"Do you have money?" "My dad has!" : Preschool teachers teach children such "dazzling fathers", really low!
Text | Rice grain mother
"Do you have money?"
"My dad has!"
Can you believe it? This conversation was actually taught to children by a kindergarten teacher.
To celebrate Father's Day, a kindergarten teacher in Suining, Sichuan Province, recorded a short video for the class.
In the video, the boys and women in the class are separated into two columns and sit upright.
The girl asked in unison:
"Do you have a room?"
"Do you have a car?"
"Do you have a deposit?"
The boys spoke in unison:
"My dad has!"
The girls followed up and asked:
"So what do you have?"
The boys cocked their legs and replied proudly:
"I have my dad!"
A video of more than ten seconds, watching the rice grain mother's anger from the heart.
What values are being promoted in the name of celebrating Father's Day?
Grab the baby from the doll? Father Xuan does not lose at the starting line?
According to this statement, if you have no money, no car and no house, are you not worthy of being a father?
After the video was exposed, public opinion directly fried the pan.
Some parents hit the nail on the head and commented:
"It is shameful to instill such values in children who do not yet have judgment!"
"If my child is studying here, I will have to transfer my child overnight."
What will children be taught to be like by treating vulgarity as funny and using rotten terriers to make games?
Rice grain mother feels terrible when she thinks about it.
But sadly, this is not the first time this has happened.
As soon as the "RV money" video came out, many people were whitewashing the kindergarten.
Some people don't care, it's just a fun fun with hot terriers, and you don't have to go online.
Some people think that children don't understand anything, just have fun, and if you are serious, you will lose.
These people probably don't know that the so-called "Internet hot terrier" has changed the taste of kindergarten.
Rice grain mother remembers that when "A of Spades" was on fire in short videos a while ago, many kindergartens and primary schools followed the traffic.
Not only did the recess exercise play songs for the children, but they even took the children to rehearse "singing and dancing" in class.
One by one, the unopened children shook their heads to the rhythm of bungee music, and shouted out the lyrics like this in their mouths:
"Long legs one foot eight waistline, baby baby let's toast, at the moment I just want to kiss your mouth..."
Is it fun for children to sing and dance like this? Or does it look good? Mother Shumi really can't understand.
Another cute-sounding divine comedy "Want to Eat Sugar" also set off a wave of imitation among young children.
But most people who sing this song don't know that it is a pedophilic song about an 8-year-old girl who is targeted by an uncle and abducted with candy.
But on the short video platform, such a carefully pondered and terrifying melody, but with a childlike, childlike and seductive painting style, it spreads wildly.
The hint behind it was full of hints, and Mi Li's mother only felt uncomfortable when she heard it.
There are always people who feel that children are simple-minded and do not understand these things, and it is the adult's own filthy thinking that complicates these things.
But don't forget, education has always been subtle.
Primary school students who don't know the so-called singing and dancing one second will be brainwashed by vulgar values the next.
If you don't believe me, take a look at how those Internet memes have swept through schools.
Previously, the ghost animal video of a certain traffic idols was very popular, and the meme of "Chicken you are too beautiful" spread all over the Internet.
A primary school student in Chengdu was bullied by his classmates just because he had the word "kun" in his name.
Inexplicably, he added the nickname "Chicken Brother" one day, and his classmates shouted and their words were full of mockery.
Later, it evolved into textbooks full of insulting words such as "chicken you are too beautiful", and was also chased and scolded "girl cannon" and "do you still play basketball" during class.
Tortured by this unwarranted malice for a long time, he became more and more inferior, timid, and depressed, and later diagnosed with depression, and even self-harm.
They all think that children do not understand things, have no bad intentions, but they do not know, and the evil of ignorance is often the most hurtful.
There are also some Internet hot terriers, which Migrain's mother has never heard, but has been written on the test paper by the children.
"I'm going to blow up the teacher and let the teacher dig wild vegetables."
"Yang Liu Yiyi, Bolt Q."
The composition is full of "Olli gives".
I didn't recognize all the words, and I had to stubbornly write rotten terriers in pinyin.
"Blue Yaoji You Don't Love", "Lian Loves Brain"
Mother Migrain really didn't dare to think about what these children's thoughts and behaviors would become when they grew up by allowing such vulgar memes to invade the language system.
Top-down collapse
Back to the kindergarten incident.
If parents are a child's first teacher, then kindergarten is the first step for a child to receive an orthodox education, and its key is self-evident.
There is such a sentence in "Interview with Dali":
Early childhood education is a particularly conspiracy thing where you really intervene and intervene in a life that is unaware.
The terrible thing is that now the three views transmitted by the kindergarten, the rice grain mother is more and more afraid to agree.
A certain mother posted a post asking for help:
After the child enters kindergarten, he is not confident, and the originally lively and smiling nature is now becoming more and more quiet, and he has become a foil in the class and is not taken seriously.
The child once asked his mother like this:
"Mom, why do I raise my hand upright every time the teacher asks a question, but the teacher is never the first to call me to answer the question?"
"Mom, why did the teacher comb our hair and only ask Xiaohua what hairstyle she wants to comb today, and not the rest of us?"
At first, she was seriously enlightened and comforting, but over time she discovered that the teacher's partiality was not accidental.
The reason why the child was not noticed was that the mother did not join the parent committee.
The mother felt helpless and scared, and she blamed herself, as if she had not been angry enough to let her child suffer this.
But this is obviously not my mother's fault.
I don't know when the "law of the jungle" in kindergarten intensified.
Migrain's mother has seen the news that a kindergarten in Xi'an has caused parents to protest because of the increase in fees.
In order to calm the grievances of the public, the principal directly held a parent-teacher meeting of the whole kindergarten and said with an arrogant face:
"I learned the art of raising swans, I can't raise pigs."
"Working children, vegetable sellers, I can't communicate!"
"If the tuition fee drops to 1200, there will be a large number of these children coming in, and then what will your children face around you?"
Vegetable sellers, fish sellers..."
It is unbelievable that a veteran educator engaged in early childhood education would be so loud and unashamed to praise the high and the low.
What kind of "evil children" will children who grow up in this environment become?
When a delivery worker mother in Shanghai came home, she saw the following words written on her child's small school bag:
"A family delivers takeaway, poor X, get out of the second shift."
She felt embarrassed and angry at the same time.
I don't even dare to think about how many white eyes my children will suffer at school because their families are not decent enough.
Yes, children are simple, but they are no match for the ears of "snobbery" thinking.
Allowing values to collapse from top to bottom will only allow children's innocence to be wrapped up in material things and desires, and gradually lose the most basic upbringing and character.
Give the child a pure land
In fact, if you think about it, the reason why the topic of kindergarten can attract so much attention every time is precisely to show that we all care about the growth of children.
But there are always some black people who use our attention to children to muddy the water of the Internet more and more.
Remember the "red, yellow and blue kindergarten" incident that once detonated the whole network? That was the first time that words such as child abuse and sexual abuse of young children entered the public eye.
Since then, more and more similar vicious incidents have been exposed, punishing a large number of perpetrators and giving those with intentions an opportunity.
On the day of the hot search on "RV money", another topic about kindergartens is also soaring -
"Female nursery teacher suspected of feeding birth control pills to young children"
Meanwhile, a terrible chat log went viral.
In a chat of 260 people called the "Anti-Slag Squad", a netizen who claimed to be a female kindergarten teacher said:
"Every day a small teapot (referring to boys) puts birth control pills in their meals, and they grow up to be wasted."
Someone replied rationally: "This is not good, children are innocent." ”
The self-proclaimed kindergarten teacher shot back indignantly:
"How can a man be innocent? First chemically castrate them, how many girls can be saved. ”
He added: "A lot of kindergarten teachers do this, and we have a communication group. ”
In and out of words, it is simply a reality of "extreme female fist revenge on boys".
After the exposure, a wave of net storms brewed.
"This is the true face of female boxing, there is no bottom line."
"Modern feminism is no different from cults."
But a few hours later, the police investigated and made the truth public.
It turned out that the so-called "female kindergarten teacher" was a male pretend, and the contraceptive pill was a rumor fabricated out of thin air.
Rice grain mother is simply confused, in order to rub a wave of gender-opposed traffic, do you need to be so unscrupulous?
From Internet hot terriers, to kindergarten girls' female competition, extreme female boxing, the extreme topics of the adult world, one after another invaded children's childlike space.
Can we really turn a blind eye to this?
In recent years, in order to protect the physical and mental health of children and resolve the contradictions of speech in the public sphere, we have called for governance measures such as the grading system of works more than once.
But as parents and teachers, we should be more aware that we are the "firewall" of children before effective measures are formed.
Of course, we don't need to choke on food and isolate our children in the "world of Truman".
Don't forget, in the online divine comedy, in addition to "RV Money" and "A of Spades", there are also the positive "Lonely Brave" and the gentle and moving "Insects Fly".
Screening and checking well can make children become sunny and brave "tide makers".
In addition, the rice mother feels that all incidents that threaten the physical and mental health of children should be investigated and punished, but the practice of knocking over a boatload of people with a stick is not advisable.
Just like every time there is a problem with a kindergarten teacher, someone will mock the academic qualifications with rhythm: "It's all technical secondary school graduates who can't find a job, what good people can there be?" ”
The bad thing is people, not careers.
Can't let a few rat poop spoil a pot of soup.
In fact, kindergarten teachers have a complex and hard work, they are burdened with heavy responsibilities and pressure, and they are no less worried than parents.
Just like a kindergarten teacher sharing her work feelings, you can feel her love for her children between the lines.
Don't let the really good teacher chill because of one or two vicious incidents.
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