Is motherhood the ultimate or the private sphere? Mother opens file bag to cause her daughter to collapse!
"Mom! You can't open it! Open it and it won't work! The school will not accept it! ”
Recently, a video of "a mother privately opening the seal of her daughter's file bag, and her daughter lost control of her emotions after discovering it" caused heated discussions on the Internet.
On June 26, in Luzhou, Sichuan Province, a mother unexpectedly opened her daughter's file bag at home. When her daughter returned home, she immediately found the opened file bag and fell into panic and despair. She yelled at her mother:
"Mom, you can't open it! If it's turned on, it can't be restored! ”
The mother explained that she thought the portfolio the girl brought back was as important as the acceptance letter. She just wanted to see what the teacher said about the child.
Mom also helplessly defended that she did not know that the opened file bag would be so important.
In this regard, netizens are divided into two factions: one group said that it is not a file bag? Why did you yell at your parents? One group said that many parents have no sense of boundaries, always have endless curiosity about their children's privacy, and always want to spy on the side that their children do not want to show.
Perhaps many parents have this thought: since they are a family, there is nothing to keep secret. What's more, they may think that the child's stuff is something that can be viewed at will.
However, if parents hold such a view, we should advise them to change their attitude and learn to respect their children, because only then will children learn to respect others.
Of course, there are some problems with the daughter. Why did she leave such an important portfolio at random? Perhaps when she is placed, she can consider the importance of informing her parents about this matter.
I am not defending this mother, but I have always believed that I will not leave important items around, but will keep them properly or inform my family and ask them not to move or open them. This is a responsibility as a family member.
So, what exactly is an archive?
Most of the time the archives are invisible to us and are hosted by the relevant departments. Archives are an important credential for those working and further education.
How important is a portfolio bag?
First, graduates' portfolios are directly linked to their future pensions. At retirement, an individual's length of service and rank will have an impact on the amount of pension, and this information is usually kept in a file bag and used to calculate the basis of the pension.
In addition, the portfolios of graduates also have an impact on their regularization, grading and pension for years of service. Personal information and track record in the portfolio will be an important basis for evaluating titles, promoting ranks or adjusting jobs.
In addition, the completeness and accuracy of the portfolio will also directly affect the processing of important certificates. For example, if a qualification certificate, academic qualification or other important document is required, the relevant department will usually ask for the relevant materials in the portfolio as support and proof of the application.
More seriously, if a graduate's portfolio is lost or destroyed, it may lead to the loss of their cadre status, which will have a serious negative impact on their career development and personal reputation. Therefore, graduates should attach great importance to the preservation of the portfolio and ensure its safety and integrity.
The file is not only the basis for employers to inspect and recruit personnel, but also a key proof to protect personal rights and benefits. Whether it is job transfer, postgraduate examination, civil service recruitment, title evaluation, qualification certificate, seniority determination, social security processing, housing subsidy issuance, party membership procedures, and retirement procedures, etc., all need to be handled with files.
However, the easiest way to ensure the effective custody of archives is to place them in the custody of an organization with archival authority. So, who are the organizations with such permissions? The talent market of the work unit, the talent market of the place of household registration, and the enterprises and institutions all have the right to keep files. However, it should be noted that enterprises and institutions only keep the files of their internal employees, and cannot provide external personnel with file storage services. Institutions that provide external archival storage services are mainly in the talent market.
Both parents and children should learn from this incident. For intimate items like a portfolio, the best practice is not to touch it or even touch it, especially when it comes to someone else's portfolio. We should understand that everyone has the right to protect their privacy and personal information.
What is your opinion on such an event?