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Kindergarten is supposed to be a place for children to have fun.
But because of the bad behavior of some "bad kindergarten teachers", it has left a shadow on the children's supposed happy childhood.
Today's hot search news, a kindergarten teacher threw a 4-year-old boy, causing his head injury, such news is really infuriating.
It happened on March 6 this year, when Mr. Liu from Yulin, Shaanxi Province, received a call from a kindergarten teacher who said: The child fell out of the chair.
At that time, the child was taken to the hospital, and the doctor diagnosed it as mild closed head injury and scalp hematoma.
At the time, Mr. Liu didn't think much of it.
In the following days, the child repeatedly mentioned that "the teacher beat people", and even often woke up in a deep sleep, saying that he dreamed that the teacher beat people.
It was not until he later came to see the monitoring that Mr. Liu discovered that the teacher had carried the child.
The child eats and sits well, and there is no noise, and the teacher lifts the child's arms and falls heavily to the ground, such a picture is heart-wrenching to watch.
According to the latest reports, the Education Bureau has assigned a special person to deal with the matter, and at present, the teacher involved has been suspended.
For this result, parents are dissatisfied, and the public is even more dissatisfied.
The child has been injured and should not just be suspended, and the teacher involved should be punished by law.
It is precisely because the punishment is too light that kindergarten teachers treat children violently and hurt children frequently.
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The kindergarten teacher stripped the boy's shirt in front of the class:
"Don't tell your parents, or I'll beat you"
The evil towards young children is really intolerable.
However, in recent years, incidents of child abuse and injury by kindergarten teachers are really common.
There is also a hot search news today, a kindergarten teacher stripped off the boys' shirts one by one in the classroom, and his movements were very rude.
It happened in a kindergarten in Chengde, Hebei Province, in which the children are sitting on chairs, and a female teacher is very rude to undress a baby boy, one after another, and the child is very resistant.
(Video source: @萧山发布)
But the female teacher did not stop at all, she almost lifted the baby boy out of her seat and took off the child's clothes until the child was naked.
According to Nanbao's mother, Nanbao is a twin brother, 4 years old, and on the day of the incident, she sent her child to kindergarten as usual.
"After school that day, the child had a runny nose and coughed particularly badly, I asked the child what was wrong, he was afraid to speak, and the older brother said that the teacher stripped his brother's clothes."
"I asked the child why he didn't say it, and the child told me: the teacher said that he was not allowed to tell the parents, otherwise he would be beaten."
"After the accident, the child was in a very bad mood, and he pulled his hands and shouted, 'No school, no school'." My whole body trembled when I thought about it. ”
After listening to the child's description, the mother was very angry, and immediately went to the school to check the monitoring, but the kindergarten did not give it, and the mother called the police.
In the end, the teacher involved was detained for eight days.
In Hefei, Anhui Province, a kindergarten teacher slapped a child several times on the rooftop.
The crackling sound from the video and the child's desperate cry are like knives, deeply penetrating the hearts of parents...
In 2017, Ctrip's parent-child kindergarten child abuse incident shocked the whole network, a group of two or three-year-old children, they were weak and cute, simple and innocent, but they were brutally abused by teachers....
Feeding mustard, spraying eyes with disinfectant water, giving children sleeping pills.........
Push the child around like a broken toy...
The child stumbled to the corner of the table but ignored it...
The 17-month-old baby was fed half-tube mustard and fed to incontinence!
Afterwards, the child abuser knelt down to admit his mistake, but no parents were willing to forgive, some people punched and kicked, some people took out mustard, and it was bound that the child abuser would also taste it.....
Yes, there is no point in apologizing for the suffering of children, and no one is qualified for parents to tolerate those who abuse their children.
As parents, I sincerely hope that those who lack love and morality will stay away from our children!
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Only severe punishment can be imposed on those who abuse and harm children
to deter potential child abuse!
Frequent incidents of child abuse in kindergartens have caused many parents to panic about kindergartens.
How can I take good care of my child?
How can I avoid abuse of my child?
And how can you tell if a child has been harmed?
Every question makes parents rack their brains.
But around us, there are many, many kindergarten teachers who are full of love for children, and they are also conscientious in their posts and take care of children...
accidentally peed his pants, never blamed, always treated gently ...
Coaxing children to sleep without a word of complaint, will use counting to calm young babies, will hold children full of insecurities and treat themselves as grandmothers...
They are sometimes more attentive than the child's mother, she can see the girl's shy and expectant mood, and take care of her feelings to communicate privately.......
I still remember that when the 4.5 magnitude earthquake struck Bijiehezhang County, Guizhou, at a critical moment, 24 teachers and 176 children were all safely evacuated, and they went back and forth several times, without leaving a single child behind... Watching the teacher rush into the classroom was really, really moving..........
There are many, many teachers in charge of this .....
But it is because some teachers forget their duties, lose their morals, and extend their violent hands to innocent children.
While hurting children, it also hurts the trust of thousands of parents in educational institutions and teachers.
To prevent such people from appearing in the early childhood education industry, multi-faceted collaboration is required.
First: severely punish those who abuse and harm young children in accordance with the law, and make those who harm children pay a heavy price, so as to have a deterrent effect.
Second: it is necessary to strengthen the threshold for preschool teachers, avoid attracting a large number of unqualified personnel with low salaries to expand the preschool teacher team, and finally become that rat.
Only in this way can we prevent similar acts of violence and protect our children.
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Protect your child from harm
Be sure to read the "distress signal" your child sends
Every child who has been hurt has sent a distress signal.
A 4-year-old boy in Shaanxi who often has nightmares and dreams of being beaten by a teacher...
Hebei Chengde twin male treasure, resisted school, mood deteriorated.....
Fortunately, these are all calls for help sent by children, and fortunately, parents have found out in time.
To protect our children, parents must read their children's distress signals and listen and observe carefully:
First: the child suddenly resists going to kindergarten, crying should be taken seriously
If the child suddenly resists going to kindergarten, crying and making trouble, you must think carefully about the reason why the child is very resistant, Professor Li Meijin of the Public Security University has suggested that parents can use games to understand what their children have experienced in kindergarten.
For example: parents play students, babies become teachers, and then parents restore some common scenarios, such as sudden diarrhea, trouble, see how the baby copes, the baby's reaction is the child's situation in kindergarten.
Second: Pay close attention to your baby's emotional state and physical condition
Simple children, the mood is written on the face, so parents should pay special attention to the performance of their children.
●Physical condition. Every day when you come home from school, check your child's body for scars (needle eyes, scratches, burns, etc.) and diarrhea.
●Changes in behavior. Suddenly pee pants or always hold back and dare not pee, behavior regression, sudden non-eating, sudden aggressive behavior, unwilling to get along with others.
●Changes in mood. Low self-esteem, sensitive, not going to school, very clingy.
Third: Talk to your child about a day at school
CCTV has released a video of "1 game 25 questions to understand a child's day in kindergarten", and select some of the 25 questions to learn more about the child and judge whether the child has been abused.
● Ask your baby: What was the happiest thing that happened to you at school today?
● What do you hate most about happening at school today?
● What is the most common word your teacher said today?
●If you became a teacher tomorrow, what would you do?
● If aliens drove a spaceship to your class and kidnapped someone, who would you most like to be?
● When are you happiest today?
Ask your child a few more whys to understand what the children have experienced in kindergarten, and parents can share first, and then guide the child to share.
Fourth: Teach children to have a sense of self-protection
Give your child enough love and attention. Parental love is the child's initial sense of security in this world, only by making the child believe that no matter what happens to her, her parents are her reliance and can protect her, TA can tell her parents in time when she encounters something bad.
● Tell your child that no one can do it. Even if you make a mistake, the teacher can't beat people, but can only reason with you. If the teacher hurts you, be sure to tell your parents.
● Don't respond angrily to your child. If the child has anxiety and crying after school, do not respond to the child impatiently, and do not spread anger on the child, angry parents can only make the child more afraid to speak, calm down and talk to the child, ask the child what happened in school.
● Tell the child that he is not wrong. 0-3 years old is the most important time to establish a baby's sense of security, if you meet an immoral teacher, it will destroy the child's sense of security, which will make the child become inferior, timid, sensitive, withdrawn, this effect may accompany the child for a lifetime.
If your child is hurt, be sure to tell them: "It's not your fault", "This will not happen again", "The bad guy will be punished".
Fifth: Tell children little secrets to parents
● Anyone who has touched a private part of the body, or anyone who has said or done something they don't understand but doesn't feel comfortable with, be sure to tell their parents.
● Anyone who allows them to keep secrets or not keep them will hurt themselves and their families, etc., be sure to tell their parents.
● Don't be too late for sex education. The area covered by tank top shorts is not allowed to be touched.
For kindergarten babies, parents must observe the child more, communicate with the child more, after the child after school, pay attention to the changes in the child's emotional and physical condition, if there are abnormal emotions, timely communication and concern, find the cause, symptomatic solution.
Finally, there are no small things for children, and when there are clues, parents must raise their spirits, because only parents are the guardian saints of their children.
If it is really found that the child has been injured or abused, it is time to collect evidence, call the police, and transfer schools.
May every child grow up healthy with laughter.
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