The 5-year-old boy said that he was so happy that the teacher did not beat me for a day, and his mother checked the monitoring and collapsed: the child was beaten by the teacher almost every day
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Parents, children returning from kindergarten, do you all ask your children what happens every day?
How was it at school? Anything fun? Is there anything unhappy?
Pregnant mother reminds: Please all children with kindergarten babies at home must communicate with their children more and understand their daily life in kindergarten.
If something is wrong, be sure to pay attention.
Recently, there was a hot search news, which made people very angry: The 5-year-old boy said that the teacher was really happy that he didn't hit me for a day!
It happened in Qingdao, Shandong Province, Ms. Sun's son is 5 years old, in middle school, and her wish is simple, that is, she hopes that her child can be happy in kindergarten.
She never interfered too much with the teacher's teaching, and agreed that the teacher was strict, because boys, after all, are naughty.
But she didn't expect that when her child was in kindergarten, she was beaten by the teacher every day, and she was also beaten by the teacher's children.
More than two months ago, Ms. Sun's son came home and said to his mother: "The teacher asked me to take the initiative to take a day off the next day, saying that I was too annoying. ”
Ms. Sun only began to suspect here, the next day she went to the school to communicate with the teacher, the teacher said that she had not hit the child, she also believed it, let the kindergarten check itself, she did not want to find out, just wanted to ensure that the child was safe at school.
When the child came home the next day, Ms. Sun found that something was wrong and looked strange, and the child said: "Mom, I am really happy today, the teacher did not beat me all day today." ”
This is like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, how can I accept it as a mother, I am not beaten for a day, the child is very happy, how the child usually lives in school.
Ms. Sun went to the police station to check her health after calling the police, and she said: "I wrote down a total of 11 pages and found that my son was beaten almost every day, and there were more than 130 records alone.
Scratch your head, slap your face, pull your ears, pinch your arms, kick your legs with a pen....
The childcare worker has done it to the child many times.
The head teacher also moved, but the movement was very light, and she dragged the child twice.
The child kept telling his mother: The head teacher dragged him to the small water room and hit him in the stomach with his fists.
There was also an out-of-class teacher who also beat the child, because the child accidentally got a plastic toy on the out-of-class teacher, and she turned around and punched the child twice.
Not only that, but the child was also bullied by the homeroom teacher's teacher, an 11-year-old boy, took a sword-like toy and poked the child in the lower body.
Ms. Sun said: My child didn't do anything, just stood there, he poked that there, and reinstated my child, and the nursery saw it and directly ignored it.
It's heartbreaking that a child you treasure should be treated like this by your teacher and other children.
At present, Ms. Sun has called the police, but two months have passed, and the relevant part has only responded that the three teachers were fired, and the public security organ also determined that the teacher did not constitute a beating of the student, and decided to terminate the investigation.
At present, Ms. Sun's appeal is that she hopes that the Education Bureau will strictly inspect the kindergarten, publicly report it, give them paper documents, she will not accept compensation, nor will she accept private information, and she will not give up seeking justice for her children.
After the news was exposed, many netizens said:
"The nature is too bad, only the expulsion is too light, the preschool teacher certificate is revoked, you cannot engage in the profession of preschool teacher, record files, affect political trials and so on." Only if the punishment is severe, no one will reoffend. ”
"Dismissal = harm in another place."
"Do you have to be injured and killed??? Such frequent actions on children are not caught! ”
"It must be forbidden to engage in the kindergarten profession."
"Child abuse incidents have never stopped, and the punishment of those involved is still inadequate."
Yes, it is precisely because the punishment is so light that child abuse by kindergarten teachers occurs frequently, and it is heartbreaking to watch young children being hurt. (News source: @头条新闻 @华商报大风新闻)
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A 3-year-old boy was abused in kindergarten
Throwing, dragging, flooding, etc., the child is beaten almost every day
In recent years, incidents of child abuse and harm by kindergarten teachers have been common.
For children, kindergarten is a place to have fun and play, but because of the bad behavior of some bad kindergarten teachers, it leaves a shadow on the children's supposed happy childhood.
Not long ago, a 3-year-old boy in Luliang, Shanxi Province, was abused by a kindergarten teacher.
After watching the video, the child's father was heartbroken.
Unscrupulous kindergarten teachers hang 360° in the air to throw children, drag children, and forcibly fill water.
The child cries and directly ignores it, and directly drags the child backwards.
Step on the child's head, punch the child .....
The parent took the child for examination, and the child was diagnosed with head trauma and acute stress.
After the incident, the personnel involved in the kindergarten were dealt with, the kindergarten teacher involved was dismissed, and the director and principal who had management responsibilities were dismissed.
A kindergarten teacher in Yulin, Shaanxi Province, threw a 4-year-old boy, causing a head injury.
At first, the teacher told the parents that the child had fallen out of the chair.
The diagnosis of examination in the hospital was: mild closed head injury, scalp hematoma.
Until the next few days, the child mentioned that the teacher beat people many times, and dreamed that the teacher beat people to detect abnormalities.
When I went to the school to see the monitoring, the parents found that the teacher had carried the child.
The child ate and sat well, and the teacher lifted the child's arms and fell heavily to the ground.
Eventually, the teacher was suspended.
(Image source: @钱江晚报)
The same bad thing happened in Hefei, Anhui.
A kindergarten teacher slapped a child several times on the rooftop.
The crackling sound from the video and the child's desperate cry are like knives, deeply penetrating the hearts of parents...
There are many, many more to list such things, and the pregnant mother knocks every word very heartache.
What have these unscrupulous teachers done to these children who have not yet grown up?
As parents, I sincerely hope that those who lack love and morality will stay away from our children.
It is also hoped that the relevant departments will severely punish those who abuse young children, and the dismissal alone is really not enough to deter these people.
As the netizens above said: dismissal = harm in another place.
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Only severe punishment can be imposed on those who abuse and harm children
to deter potential child abuse!
Frequent incidents of child abuse in kindergartens have caused many parents to panic about kindergartens.
How can I take good care of my child?
How can I avoid abuse of my child?
And how can you tell if a child has been harmed?
Every question makes parents rack their brains.
But around us, there are many, many kindergarten teachers who are full of love for children, and they are also conscientious in their posts and take care of children...
accidentally peed his pants, never blamed, always treated gently ...
Coaxing children to sleep without a word of complaint, will use counting to calm young babies, will hold children full of insecurities and treat themselves as grandmothers...
They are sometimes more attentive than the child's mother, she can see the girl's shy and expectant mood, and take care of her feelings to communicate privately.......
I still remember that when the 4.5 magnitude earthquake struck Bijiehezhang County, Guizhou, at a critical moment, 24 teachers and 176 children were all safely evacuated, and they went back and forth several times, without leaving a single child behind... Watching the teacher rush into the classroom was really, really moving..........
There are many, many teachers in charge of this .....
But it is because some teachers forget their duties, lose their morals, and extend their violent hands to innocent children.
While hurting children, it also hurts the trust of thousands of parents in educational institutions and teachers.
To prevent such people from appearing in the early childhood education industry, multi-faceted collaboration is required.
First: severely punish those who abuse and harm young children in accordance with the law, and make those who harm children pay a heavy price, so as to have a deterrent effect.
Second: it is necessary to strengthen the threshold for preschool teachers, avoid attracting a large number of unqualified personnel with low salaries to expand the preschool teacher team, and finally become that rat.
Only in this way can we prevent similar acts of violence and protect our children.
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Protect your child from harm
Be sure to read the "distress signal" your child sends
Every child who has been hurt has sent a distress signal.
A 4-year-old boy in Shaanxi who often has nightmares and dreams of being beaten by a teacher...
Hebei Chengde twin male treasure, resisted school, mood deteriorated.....
Fortunately, these are all calls for help sent by children, and fortunately, parents have found out in time.
To protect our children, parents must read their children's distress signals and listen and observe carefully:
First: the child suddenly resists going to kindergarten, crying should be taken seriously
If the child suddenly resists going to kindergarten, crying and making trouble, you must think carefully about the reason why the child is very resistant, Professor Li Meijin of the Public Security University has suggested that parents can use games to understand what their children have experienced in kindergarten.
For example: parents play students, babies become teachers, and then parents restore some common scenarios, such as sudden diarrhea, trouble, see how the baby copes, the baby's reaction is the child's situation in kindergarten.
Second: Pay close attention to your baby's emotional state and physical condition
Simple children, the mood is written on the face, so parents should pay special attention to the performance of their children.
●Physical condition. Every day when you come home from school, check your child's body for scars (needle eyes, scratches, burns, etc.) and diarrhea.
●Changes in behavior. Suddenly pee pants or always hold back and dare not pee, behavior regression, sudden non-eating, sudden aggressive behavior, unwilling to get along with others.
●Changes in mood. Low self-esteem, sensitive, not going to school, very clingy.
Third: Talk to your child about a day at school
CCTV has released a video of "1 game 25 questions to understand a child's day in kindergarten", and select some of the 25 questions to learn more about the child and judge whether the child has been abused.
● Ask your baby: What was the happiest thing that happened to you at school today?
● What do you hate most about happening at school today?
● What is the most common word your teacher said today?
●If you became a teacher tomorrow, what would you do?
● If aliens drove a spaceship to your class and kidnapped someone, who would you most like to be?
● When are you happiest today?
Ask your child a few more whys to understand what the children have experienced in kindergarten, and parents can share first, and then guide the child to share.
Fourth: Teach children to have a sense of self-protection
Give your child enough love and attention. Parental love is the child's initial sense of security in this world, only by making the child believe that no matter what happens to her, her parents are her reliance and can protect her, TA can tell her parents in time when she encounters something bad.
● Tell your child that no one can do it. Even if you make a mistake, the teacher can't beat people, but can only reason with you. If the teacher hurts you, be sure to tell your parents.
● Don't respond angrily to your child. If the child has anxiety and crying after school, do not respond to the child impatiently, and do not spread anger on the child, angry parents can only make the child more afraid to speak, calm down and talk to the child, ask the child what happened in school.
● Tell the child that he is not wrong. 0-3 years old is the most important time to establish a baby's sense of security, if you meet an immoral teacher, it will destroy the child's sense of security, which will make the child become inferior, timid, sensitive, withdrawn, this effect may accompany the child for a lifetime.
If your child is hurt, be sure to tell them: "It's not your fault", "This will not happen again", "The bad guy will be punished".
Fifth: Tell children little secrets to parents
● Anyone who has touched a private part of the body, or anyone who has said or done something they don't understand but doesn't feel comfortable with, be sure to tell their parents.
● Anyone who allows them to keep secrets or not keep them will hurt themselves and their families, etc., be sure to tell their parents.
● Don't be too late for sex education. The area covered by tank top shorts is not allowed to be touched.
For kindergarten babies, parents must observe the child more, communicate with the child more, after the child after school, pay attention to the changes in the child's emotional and physical condition, if there are abnormal emotions, timely communication and concern, find the cause, symptomatic solution.
Finally, there are no small things for children, and when there are clues, parents must raise their spirits, because only parents are the guardian saints of their children.
If it is really found that the child has been injured or abused, it is time to collect evidence, call the police, and transfer schools.
May every child grow up healthy with laughter.
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