Strange things are especially many this year, is it that I am not worthy to be a mother, or do you not deserve to be a father?
Recently, a man in Chongqing took his wife to court, he felt that his ex-wife's education level was low, and he was worried that the child's frequent contact would affect the child's children.
His demand was that his ex-wife's permission to visit his children must be obtained, that he could not leave his sight, and that he could not take the children to his ex-wife's newly formed family.
bite! According to your meaning, if the cultural level is low, you should not have a baby and become a mother! When you first talked to people about love and went to bed, how did you not suspect that people's cultural level was low! Now put on your pants and start not recognizing people, right?
You said that your ex-wife's low level of education will affect the education of your children's children, and I think what you do is not the work of high-quality people.
The old saying goes: Live in peace without forgetting danger, rich without forgetting poverty, high position without forgetting the original, weight without forgetting the people.
I don't know if you have heard the story of Meng Mu's three migrations, in the era when the woman was talentless and virtuous, Meng Mu cultivated YaSheng Mencius.
I don't know if you have heard of Ouyang Xiubu in the Eight Greats of the Tang and Song Dynasties, Ouyang Xiu lost his father at an early age, his mother Zheng's supervision was very strict, his family was poor and had no paper and pencil, and he tried to teach his son with di painting.
In fact, most of the parents of our generation are peasants with lack of knowledge, and most of them are industrious, kind, simple and friendly, and filial to their parents. I don't know which ph.D. of your parents are from, and they can teach people like you.
Let's take 10,000 steps back and say that no matter how unbearable your ex-wife is, just by giving birth to her in October, you are not qualified to prevent her from meeting the child.
Today we will nag, the woman's October pregnancy will give birth.
Pregnancy chapter
Preconception
The most uncomfortable thing for women in the early stages of pregnancy is "morning sickness", and babies who have experienced morning sickness can definitely experience that feeling. What to eat and vomit, but for the sake of the baby can not not eat, serious even will vomit as soon as you eat, can not eat at all.
When you meet your husband, you can take care of it on the side, and the one who meets her husband's scum not only has to endure physical pain, but also has to be disliked by her husband.
Second trimester
The second trimester is relatively better than the first trimester, pregnant mothers feel that they are energetic again, but it seems that the brain is not good, congratulations you have entered the trajectory of "one pregnancy for three years".
Although you can eat and drink in the second trimester, all kinds of embarrassments also follow, and what burps and farts are not controlled at all.
When I meet my scumbag husband, I am occasionally forced to taste the forbidden fruit.
Third trimester
In the third trimester of pregnancy, because the stomach has become larger, all the body organs in the body are squeezed, resulting in various poor sleep. Even if you don't sleep well, you always want to go to the toilet.
It is difficult to survive to give birth, and those who choose to give birth naturally also need to experience the pain of tearing the heart and lungs caused by contractions, which is several hours or even longer.
If you choose a sister who chooses to have a caesarean section, you have to endure the pain of opening a knife in the abdomen (surgery is not painful, postoperative pain).
The most tragic thing is that the smooth delivery is not smooth, and the person who turns to caesarean section has to endure both the pain of contractions and the pain of caesarean section.
No matter which mode of delivery is chosen, it is extremely dangerous and painful for pregnant mothers. It can be said without hesitation that the life of each child is exchanged for the life of the mother.
In fact, the pain of pregnancy is much more than I wrote, and there are many complications, stretch marks I did not say, the hardships and pains of which are only known to women who have been pregnant.
I just want to know what right you have to prevent your ex-wife from seeing the child by giving birth to a child in October, according to life and death.
Postpartum
The most difficult thing to endure during the confinement period is lack of sleep, and the daily life is to feed, change the diaper, coax the baby, feed the milk, change the diaper is not wet, coax the baby, and it is never ending, there is no enough sleep.
The most difficult thing to endure during lactation is the nipple crack, the pain can not be said, I imagine the wound closed and torn, torn and closed what it feels like, that kind of pain in the heart, only the mother knows.
There are also some mothers who do not have the comfort of their families and suffer from postpartum depression, which is a disease that can kill people.
After giving birth to a child, I think I can't fully describe it as a grandfather, nor can I describe it to you with just a few words, I can only say that your mother raised you and suffered a lot.
I just want to know what right you have to prevent your ex-wife from seeing the child, just because of the pain of breastfeeding.
I don't know what your education is, and I don't know what you think, but fortunately our laws are sound and will not heed your unreasonable and excessive demands.
Written at the end: Academic qualifications do not measure everything, let alone a mother's love for her children, and no one can deprive a woman of the right to be a mother for any reason.
I would also like to advise this father that divorce has caused a harm to the child, and if you deprive his mother of his love for him, it will only make his life have more regrets and defects.
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