When the kindergarten teacher is not afraid of hardship or tiredness, he is afraid that the dolls will talk indiscriminately

Two days ago, I met with a sister who I haven't seen for a long time, Little Peach.

When we heard that she was working as a kindergarten teacher, we expressed enviously:

"With a group of innocent children, you should be able to stay young, right?"

She smiled wryly and said:

"My mentality has not become younger, I don't know, my heart is getting stronger and stronger."

Looking at us with a puzzled look, she shared with us a few "life and death moments in kindergarten".

We laughed and felt deep sympathy and admiration for her.

I never thought that kindergarten teacher is also a "high-risk" profession!

Part.1

I am most afraid that the child will talk nonsense in a serious way

Little Peach said that when the kindergarten teacher is not afraid of hardship or tiredness, he is afraid that the dolls will talk indiscriminately and be questioned by the parents.

She said that once a little girl in the class did not want to eat leftovers, she said:

"If you really don't want to eat, don't eat it, put the bowl away."

Unexpectedly, the little girl came home and told her mother that the teacher said that she would not want her to eat in the future

As soon as my mother heard this, she immediately called her to question, and she explained for a long time, and this matter was settled.

Another time, a little boy had already drunk two bottles of milk and wanted to drink it again.

Little Peach was afraid that he would drink too much and feel uncomfortable, so he did not dare to let him drink anymore.

Unexpectedly, the next day, she was asked by the principal to talk, and the child came home and said that the children had milk to drink, but he did not.

Are you saying wronged?

The words of the child are like Schrödinger's cat.

You never know what incredible words can pop out of their little mouths.

"Little ladies, I'll be back."

Child: "Little ladies, I will be back." ”

Teacher: "It's the lambs, I'll be back!" ”

Little lady, little lamb, stupid can't tell

"The teacher said I was a vixen"

Child: "Mom, the teacher said I was a vixen." ”

Teacher: I gave her an "Encouragement Award" today.

Encouragement Award: Blame me for my awkward name

"The teacher asked us, I wish my mother a happy Qingming Day"

On Women's Day, the teacher teaches the children to do crafts and takes them back to wish their mothers a happy holiday.

As a result, the child went back to his mother and said:

"Happy Qingming Festival to mom!"

The teacher really is, more wronged than Dou E.

"The teacher gave us medicine!"

Child: "Mom, the teacher gave us medicine!" ”

Mom: "Huh? What medicine? ”

Teacher: "Yam! ”

"The daughter of the haunted house village has long braids..."

Children dance and sing: "Haunted house village daughter has long braids"

Mom: "What?" Where did you hear that? ”

Child: "Taught by the kindergarten teacher." ”

Actually: "Uyghur daughters have long braids..."

Teacher Inner OS: Thank you, I really know how to plug Q!

Hahahahahaha...

"The teacher asked me to put a screw in my head for school tomorrow"

Teacher: "The boy came home and asked his mother to put some mousse on your heads." ”

Child: "Mom, the teacher asked me to put screws on my head when I went to school tomorrow." ”

Do you dare to be a little more outrageous?

"Mommy little Mimi?"

Actually: Mom smiled

In fact, not only kindergarten teachers are easily wronged, but also primary school teachers.

"The teacher told me to die" 

Child: "Mom, the teacher said tell me to die." ”

Teacher: "I just told him not to eat paper." ”

Ask for the teacher's psychological shadow area.

Part.2

Children can lie

There is one thing we must admit:

Children can lie.

However, most of the time, it is not that children deliberately lie, it is that their brains are not mature enough and their ability to process information is limited.

Therefore, when passing the message, it is easy to turn things upside down, or add oil and vinegar.

The following child, the teacher just touched her face twice, and when she went back, she told her parents that the teacher slapped her.

It seems that the monitoring in schools is not only used to protect children, but also to protect teachers.

Otherwise, the teachers are really showy and meet the soldiers - it is reasonable to say!

In addition, children's thinking is very jumpy, coupled with limited cognition, it is easy to confuse hypothesis and reality.

What children say is likely to be mixed true and false, more false than true.

For example, the following child, dreaming that his good friend was eaten by a monster, was very sad when he arrived at kindergarten the next day.

Seeing that my good friend came to school normally, I exclaimed, "You're still alive!" ”

Sometimes, children will come up with something out of nothing.

Obviously, the teacher did not go to lead the class, and he even said that the teacher kicked him and beat him.

The teacher who was wronged did not sleep all night.

It is easy for children to incorporate their imagination into events and speak with a clear eye.

Of course, children sometimes lie consciously and deliberately.

For example, when he knew that he didn't have to go to school to pretend to be sick, he would cry out about stomachache every day, and it gradually evolved into a stomachache after eating school meals.

Therefore, what the child says, we as parents, we have to weigh how much water.

If the child says that he has been bullied or hurt, we can calmly find the teacher to understand the situation first, and avoid accusations or abuse with a bare face.

Part.3

Replace it with a positive question

Ask questions negatively

There is a comment that says:

Children cannot ask him questions in a guided way, otherwise World War II can be caused by him.

For example, it's better not to ask:

Did the teacher hit you?

Did your classmates bully you?

Have you ever cried? Was there any criticism?

These questions are a very negative hint that can easily give the child the illusion that something bad is bound to happen in kindergarten.

When children come back from kindergarten or school, let's try to ask some positive questions.

Like what:

What skills/nursery rhymes did you learn in kindergarten today? Can you teach your mother?

This will inspire children to think, reflect on the day in kindergarten, and refresh themselves with what they have learned.

Did you have anything fun and fun in kindergarten today?

Let the child think more about the happy things that happen in kindergarten and guide him to enjoy kindergarten.

How many good friends have you made? What are their names?

Guide children to take the initiative to make friends.

You go to the toilet in kindergarten, can you take off your pants and lift your pants yourself? Need help from a teacher?

Ask as specific as possible, which can facilitate us to improve children's self-care ability in a targeted manner.

Part.4

Can cause depression

It can also be cured

There is a saying that goes like this:

What sins did you make in your previous life, you will come to be a young teacher in this life.

Although it is just a joke, it can be seen that the work of kindergarten teachers is really not easy.

Tired of work and busy with work, kindergarten teachers are most afraid of being wronged and misunderstood.

Afraid of receiving calls from parents, of course, parents are also afraid of receiving calls from teachers

I am also afraid of various unexpected situations, such as:

Obviously the whole day was fine, when school was over, this child drank water and wet his clothes, and the child's clothes and socks were lost...

The most afraid is that I don't know which part of the child will be inexplicably bruised, and parents can't understand when they ask

The most frightening thing is that one parent picked up the child, and after a while, another parent came to pick up the child

Seriously, if you have a bad heart, you really can't do the work of a kindergarten teacher.

It's so exciting!

So why are there still people who want to be kindergarten teachers?

That's because when a kindergarten teacher is not sure to have a "depressed" moment.

But there are also moments of "healing" and "warmth" by the innocence, purity and cuteness of children.