As the saying goes: marry a man, dress and eat.
This sentence is an old saying, indicating that the thinking of the older generation believes that the marriage of men and women is just a way to live. But now the times are different, and the current marriage is not as simple as dressing and eating.
The divorce rate in today's society is particularly high, and often a little trivial matter occurs between husband and wife, which can develop to the point of divorce.
Ms. Zhang in Tai'an, Shandong Province, is also planning a divorce because she says she really can't get by.
Ms. Zhang, 32 years old, is married to her current husband for the second time, and Ms. Zhang had a previous marriage because her ex-husband was violent and very macho and broke up.
However, she had a daughter with her ex-husband, and the daughter was sentenced to her. Later, she took her daughter to live with her, and then she met her current husband Xiao Li.
When she first met Xiao Li, Ms. Zhang was attracted by his gentleness and elegance, and Ms. Zhang also secretly swore that she would never find someone with the personality of her ex-husband in the future, but this Xiao Li was very much in line with Ms. Zhang's taste.
Middle-aged love, as if they are all playing at double speed, soon after knowing, Ms. Zhang and Xiao Li entered the palace of marriage, at the beginning the married life of the two was very happy, Xiao Li also treated Ms. Zhang's daughter as his daughter as his daughter.
However, the good times did not last long, and it was not long before the relationship changed its taste. To say why this marriage has changed its taste, in fact, the main responsibility lies in Xiao Li's mother.
It turned out that Xiao Li's mother did not agree to this marriage at the beginning, because her son Xiao Li was married for the first time, but Ms. Zhang was married for the second time, and Ms. Zhang was not only married for the second time, but also brought a child, which made Xiao Li's mother very difficult to accept.
However, Xiao Li was very determined in this matter and resolutely married Ms. Zhang back home.
Xiao Li's attitude made Ms. Zhang feel warm, and she felt that the man in front of her was worth relying on.
But what Ms. Zhang did not expect was that Xiao Li's attitude was also tough that time, and it should only be that time in this life.
On this day, Ms. Zhang and her mother-in-law quarreled again, and the situation became more and more intense, and finally reached the point of smashing the plate and smashing the bowl, originally Xiao Li still wanted to persuade the fight, but was stared back by her mother.
Obviously, the mother-in-law was messing around, but the husband ignored it, which made Ms. Zhang's heart very uncomfortable, and then she moved out with her daughter, and then prepared to divorce Xiao Li.
After many netizens learned about this matter, they expressed their opinions.
A netizen said: Isn't this Xiao Li a typical "ma bao man"? Like my ex-husband, a proper mommy boy. I don't understand why I am so old and still obedient to my mother, do I suspect that there is no rebellious period at all?
Another netizen said: If I were Ms. Zhang, I would have left early. Doesn't this mother-in-law just show that she is bullying people, so that she can't be angry here?
In my opinion, there is indeed some contradiction between Ms. Zhang and her mother-in-law, but it cannot reach that irreconcilable point.
Xiao Li should actively reconcile as an intermediary, so that there is a possibility of improvement, rather than blindly avoiding, which will often make the situation worse.
As the saying goes: home and everything.
This sentence is really very reasonable.
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