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I just took my son home with a nutrition injection, said hello to my in-laws, and prepared to wash my hands and cook.
My son has had a very poor appetite in the past six months, eats very little, and has lost a lot of weight. I was afraid that he had a physical problem, so I took him to the hospital for examination, and the doctor said that there was no problem, just a little anemia.
The doctor suggested that I give my son a nutritional injection to make sure that his nutrition can keep up, and when he has a better appetite, the nutrition injection can be stopped.
So, I take my son to get a nutrition injection every month, hoping that his nutrition can keep up, and now is the critical time.
After a while, the meal was served, and I beckoned the two boys to eat. They devoured it, and I told them to write their homework.
They are a junior high school, a sixth grade, are critical times, can not relax at all.
The eldest is Zhao Zhiming, the son of my husband Zhao Liang, and the smallest is my son.
Zhao Liang and I are married for the second time.
After eating, I began to clean up the dishes, clean up the inside and out, thinking that I could finish the work of the two of them quickly.
Before I could enter their room, my mother-in-law stopped me and said that she had something to discuss with me.
I looked at my in-laws doubtfully, what could they not say when Zhao Liang was at home, but when he was not at home.
My mother-in-law pulled me to their room, closed the door and said, "Xiao Qing, we want to discuss something with you." You see Zhiming is getting bigger and bigger, we want to buy him a house, you see how much money you have in your hand? ”
I was a little puzzled that the house we live in now was bought by Zhao Liang and I with a down payment. It's only been a few years since I moved in, so why do you want to buy a house for Zhao Zhiming?
I smiled and said, "Mommy and Daddy, you see, our house is still paying off the loan, and two children need money to go to school." If you buy another house now, you will definitely not be able to eat it. Zhiming is still young, and he still doesn't know where to go to college or where to work. ”
My mother-in-law didn't take my words and said to herself: "I just want to buy a house for my grandson, so how much money can you take?" Your son is sick and spends a lot of money, I want to buy my grandson a house what's wrong? ”
It turned out that the mother-in-law was afraid that I would spend the money on her son, and at the loss of her eldest grandson, she asked me for money in a different way.
How do I deal with Zhao Zhiming, can't they see it? Changing seasons to buy clothes, cooking often does what he likes to eat; buying school supplies or something, when I blink.
Although my son spent money on nutritional injections, this money was earned by myself, and I can afford it.
I said helplessly, "When Zhao Liang comes back, let's discuss it." ”
After saying that, I quickly left. Because, I don't know what kind of moth my mother-in-law is going to do.
2
Zhao Liang and I met because of work, and I was divorced for a year at that time. My ex-husband hooked up with a woman while working outside the home, and I couldn't rub the sand in my eyes and left happily. The son was left to me and the ex-husband paid the maintenance.
I am a salesman in a men's clothing store, Zhao Liang came to see the clothes are I help him pick the style, the size is also appropriate, the wear is also spirit. One after the other, we added WeChat.
Zhao Liang and a friend partnered to open a car repair shop, which is not large, but the business is good. He is usually quite busy, and his circle of friends is often busy until late to come home.
On WeChat, we have a ride without a ride to chat. Later, he confessed to me that I was his favorite type, with a good temperament, a good personality, and a special ability to run a family at first glance.
I also like him, he looks mature and stable, and has craftsmanship, which is the look of the husband I want.
I told Zhao Liang that I had a son and asked him to think clearly. He said he also had a son, and just two of them could be companions.
Later, we were together. The two kids had a lot of fun together and I felt like I had found the right person.
Unexpectedly, I was opposed by my mother-in-law. The mother-in-law wanted Zhao Liang to find someone who had never been married, even if he was divorced and had a daughter. But I'm taking my son with me.
The mother-in-law thought that in the future, both boys will buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law, and I will definitely be partial to my own son. Therefore, she forced Zhao Liang to break up with me, but Zhao Liang did not listen to her at all.
The mother-in-law couldn't see him and agreed to be with us.
After marriage, Zhao Liang gave me his salary. A few years later we put the money we had saved to pay a three-bedroom house, and when we renovated it, we had thought of two children and one room for each.
But the mother-in-law said that she would also come to live, saying that she was old and could not live without her grandson. She even said to my face that with her stepmother there is a stepfather, and she is afraid that her grandson will be wronged.
No way, Zhao Liang and I discussed and installed one of the slightly larger rooms on the bed for the two children. Another small room for the mother-in-law, finally blocked the mother-in-law's mouth.
We had a good life in the last few years after our marriage. I am also a mother, and I am good to Zhao Zhiming. Everything is bought in double, and neither of the two children loses anything.
I think that people's hearts are all flesh, I am good to Zhao Zhiming, Zhao Liang and in-laws will be good to my son. Zhao Liang is really good to my son, but my in-laws have always been partial to my grandson. I can understand that too.
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When Zhao Liang came back in the evening, I told him about my in-laws' desire to buy a house for Zhiming.
He said: "How did my parents mention this stubble again, they told me some time ago, I said that the child is still young, wait until the older one." Unexpectedly, they went to you again. ”
"I saw that my parents were determined to buy a house for Zhiming, and kept asking me how much money I could take out, probably because I was afraid that I would spend all the money on my son." I said helplessly.
"I know you, and I see what you do to Zhiming and my parents." Zhao Liang said.
Yeah, what do I do to their family, others don't know, he still doesn't know.
I don't know if Zhao Liang and his in-laws said anything, they didn't mention buying a house for Zhiming again. But I always felt that things were not so simple.
A few days later, listening to Zhao Liang, Chen Ying returned. Chen Ying is Zhao Liang's ex-wife and Zhao Zhiming's mother.
At that time, they divorced because Chen Ying suspected that Zhao Liang earned less money. At that time, Zhao Liang was still a car repair apprentice, not only had a low salary, but also was very busy, and he did not have time to take care of his family.
Chen Ying insisted on divorce, Zhao Zhiming sentenced Zhao Liang, and Chen Ying paid maintenance. But she rarely gave child support in recent years.
Over the years, Chen Ying has been working in the field, and usually rarely comes back, only occasionally calling Zhao Zhiming. This time she didn't know why she came back.
When Chen Ying came to see Zhao Zhiming, he brought a large bag and a small bag. She not only bought things for Zhao Zhiming, but also for Zhao Liang and her in-laws.
I don't know what medicine she sells in her gourd. Zhao Liang was not at home, and her mother-in-law and Chen Ying grunted in the house for a long time before they came out, afraid that there was something to discuss.
One day, I overheard my mother-in-law calling someone, as if she was finalizing something, and said happily, OKAY, listen to you, you just look at it.
Later, I learned that Chen Ying and her in-laws were discussing buying a house for Zhao Zhiming. But Chen Ying hoped that Zhao Liang and I would divorce and remarry her.
She did not go home for several years, and as soon as she came home, she put forward such conditions, and she did not know what Ann's heart was.
My in-laws were not happy with me marrying my son. Now that Zhao Zhiming's mother has returned and wants to pay for him to buy a house, his in-laws are sure that a hundred are willing.
They also carried me and Zhao Liang on their backs, and took Zhao Zhiming and Chen Ying out to play together.
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Ever since my mother-in-law wanted Zhao Liang and Chen Ying to remarry on the surface, my mother-in-law's attitude toward me has changed greatly. Even Zhao Zhiming's attitude towards me was not good.
Before, Zhao Zhiming said anything to me, and also called me mom. Since he had more contact with Chen Ying, he was simply picking bones in the egg for me.
Once, he wanted to play with his phone, and if he wasn't allowed to play, he would make trouble. The in-laws did not stop him when they saw it, and said to play with him. Zhao Zhiming played for a while and suddenly said: You are harming me.
I was instantly cold and didn't know how to refute it.
It is he who wants to play, and if you don't play with him, you will make trouble, and playing with him is to harm him. How did I get so hard, and what did he really want?
The most excessive time, not to let Zhao Zhiming play with his mobile phone, he ran to the courtyard, named and scolded me, and the neighbors heard it. I don't know how I thought I was him. When the in-laws heard this, they only scolded him a few times.
I can't control him, I don't know what to do, and I don't want to manage it.
With the mother-in-law, what the stepmother does and does is wrong.
I also didn't want to ask Zhao Zhiming, so I could only let Zhao Liang go to him.
Zhao Liang asked him, Zhao Zhiming said that I was too eccentric, said that I did not care about him, only my son, there were several online classes did not take, resulting in his poor test scores. He also said that he wanted his mother to come back, and his mother was kind to him, buying him this and buying that.
This is really a sin of desire, and there is no excuse for it. During that time, the epidemic, the school let online classes at home. Obviously I called him, and he ignored me and just played. I said a few words to him, and now the blame is on me.
I told Zhao Liang, how I treatEdu Zhao Zhiming, you see it in your eyes. In the future, you can take care of him yourself, I can't control it. Originally, I was a stepmother, and it was wrong to manage it well or badly.
The in-laws and Chen Ying were really wasted, and in order to get Zhao Liang and me to divorce, even the art of war was used.
They knew that Zhao Liang had always paid great attention to Zhao Zhiming's academic performance. Because Zhao Liang's education is not high, he has always wanted Zhao Zhiming to go to a good high school and a good university.
Zhao Liang usually pays attention to Zhao Zhiming's learning no matter how busy he is, and the parents' meeting is even more difficult for him.
Now that I'm making such a fuss, I don't know what Zhao Liang will think?
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I also don't want to ask Zhao Liang's attitude. If they have gone so far, why should I allow them to slander me?
I am not so good at bullying, I clearly told Zhao Liang: You have also seen, since Chen Ying came back, how your parents and sons are treating me now, no matter how good my temper and personality are, I can't bear it anymore. If you want a divorce, let's get our property done early so we can get together and disperse.
If you want to live well, solve your family's problems. I don't want to live such a bad day again.
Zhao Liang told me that he had not thought about divorce, and he would go to Chen Ying to make it clear. He also said that she was fine outside, how she suddenly came back to engage in this file, and I don't know what the purpose is.
A few days later, when the in-laws returned, they were happy, still holding the floor plan, as if they were sure which house to buy.
Seeing that I was at home, my mother-in-law said: "Xiaoying has already taken us to see the house, the deposit has been paid, the money is ready, just wait for your divorce payment, when will you and Zhao Liang go through the formalities?" ”
I didn't pay attention to her, and since she made me feel bad, why should I give her a good face.
I immediately called Zhao Liang and said: Your ex-wife took your parents to see the house, waiting for us to go through the divorce procedures, did you explain things clearly?
Zhao Liang said: I have already told Chen Ying that I will not divorce, how can she mention buying a house again. What happened to my parents, why did they hold on to the house, and it didn't make sense?
Before Zhao Liang could gather them together to explain, Chen Ying suddenly left without even saying a word. The in-laws were dumbfounded.
They were bent on buying a house for their grandchildren, and they also took a deposit, and no one could find it. Chen Ying did not answer the phone call, and the message was not returned.
Later, Zhao Liang asked people to inquire, saying that Chen Ying was good with a man at the place of work. This man is also divorced, and when he took Chen Ying home to meet his parents and children, the children did not agree.
Chen Ying said in a huff that she would go home and remarry. Men can't rest assured of Chen Ying, and have been convincing the children, hoping that they can accept Chen Ying.
Chen Ying came back, and the man had been in contact with her. In fact, Chen Ying couldn't let go of men, she was just angry for a while.
Later, the men solved the problem of the child, they accepted Chen Ying, and the man came to Find Chen Ying and took her away. So she said that she didn't say a word and left, leaving her in-laws here to scold and grin, saying that the deposit was paid.
There was really no way, or Zhao Liang and I found the sales office, and after some tugging, we wanted the deposit back.
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After Chen Ying left, my in-laws did not mention the purchase of a house again, and their attitude towards me was better.
I always have knots in my heart. I cherish my current home, and I know that Zhao Liang is good to me, but I have never been able to forgive my in-laws.
Some time ago, Zhao Zhiming's attitude towards me also made me chill. I poured out my heart and lungs for him, he had such a bad attitude towards me, how would I get along with him in the future.
At dinner that day, the in-laws suddenly said that they wanted to go back to their hometown, saying that they were not used to living here, and still wanted to go back to their hometown. They also said that they knew that I was good to Zhao Zhiming and handed him over to me.
It turned out that Zhao Liang saw that I was uncomfortable. As long as my in-laws are here, I can't take care of Zhao Zhiming. Because Zhao Zhiming knew that there were grandparents to support him, he did not obey.
Zhao Liang also promised his in-laws that if they wanted grandchildren, they could come back at any time if they wanted to see them.
I also promised my in-laws that I would take good care of Zhao Liang and Zhao Zhiming and not let them worry.
As long as Zhao Liang believes in me and my in-laws trust me, I will do my part, be impartial, and teach Zhao Zhiming well, after all, we are a family.
I know that the in-laws cannot be completely at ease. But people's eyes are shining, what you do, how you do, people will look in the eyes. I just have to be honest.