The down payment of the house is Xiaoyu's savings, plus Wen Wen's parents gave more than half of the financial support, which will be solved.

After marriage, Xiaoyu's parents really did not drag their feet financially, nor did they let Xiaoyu Yueyue send money to the family. Maybe I know that Xiaoyu has a lot of mortgages and is under pressure.

Then again, Xiaoyu and Wenwen's current salaries have just made the small family break even, and if they let them take out some money every month to subsidize their in-laws, they really don't have the ability to do so.

If life goes on like this, Xiao Yu and Wen Wen will get better and better. After all, two people work hard enough to stay up for a year or two, and their wages will increase.

But the blessings are incomparable, and the misfortunes are not alone. Xiaoyu's father broke his arm while on the construction site, and the in-laws cut off their financial resources.

It just so happened that Wen Wen had just found out that she was pregnant two months ago, applied for a transfer, and her salary was cut accordingly. It was originally a happy event, but it added to the clouds of sorrow.

The small family could not come up with the pension money for the in-laws, and looking at Xiaoyu was embarrassed, Wen Wen felt uncomfortable. The two men were calculating how to open source and reduce expenditure.

Suddenly, Xiaoyu said, "I have an idea, we don't have to work so hard, find a way to save money for my parents to retire." You are pregnant now and can't work so hard. ”

Before Wen Wen was moved, her heart was like falling into an ice cave, Xiao Yu continued: "Your parents have a pension, let your parents use one person's pension, and the other person's salary card is used by my parents." Your parents save a little, one person is enough, my parents also have a living security, we don't have to be so embarrassed. ”

Wen Wen trembled with anger and firmly opposed it. Xiaoyu said that Wen Wen disregarded family affection, was short-sighted, and had no overall view.

Wen Wen thought that Xiao Yu could not turn a corner for a while, and she fainted sharply, so she stopped arguing with him. Just choose to cool down for a while and talk to Xiao Yu again.

When we talked again two days later, we found that Xiaoyu's thinking still hadn't changed, and Wen Wen was discouraged. He said that if Xiaoyu insisted on doing this, there would only be one way to divorce.

For many marriages, poverty is not afraid, as long as two people have one heart and work hard enough, they will turn over. I am afraid that the three views will never be unified, and the contradictions in those days will increase unabated and cannot be solved.

When choosing a mate, women should remember: seven points to love, three points to love themselves, do not force yourself into a dead end.

The feelings of the door-to-door pair cannot be said to be free of contradictions, but it is easier to reconcile.

As a person, you must always leave a little leeway for yourself. Don't look for extremely selfish men when you get married, he can't change it.

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[Wen | Wei Wei'an: the pen has temperature, for the voice of emotion, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]