It is not difficult to find that in today's couples, women shout "divorce" without moving.
The reason is very simple, they do not worry about marrying, even if it is a second marriage, there are many boys who will marry them, and the bride price, wedding, and three golds will not be less.
On the other hand, if a boy is really divorced, it is more difficult to marry a wife again than to ascend to the sky. So much so that there is such a saying that divorce is also for happiness, and the second marriage is happier than the first marriage.
The boys can only sigh that this year, men are really not easy.
In Shandong, a man came to a girl's house early in the morning on a blind date, but was unexpectedly abandoned. After the insider (matchmaker) knew the reason, he couldn't help but complain: the second marriage is too picky, making people speechless.
Boys, you still have to work hard to make money.
It happened in a villager's house in Shandong, where a man and his introducer came to the girl's house early in the morning on a blind date, came to meet the girl, and let her family know him by the way.
However, this blind date was quite embarrassing, the man and the girl were standing next to each other, not knowing what to talk about, but the adults chatted non-stop.
Girls definitely won't feel anything, because blind dates should be the man's initiative, and the initiative will have a chance, depending on how he grasps it.
Unfortunately, the man seemed a little shy, just asked the girl a few questions, and the chat ended.
Such a blind date, which is completely different from a blind date for young people, does not even get along alone, talk about career, hobbies and family conditions, etc., and the blind date is over.
Needless to say, the result is that girls do not fancy men.
Insider: The girl is too picky
It is reported that although the man does not know much about chatting, his family conditions are really not bad.
In rural areas, men have cars and houses, and their parents are young. He also has 2 older sisters above him who also take good care of him.
Of course, men also have disadvantages, that is, they are not tall enough, less than 170 cm, their figure is slightly fat, and at a glance, they look like a greasy middle-aged uncle, a little old.
The matchmaker said that his appearance and figure are indeed average, but he is honest and suitable for living.
The conditions on the girl's side are actually not particularly good.
She had a marriage and has been single since her divorce. Fortunately, girls do not have children, and overall, boys are still willing to accept it.
The height is slightly the same as that of boys, and for girls, such height is an advantage. But the girl is not very beautiful, but also ordinary, slightly fat, and the man is very suitable.
However, the feedback received by the matchmaker (insider) is that the girl dislikes the man for being too short and wants to find a taller husband, for fear of affecting the height of the next generation.
Hearing such an answer, the matchmaker (insider) was also speechless.
The man is the first marriage, she is the second marriage, the requirement to have a car and a house can be understood, even the appearance and figure are required, the requirements are too high.
Blind dates are a two-way option and there is nothing to complain about
The matchmaker (insider) is just angry words, said to the man's parents, doing this industry, what kind of strange requirements girls make, they have all seen, it is not strange.
Originally, blind dates are a two-way choice, and there is nothing to complain about.
Looking at the problem from another angle, if the boy's family conditions are very good, and his height and appearance are passable, the boy will also pick a beautiful, young girl to fall in love and get married.
Why can't a girl choose a suitable husband if she is married for the second time?
Because you have been hurt by marriage once, you should choose more carefully for the second marriage, so as not to be hurt a second time. The first time you get married, you have no experience, and the second time you get married, you must choose the right person.
Men still have to work hard
Now blind dates, having a house and a car is already standard. But it is worth noting that many rural houses, many of which are built by parents, and cars are not expensive, which does not reflect the excellence of boys.
We still have to study hard, improve our self-cultivation, develop our careers, have stable jobs, high incomes, and learn to dress ourselves up, improve our taste, and so on.
People can be not tall or handsome, but they must have strength and temperament.
In this way, the initiative to choose a mate on a blind date is in our own hands.