Kindergarten graduation ceremony organizes parents to travel by car, netizens: What should parents without a car do?

All kinds of brand vehicles gather, the body hangs colorful balloons, I don't know what kind of activities the merchant is doing, but in fact this is a kindergarten graduation ceremony.

Some time ago, a kindergarten in Anshan City, Liaoning Province released a video saying:

"XX Kindergarten Graduation Ceremony! Go..."

In the video, private cars of various brands are lined up in a long line, and 4 lanes occupy 3 of them, which is not visible at a glance, and the scene is very spectacular.

What is even more surprising is that during the driving of the vehicle, there are still children leaning out of the window, and I don't know who has the bigger heart between parents and kindergarten.

After the video was uploaded online, it quickly triggered heated discussions among netizens, and some people questioned:

"The kindergarten graduation ceremony organizes parents to drive their children to the streets, so what should parents who do not have a car do?"

For a long time, everyone felt that the kindergarten was full of innocence and rottenness, and since they were children, they would not be associated with the word "comparison" at all.

But facts have proved that even kindergartens have been invisibly invaded by comparison, and a simple graduation ceremony will also appear a variety of "moths", turning into a large-scale comparison site.

The kindergarten graduation ceremony became a large-scale comparison site

To be honest, the kindergarten graduation ceremony to organize a parent tour is indeed outrageous, but it is not so outrageous, because there are simply not too many similar comparison events.

After graduating from kindergarten, can't I get a set of graduation albums and personality photos?

Your family rents a little bachelor's dress for the child, then my family has to arrange a small dress, and also have to rent an auditorium, find a professional photography studio, in short, other people's children have, their own children can not be less, let alone worse.

Since the photo was taken, then everyone went out together for a wave of "camping parties", found a big hotel to have a dinner, and contacted the relationship, right?

Although it is only kindergarten graduation, the complexity of the project is far beyond imagination, and all kinds of new activities are emerging, and the children are indeed having fun, but the parents' wallets are deflated.

Especially now that some kindergarten graduates have also risen the trend of giving each other "graduation gifts", if the children are already playing well, it is no problem to send each other some small graduation gifts.

But the key to the problem is that some parents and students have engaged in "human affection" among their children, and as soon as they are sent, they send the whole class, and the result is a comparison.

Even if some parents are not willing to participate in it, for the sake of "face", they have to pay for the whole class to arrange a "graduation ceremony", which makes themselves stressed and miserable.

Kindergarteners will also compare

Many parents may feel that comparisons exist in the adult world, or at least between elementary school students.

But in fact, kindergarten children also have a sense of comparison, but sometimes it is not obvious.

"Mom, someone in the class wore a particularly beautiful dress, and I want it too."

"Mom, my friend bought the latest toy figure, you can buy me one too!"

Children may not realize that this is a comparison behavior, but simply feel that classmates have certain good things, they will envy, and there is a psychology that they want to have.

In particular, some parents are already more doting on their children, or they are a person who likes to compare, which will also subtly affect their children, so that children develop wrong consumption views and values.

It can be said that the world of children is not as simple as we think, they will also have "showing off wealth", there will be "contempt chains", and even parents' "wealth rankings".

What we parents need to do is to guide our children to develop a healthy mentality, don't let our children fall into the "circle of comparison", and establish a correct outlook on life and values.

How to avoid children falling into the "comparison circle"?

1. Lead by example

Professor Li Meijin once said:

"All the performance of all people is refraction, and any performance of the child is the standard of their parents."

A child's overall perception of the world is largely based on parents, and every move of parents will leave a deep impression on children.

Therefore, to avoid children's comparison, parents must first pay attention to their own behavior and mentality, such as the "car tour" organized by kindergartens like the above, which should be exempted.

2. Establish healthy values

In fact, many times children do not have such an accurate awareness of comparison, may just desire to be noticed, eager to have more say among friends.

Therefore, we should try to establish healthy values for children, avoid children from comparing the usual food and clothing with classmates, but under the premise of appropriately meeting children's needs, refine the more positive things in children's psychology.

3. Don't spoil your children

People's desires are endless, children and classmates compare clothes, shoes, and brand-name mobile phones when they are young, and these parents can still hold on through gritted teeth.

But when the child grows up, and he has to compare luxury cars and mansions with his friends, how can parents be satisfied?

Therefore, we must enrich the inner world of children as much as possible from an early age, instead of doting on children and meeting all of their material requirements, otherwise they will only harm the children and themselves in the end.

Epilogue:

There are many reasons why children have a comparison mentality, even if they are still in kindergarten, children may also have a sense of comparison.

As parents, we must find problems and correct them in time, help children get rid of the psychology of comparison, and establish a healthy outlook on life and values.

Today's topic: Is there a comparison problem in the kindergarten around you?