Qian Zhongshu said that marriage is a besieged city, and people outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out.
This is the truest portrayal of life.
Some people even spent tens of millions of dollars in order to enter the besieged city of marriage, but also died because of it.
September 7, 2017, 3:46 AM.
Su Xiangmao pushed a message on the APP he developed.
This message can be called a last word.
The company's legal person was killed by his poisonous wife Zhai, and the APP was about to stop operating.
At 4:00 a.m., Su Xiangmao jumped from his home and died.
Just the day before, he wrote on his social platform:
I am the developer of an APP, today I am going to leave, the app can not be operated in the future, sorry.
I never thought that I was such an ending, and I was forced to die by my extremely vicious ex-wife Zhai Mouxin.
(Su Xiangmao)
The so-called ex-wife is the woman named Zhai Xinxin.
The two went from blind date to marriage to divorce in just 161 days.
In 161 days, more than 5 months, he spent about 13 million for her.
That's a neat count.
Such a "scraping money" speed is almost as fast as falling money in the sky.
Just because this woman is beautiful, Su Xiangmao fell into a trap.
But I didn't expect that this was a "snake and scorpion beauty", a money-devouring beast.
But no matter how much money she swallowed, this woman was not satisfied, and intended to scrape Su Xiangmao until the oil ran out.
Su Xiangmao, who was overwhelmed, had been forced to the point of helplessness, leaving only a dead end.
How poisonous is she to force a man to give up his life?
Now, Su Xiangmao has been gone for 5 years, where is Zhai Xinxin, who forced him to die, and how is he living?
The huge sums of money that she scraped away were squandered by her;
Or did he chase it back as su's family wished?
Su Xiangmao is a typical "hanmen noble son", born in 1980 in a poor family in Fujian.
He is the fifth oldest in the family, with 3 older brothers and 1 older sister.
In this big family, Su Xiangmao, who is old and young, is favored by the whole family.
Even though his family was poor, his parents insisted on providing him with school.
He is also a very competitive and good boy, from elementary school to high school, his academic performance has always been among the best.
During the college entrance examination, he was admitted to the Department of Communication Engineering of Beijing Information Science and Technology University with excellent results.
In 2003, with his own efforts, he was admitted to the School of Information and Communications of Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications for graduate school.
In 2007, after graduating from graduate school, Su Xiangmao went to work for an Internet company and became a network engineer.
After working for 3 years, after accumulating work experience and part of the funds, Su Xiangmao resigned to start a business.
In 2012, he founded the company in Beijing and launched a mobile social app that allows users to text and make phone calls for free.
Because the price is cheap, users grow rapidly.
With this APP, Su Xiangmao has accumulated tens of millions of net worth in just a few years.
However, Su Xiangmao, who is immersed in his career, has not yet established a family by his 30s.
It's not that he doesn't crave love and marriage, he's too busy to take care of it.
Seeing that their son was going to beat a bare stick, the parents were anxious.
The brothers and sisters all rushed to help Zhang Luo, but unfortunately, the vision and thoughts of both sides were not on the same channel, and there was no common language at all.
In 2017, Su Xiangmao registered as a VIP member on a dating website on a whim, preparing to find true love there.
He demanded that the other party be a Beijing hukou, economically independent, knowledgeable, and have a formal job.
At this time, how could he have imagined that his own momentary actions would actually take his own life.
(Su Xiangmao)
Soon, Su Xiangmao met with the first girl.
This girl was his ex-wife, Zhai Xinxin.
Zhai Xinxin was born in 1986 in Tai'an, Shandong Province.
Her father is a professor at a university in Shandong, and her mother is a financial officer at the school.
Grandpa and uncle are all characters on the scene.
Judging from the family background, it is considered to be a scholarly and Kochi family.
Her parents have always attached great importance to the education and cultivation of Zhai Xinxin, from childhood to adulthood, she is well-behaved and obedient, with excellent grades.
In 2002, Zhai Xinxin was admitted to Tai'an No. 1 Middle School.
During the college entrance examination, it is said that she failed to play and was not admitted to her ideal university.
In the end, I could only bend down and choose the university where my parents worked and enter the civil and architectural engineering major.
In September 2009, Zhai Xinxin was able to win back a set.
He was admitted to Beijing Jiaotong University and studied for graduate studies at the School of Civil and Architectural Engineering.
Height 1.7m, white skin and beautiful, IQ online, strong family strength.
Such a girl has never lacked suitors.
Before meeting Su Xiangmao, she had already had two short marriages, and they came and went quickly.
What is even more incredible is that in more than two years, she not only has a Beijing hukou, but also lives in thousands of Marriott houses.
It is rumored that her second husband is the second generation of the rich, giving her luxurious material enjoyment.
But even this rich second generation smelled a hint of danger from the material woman Zhai Xinxin.
He received it when he saw it was good, and retreated in spite of difficulties.
During the emotional window period, Zhai Xinxin also came to the same blind date website.
She was ready to catch another big fish and pay for her luxurious life.
Coincidentally, I met Su Xiangmao, the receiver.
Su Xiangmao did not expect that on the first date, he could meet such an excellent girl.
Only in terms of height, Zhai Xinxin is 10 centimeters taller than himself, and Su Xiangmao has some inferiority.
But what he didn't know was that as long as there was one advantage, he could attract Zhai Xinxin.
That's having money.
And according to his later performance, he also has one more "advantage".
Rich, but also "stupid", right in the middle of Zhai Xinxin's heart.
Zhai Xinxin took the initiative to confess: "I once talked about a relationship in college, but because the two did not agree with each other, they ended this relationship after graduation. ”
A simple sentence made Su Xiangmao's heart ripple.
(Zhai Xinxin in college)
Zhai Xinxin also admitted that he was on a blind date and was rushing to get married.
He has a house, a car, and a household registration in Beijing, and his work unit is a scientific and technological research institute in Beijing, and he can support himself economically.
Su Xiangmao was moved.
This girl, not only excellent, honest and capable, which made him excited.
When parting, Su Xiangmao happily exchanged contact information with Zhai Xinxin.
On March 31, 2017, Zhai Xinxin took the initiative to send a message to Su Xiangmao.
Don't know why, especially like you, love at first sight.
Su Xiangmao was happy to see the information, and he did not expect that the other party would take the initiative to contact him.
He replied excitedly and nervously:
I also like you very much and it was love at first sight.
Zhai Xinxin said:
This is something I never expected, both sides can fall in love at first sight, is this a gift from heaven?
At that time, Su Xiangmao had hesitated.
Their height, looks, age, where to let a girl who is so good on the surface "love at first sight"?
Before he could figure it out, Zhai Xinxin sent out a wave of sweet critical strikes.
The next night, the two met for dinner.
Such a rapid development speed really surprised Su Xiangmao, like a lover who has known each other for many years, naturally.
When they are separated, they are like lovers in love, and they are inseparable.
After returning home, Su Xiangmao received a message again:
Why do I think we should get married as soon as I see you?
I will have children for you, you are the father of my children...
Su Xiangmao felt like he was dreaming, and sweet love was so easy to come by.
In early April, Zhai Xinxin sent Su Xiangmao a video of a villa, plus a copy of the property information.
After Su Xiangmao learned that the other party lived in a villa, he immediately stated that he could afford to buy it, and also sent his own financial information to testify.
Unexpectedly, Zhai Xinxin suddenly said that she wanted to go to Shenzhen to help her girlfriend deal with some business matters, and she might not be able to contact her for a few days.
This made Su Xiangmao feel a little lost in his heart, like a cat scratching, and his heart was itchy.
A few days later, Zhai Xinxin told Su Xiangmao that he had accidentally had a car accident while driving.
Her leg was injured, and her mother rushed over.
When Su Xiangmao learned that she had returned to Beijing, she took the initiative to drive to pick her up and take her back to her residence with her mother.
He told the mother and daughter, "Xinxin, you and your aunt can live in peace with me." ”
Su Xiangmao was worried that they were bored, and specially invited them to visit his company.
In his spare time, Su Xiangmao also took Zhai Xinxin to go out with friends.
At this time, Zhai Xinxin proposed to meet his parents.
(Su Xiangmao and Zhai Xinxin)
The second elder of the Su family heard that his son had succeeded in blind date, and he was happy for his son in his heart.
Zhai Xinxin looks sweet and can speak kindly, and when he returns home, he will coax the old two to laugh.
Seeing Zhai Xinxin fall generously in front of her parents, her words and deeds reveal her concern and respect for her elders.
Su Xiangmao was more certain that he had not chosen the wrong person.
He felt that in the vast sea of people, it was a great honor to meet someone who could spend the rest of his life with for the first time.
And Su Xiangmao's parents are also very satisfied with the caring and sensible girl in front of them.
At this time, Su Xiangmao made a bold gesture of love.
Coming from a rural background, he is usually frugal and habitual, and is a person who has to wear a T-shirt for 11 years.
But on April 13, 2017, after not knowing each other for a long time, he took the initiative to buy Zhai Xinxin a car for 1.0783 million as a gift.
Zhai Xinxin was surprised and declined the gift.
But Su Xiangmao said:
I used my monthly income to chase after the girl I liked, and it was worth it.
Money gave him a sense of superiority over the domineering president.
Moreover, since then, Su Xiangmao has become more and more generous to Zhai Xinxin, and he can't accept it.
Zhai Xinxin said that if he wanted to travel, Su Xiangmao immediately arranged all the itineraries.
Hong Kong, Macao, Hainan, all the way to play, and where to buy where.
When traveling in Hainan, Zhai Xinxin looked at a villa and insisted on buying it.
Su Xiangmao thought, anyway, the two are going to get married, buy a house, the requirements are not excessive, directly placed an order.
In that villa, Su Xiangmao spent 3.198 million yuan, and the real estate deed was written with the names of two people.
In just over a month, in addition to the money to buy a house and a car, Zhai Xinxin also spent more than 2 million yuan on Su Xiangmao, adding a lot of luxury goods.
At the end of May, the two returned to Beijing from Macau.
(Zhai Xinxin)
It was also at this time that Zhai Xinxin asked to marry Su Xiangmao and obtain a license.
However, Su Xiangmao was a little hesitant, he felt that such a speed was too fast.
Without getting an answer from the other party, Zhai Xinxin was anxious:
Do you think it's too fast? Do you know why I want to travel with you?
The Internet says that if you want to know whether a man loves a woman or not, you can travel together.
I now feel that what is said online is very correct, so I really want to marry you.
Su Xiangmao said: "I am afraid that you will regret it, after all, this is a lifelong event..."
In the end, Su Xiangmao still did not hide from Zhai Xinxin's sweet words.
However, Zhai Xinxin threw him a bombshell at the same time.
Because he needed a marriage license, he found that his girlfriend had actually been married to a man named Li Tiejun.
It made him a bit devastated.
Su Xiangmao immediately asked Zhai Xinxin why he had to deceive himself?
Moreover, the first quarrel between the two occurred.
Zhai Xinxin explained that it was because of the purchase and settlement of the house that she found a fake marriage.
Su Xiangmao hesitated:
The matter of marriage is moved backwards, and we need to seriously consider it.
In the face of Su Xiangmao's attitude, Zhai Xinxin was very angry and slammed the door.
After Zhai Xinxin left, Su Xiangmao couldn't sleep all night.
He had been thinking about a question, whether he should care or not, Zhai Xinxin had a marriage.
At the moment when Zhai Xinxin left, his heart was as uncomfortable as a tear.
He was already deeply in love with her, how could he bear to be separated from her?
But why should she deceive herself?
After a sleepless night, Su Xiangmao chose to compromise.
Early the next morning, he went to find Zhai Xinxin.
He wanted to look at her previous divorce mediation papers.
Zhai Xinxin resolutely agreed, but put forward a condition.
If you want to see it, you can transfer me 880,000.
In order to solve the inner doubts, 880,000 is nothing, and then coax the woman he loves deeply to be happy, what is not to do.
One wants the answer, one needs to be coaxed, each takes what is needed, and the transaction is closed.
(Su Xiangmao)
However, when I saw the mediation document, the man's name was not Li Tiejun, but a man surnamed Liu.
It reads:
The date of marriage was January 17, 2011, and the date of divorce was April 1, 2011.
And the man compensates the woman for 200,000 yuan.
Flash marriage flash away, get compensation, and two men appear.
Su Xiangmao was once again entangled.
He again refused to get a marriage license.
He thought he was who he was, and refused twice in succession.
Zhai Xinxin was furious and swung his fist at Su Xiangmao.
And Su Xiangmao, no matter how Zhai Xinxin fights, has never fought back.
He didn't feel the pain in his body because his heart hurt even more.
Is this woman worthy of her own love? Did she really not lie to herself?
Su Xiangmao left alone, thinking bitterly.
But he was already deeply involved in love, and all the doubts and entanglements could not resist his true love for Zhai Xinxin.
After returning home, he regretted it and kept sending messages to Zhai Xinxin:
Shin Shin, the first two months, it is equivalent to we have known the roots.
Starting tomorrow, I will pursue you again until you agree to marry me.
Zhai Xinxin seized another opportunity to make money, not to earn nothing, not to earn.
She told Su Xiangmao:
Since you said to chase me, then give me 50,000 a day from now on until I am willing to marry you.
Anyway, the fat water does not flow to the fields of outsiders, who are we with whom, isn't it?
In addition, Zhai Xinxin also told Su Xiangmao that he had asked his uncle to help erase the previous marriage records.
Now, there is a fee of $358,000 to pay.
Su Xiangmao did not say a word and paid according to the order.
(Su Xiangmao's eyes after being swollen by Zhai Xinxin)
Seeing this, many people will say that Su Xiangmao is simply a ghost.
It is true that under the seduction of love, he is responsive to Zhai Xinxin's needs.
Zhai Xinxin did not disappoint him, and on the 69th day of their acquaintance, he officially obtained a license to marry on June 7, 2017.
This time, Su Xiangmao paid Zhai Xinxin another 1.338 million yuan.
I thought it was all settled.
But he did not want to, after receiving the permit, Zhai Xinxin refused to move into Su Xiangmao's residence in Xi'erqi.
Zhai Xinxin believes that he has always lived in a large villa, and Su Xiangmao's house is a little small for himself.
She hopes that Su Xiangmao can buy a 140-square-meter house as a wedding room, and give her 50,000 yuan of living expenses every month.
Where are the married couples who don't live together?
Looking at these conditions, where Zhai Xinxin is looking for her husband, she is obviously looking for a pick-up man for her luxurious life.
For his wife's request, Su Xiangmao was a little overwhelmed.
However, this is only the beginning.
If you are married, you don't live together.
The key is that Zhai Xinxin is still constantly looking at the house, threatening Su Xiangmao while watching, daring to divorce without buying a house.
In fact, Su Xiangmao also had some regrets at this time.
Divorce is divorce, stop loss in time, at least will not lose more.
But for a woman like Zhai Xinxin, how can she say that she is separated from her, and which man can take advantage of her.
It is estimated that a rooster passed by, and she had to pull the roots out of it.
The two men began to quarrel frequently over the house.
Once quarreling, Su Xiangmao took the initiative to admit his mistake once, and after admitting his mistake, he wrote a letter of commitment.
According to Zhai Xinxin's answer to reporters' questions later, the compensation and seemingly unreasonable conditions in the commitment letter were written because Su Xiangmao had committed domestic violence against himself and regretted it afterwards.
And the disputes that occur between the two sides are all gambling.
Such a gamble is really innovative.
The content of the commitment letter includes:
If one day, Su Xiangmao takes the initiative to propose a divorce, he will compensate Zhai Xinxin for 5 million yuan;
The house in Sanya was transferred to Zhai Xinxin, his name was removed, and the loan was paid off.
If the child is born and there is no room, prepare a three-bedroom apartment for the child.
I thought that by writing a letter of commitment, Zhai Xinxin would live a down-to-earth life.
But she didn't want to, she always said something exciting to Su Xiangmao.
You can't do anything, and the only advantage is the level of money you earn every day.
But you and your daughter-in-law are not financially transparent, unwilling to pay, and the only advantage is zero.
The rest, looks, height, small house, slurred speech, no coming, infectious diseases, all lose...
Zhai Xinxin's discrimination undoubtedly caused a psychological burden to Su Xiangmao.
(Su Xiangmao selfie)
Children born in rural areas, because of family reasons, will generally be more sensitive than ordinary people.
Especially Su Xiangmao.
He is indeed a carrier of the hepatitis B virus, although he has not developed into real hepatitis B, but how can he feel good when he is said by the woman he loves deeply.
He didn't understand, wasn't it this woman who said she loved herself, fell in love with herself at first sight, and wanted to have children with herself?
For this love, I have paid tens of millions of huge funds, and it is difficult to hold the beauty.
Since when did this two-way love at first sight change taste?
Or is there something wrong with it from the start?
Su Xiangmao finally opened the trick, but this trick opened too late.
Under Zhai Xinxin's difficulties, he could not bear it any longer and proposed a divorce.
Zhai Xinxin was waiting for this day, or how could he force him to write a letter of commitment.
On July 14, 2017, Zhai Xinxin sent the divorce agreement that had been prepared to Su Xiangmao.
And asked for 10 million yuan in mental damages.
Su Xiangmao would be so obedient and obediently take out so much money?
Surely not, but he had no choice.
Because, Zhai Xinxin had already grasped his life.
She made it clear to Su Xiangmao that his company had evaded taxes and that the operation of the company's software was in a gray area of the law.
At the same time, he claimed that his uncle was a major leader of a certain organ.
If Su Xiangmao did not agree to her conditions, then she would only have to report it.
(Letter of commitment written by Su Xiangmao)
In the face of Zhai Xinxin's threat, Su Xiangmao had no way.
Because he does have these problems.
He forcibly endured the waves in his heart and said to Zhai Xinxin:
I don't have 10 million at all, so why would you want to kill me?
Zhai Xinxin replied coldly:
Then it depends on how the police station convicts you!
Su Xiangmao still couldn't understand where he was sorry for her, and he asked again:
What do you think is my biggest sorry for you?
Zhai Xinxin no longer paid attention to her.
Originally a strange man and woman who had never known each other, in such a short period of time, Su Xiangmao had already given everything for her, how could he be sorry.
Even from another point of view, Su Xiangmao was simply too good for her.
So good that for us outsiders, Su Xiangmao is stupid.
Perhaps, it was Zhai Xinxin's aggressiveness that disgusted Su Xiangmao.
Perhaps, it was Zhai Xinxin's threat that made Su Xiangmao afraid.
Or maybe he really realized that this woman hadn't really loved herself.
In the end, he agreed to all of Zhai Xinxin's requests.
And on July 18, 2017, the 41st day after marriage, I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures.
In the divorce agreement, Su Xiangmao agreed to transfer the property in Hainan to the woman.
As compensation, he will give Zhai Xinxin 10 million yuan in cash.
Among them, a one-time payment of 6.6 million yuan was made in the early stage, and the remaining 3.4 million yuan was paid in one lump sum within 120 days after the divorce.
For each day of extension, compensation is 100,000 yuan in liquidated damages.
In the face of this unfair divorce agreement, Su Xiangmao seems to have been physically and mentally exhausted.
In order to pay 10 million yuan in compensation, Su Xiangmao sold all his financial investments and paid only 6.6 million yuan to Zhai Xinxin.
Afraid that Zhai Xinxin would repent, Su Xiangmao lowered his posture again:
Shinshin, I have come to this point and I have lost my family.
In the past two days, my family has also learned about my affairs and is very sad for me.
The so-called good start and end, I will try to keep the contract, but you must keep your promise.
Don't report tax evasion and so-called gray operations against me, that might really push me to the end.
Zhai Xinxin quickly replied:
I will abide by the agreement, and my relatives have asked me to do the same, you can rest assured.
The simple Su Xiangmao also had a little gratitude for Zhai Xinxin and said that he would also abide by the agreement.
Unexpectedly, Zhai Xinxin did not expect that it would not be long before he began to urge Su Xiangmao to pay the balance.
Su Xiangmao, who was under pressure, told his family about the divorce, and with the help of his family, found that the matter was full of loopholes.
With the cooperation of his family, Su Xiangmao made a backup of all the records between the two and prepared to report Zhai Xinxin's fraudulent marriage to the relevant departments.
However, Zhai Xinxin actually found someone to threaten and harass Su Xiangmao, and constantly sent him messages, cursing him to die.
On September 7, 2017, Zhai Xinxin anonymously posted an attack on Su Xiangmao in a bar.
He also said that he cheated on a dating website, and engaged in illegal business projects and tax evasion, and also exposed his mobile phone number and ID number.
(Zhai Xinxin)
Zhai Xinxin completely broke the last line of defense in his psyche and threw Su Xiangmao into the abyss.
In the early morning of the same day, Su Xiangmao sent one last message to his sister:
Sister, I love you so much. But I really don't want to continue, sorry family! The lock on my phone was removed, in the nearest corner of the roof to the west gate.
In the end, Su Xiangmao jumped from the balcony of his home and completely ended his life.
At this time, it was the 51st day of his divorce from Zhai Xinxin.
Man always thinks that by ending his life, he has cut off everything in this earthly world.
But I don't want to think about what kind of pain my relatives will suffer.
In addition to grief, after the relatives sorted out the relevant evidence, they began to help Su Xiangmao get justice.
On September 15, 2017, they took Zhai Xinxin to court.
On September 18 of the same year, Zhai Xinxin entrusted legal counsel to handle all legal affairs between herself and Su Xiangmao.
On April 20, 2018, Su Xiangmao's brother went to court to file a civil complaint.
After accepting all the materials of the case, the court issued the relevant written registration list and informed that the case would be filed as soon as possible.
The three cases sued by the Su family are all civil cases:
One is a property dispute after divorce, one is a dispute over a gift contract, and the third is to require Zhai Xinxin to return the property.
In December 2020, the first-instance trial of Su Xiangmao's family v. Zhai Xinxin was held, which lasted six and a half hours and did not pronounce judgment.
Many of Su Xiangmao's relatives appeared in court to observe or testify, but Zhai Xinxin and his family did not appear.
Regarding the behavior of his daughter Zhai Xinxin, Zhai Father said:
Black can't be white, white can't be black. We are the elderly is such a point of view, everything is still subject to the investigation of functional departments.
Zhai Xinxin's uncle, the leader of a certain organ in Zhai Xinxin's mouth, issued a statement on this matter:
I deeply mourn the death of Mr. Su Xiangmao.
Ms. Zhai Xinxin is indeed her niece, but she has little contact with her.
I have never met Mr. Su Xiangmao and have never intervened in any way in any dispute between Ms. Zhai Xinxin and Mr. Su Xiangmao.
I am a scientific research and technical personnel in colleges and universities, do not undertake law enforcement work, and am not the so-called leader reported on the Internet.
I reserve the right to pursue legal responsibility for malicious nuisance, slander, insult, defamation and other illegal acts involving myself and my family.
I will not accept any media interviews until the relevant departments have ascertained the facts and announced the results of the investigation.
From this point of view, it is obvious whether what Zhai Xinxin said before is true or false.
Today, Su Xiangmao's family is still insisting.
I hope to get a fair result as soon as possible to comfort Su Xiangmao's spirit in heaven.
And Zhai Xinxin, unexpectedly changed the vest again, appeared on a blind date website.
Is she dead and unrepeatable, and will she catch another receiver like Su Xiangmao?
But in the world, there is only one Su Xiangmao.
It is said that after the dating website found her tracks, it was immediately banned and disposed of, which can be described as a pleasure.
Today, she still lives in her own large villa and spends an endless amount of money.
I don't know if she's ever had a nightmare.
As the saying goes, a hundred years of cultivation must be crossed by the same boat, and a thousand years of cultivation must sleep together.
What was Zhai Xinxin's purpose in forcing Su Xiangmao into such a desperate situation.
We don't know, but we believe that the law will have a fair decision.
(Su Xiangmao)
This reminds me of a sentence that Zhang Ailing once said:
If marriage is for subsistence, then marriage is long-term prostitution.
If, a marriage without love, just a simple material substitution, a transaction.
In the end, it will only be a lose-lose situation.
It's just a pity that the love that Su Xiangmao yearns for has not been obtained until his death.
The woman who cheated on him under the guise of love was only trying to get enough money out of him.
Money, is it the original sin?
No, the human heart is.
In this way, the words that many women like to hear the most - the most poisonous woman's heart, are used on Zhai Xinxin's body, I don't know if you have any objections?