Confucius said: "If you do not learn etiquette, you will not be able to stand."
There's an old saying: "If you are young, you become natural, and habit becomes nature."
For a person to achieve something, he must start with the ritual.
And some parents believe that it is okay for society to talk about personal freedom and not understand civilized etiquette, and that children are innocent, do not make too many restrictions, and grow up to know slowly.
In fact, all accomplished people know civilized etiquette and are cultivated from an early age. If bad habits are formed in childhood, it is difficult to change them when they grow up.
The small editor of the kindergarten teacher service platform has collected and sorted out some civilized etiquette habits that children need to develop during the kindergarten period, hoping that teachers and parents can understand together, realize synchronous education in the homeland, and help children grow up well!
Comparison table of civilized etiquette for young children
Civilized etiquette class
1. Kindergarten etiquette
When you enter the park, you can not cry and walk without hugging yourself.
Be able to say hello and say "goodbye" to teachers and children.
Don't run around or fight in the hallway.
Do not damage the class tables, chairs, books, toys and other items and public facilities.
2. Family etiquette
Others know to avoid when they open and close the door. When entering and leaving, gently close the door.
Can answer the phone, after answering the phone can be simple conversation.
Take the initiative to greet guests, and when guests leave, they can say goodbye to them.
3. Etiquette in public places
Speak quietly in public places, not noisy, not crying, and not disturbing others.
Do not easily interrupt or grab other people's speech.
4. Basic etiquette
Be able to use polite language such as "good morning," "hello," "goodbye, and goodbye" under adult guidance.
Can politely call people, such as "teacher", "grandfather", "grandmother", "aunt", "uncle", etc.
When you know that when handing over items, your eyes should look at each other and hand them with both hands.
Civilized etiquette middle class
1. Kindergarten etiquette
Line up and down stairs, don't push others, don't lie down guardrails.
To abide by the rules of the game, be humble and send the toys you play back to where they were when you played.
Activities within the prescribed scope, assembly disbandment to listen to the password.
Wash your hands before meals, don't be picky about food, don't grab food.
2. Family etiquette
Before going out, I will wear and organize my own clothes, clean and tidy.
When you get home, you can take the initiative to greet your family and simply tell your family what happened.
When receiving guests or being guests, you can get along with small guests in a friendly way, know how to be humble, and know polite language when parting.
When you are a guest, do not turn over or move the items of the master's house, and do not casually ask for the master's things.
3. Etiquette in public places
Be able to eat independently and quietly. Use the cutlery correctly and do not knock on the cutlery. Chew food without making a sound.
After the meal, people who can quietly wait for the unfinished meal, such as leaving early, to say goodbye to others and arrange the dishes neatly.
Learn to care for the environment, not to litter, not to trample on the lawn.
4. Basic etiquette
Will introduce themselves: "Hello (hello everyone)! My name is XXX, I'm X years old this year, I'm in XX Kindergarten X class."
Be able to listen carefully to others, look at each other, and not interject.
When others ask questions, they can give them answers in a timely manner.
Knowing that other people's belongings can not be taken casually, you should ask the consent of the other party before using.
Civilized etiquette class
1. Kindergarten etiquette
Can actively use the brain, speak and raise your hand.
Don't talk when eating, don't make a sound of eating, send your own dishes and chopsticks after meals, wipe your mouth and rinse your mouth.
Fold your clothes before napping and put them in the designated place, get up and tidy up on your own.
2. Family etiquette
Learn the correct way to make a phone call and what to consider. Calls are answered with polite words such as "Hello," "Who are you looking for," and "Please wait."
Learn to receive guests politely. Know what etiquette to pay attention to when visiting someone else's home.
3. Etiquette in public places
Knowing that queuing up in order is a civilized and ceremonial act. Cultivate young children who encounter urgent matters from others, they can give up their positions to let others go first.
Know how to take the transportation correctly (get on and off the bus in order, do not squeeze or push when getting on the bus, politely let the old and sick and sick and pregnant; do not make loud noises when driving...). ）。
4. Basic etiquette
Young children can greet guests on their first occasion and can introduce themselves and introduce others. The expression is natural, the voice is loud, and the speed of speech is moderate.
Borrowed items should be cherished to avoid damage, and other people's items should be returned in time. Be able to lend things generously to others.
Be able to use different polite language correctly.
How to cultivate children's civilized behavior?
1. Favorable environment
If you want your child to develop civilized behavior, the most important thing is the environment.
Because these behaviors are not taught first and foremost, but by the influence of the environment.
The environment includes the family environment, the kindergarten environment, the social environment, etc., in these environments people should be very polite, everyone behaves civilized.
2. Favorable demonstration
Demonstration is subtle, and it is important for parents to take the lead.
Some parents will let their children respect others, but their own behavior shows disrespect for their elders or harsh on others, and when the child sees that your behavior is uncivilized, then even reasoning will be offset.
3. Timely praise
When children behave in a civilized manner, parents must praise them in a timely and specific manner, and cannot just say "You are such a good child!" You are such a capable child! Instead, it's about specific merits: "You had a very good time crossing the street today, you can learn to watch the traffic lights and wait patiently." ”
4. Resolute attitude
When children behave in an uncivilized manner, parents must pay attention to their resolute attitude.
For example, disturbing others on the train, some parents will say that the child is still young, forget it, and hope that others will forgive the child, in fact, this is not right. If in public, the child has such uncivilized behavior, parents should resolutely stop it immediately and take him away from this scene, instead of thinking that adults should forgive the child, and the child should also do the rules.
5. Tacit cooperation
Kindergartens and families must have consistent requirements, and parents must cooperate with the requirements of kindergartens.
In addition, there must be tacit understanding between family members, grandparents or husband and wife to achieve the same requirements, can not be one grasp very tight, one can not be indifferent, otherwise the child will be difficult to distinguish who should be followed.
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