Sooner or later, you will find that in marriage and love, whether male or female, youth is the greatest capital

Zhuang Di Xiaomeng / Seeing the essence through the story

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When you are in your 20s, you go on a blind date, although your own conditions are ordinary, you can always meet one or two opposite sexes who have a good feeling for yourself, you are young and refuse to settle, and you are inspired to find a heartwarming lover.

When you go on a blind date in your 30s, even if you have a home and a car, the range of choices is extremely narrow, and the chances of finding people who look at each other are even more minimal.

Look at the friends around you who are not in good condition, they have already stepped into the palace of marriage, and have a relatively warm family, only you have been insisting on this, the material conditions have improved, but the probability of getting off the single is declining.

That's what the vast majority of older single men and women are going through.

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Time always passes in bit by bit, we lament the passage of time, and we are sad that Shaohua is no longer himself.

When they were young, everyone did not take youth seriously, and when Shaohua had passed away, they found that what they had missed was the most important thing in life.

People are reluctant to admit that the years have corrupted themselves, but after experiencing the tempering of the years, they will eventually find that in marriage and love, whether men or women, youth is the greatest capital.

For the rich: when they are old, they can only retreat to the second place

There are many old and young partners in the entertainment industry, such as Zhang Jizhong, Aaron Kwok, and Pan Weibai, all of whom are more than ten years older than their wives, or even dozens of years older.

So people think that a man can find young and beautiful women as long as he has money, and age has no lethal effect on him, in fact this idea is completely wrong.

Everyone has come into a misunderstanding, the reason why you think their wives are perfect is that they look at this matter from their own standpoint.

If you stand in the position of men at the same level as them, you will find that they are taking a second place in marrying wives, and their wives have no other advantages except being younger and better-looking.

Unlike the young men at the same level as them, their wives are not only young and beautiful, but also have a career and fame, tall and handsome and young Dou Xiao, and even found the daughter of the gambling king.

A man who wants to marry a young, beautiful and excellent girl must take advantage of his youth, and when he is old, he can only reduce his requirements, because Bai Fumei will only choose young rich and handsome.

People always envy Xiao Yaxuan for having a boyfriend under the age of 25, but everyone will find that those boys are not rich and handsome.

But if she is 20 years younger, it is not difficult to marry a man who is excellent in all aspects.

For ordinary people, missing out on youth is equivalent to missing out on opportunities

Rich men and women can still find their other half by lowering their standards when they are old, but if they are ordinary people, the outcome is not optimistic.

The biggest problem for ordinary people is that the circle they belong to is also at the bottom, and in the bottom circle, there are not many people who marry late at an older age.

As a result, people who are older but have not yet said goodbye to singleness will have a hard time finding the right partner.

It is a blessing for both of them that an average older man can meet an average older woman, because the odds of two older singles meeting in real life are not high.

Ordinary women are likely to marry men with children when they are older, ordinary men can only choose women with children in second marriage when they are older, and some ordinary men, even if they do not have the opportunity to be a father to others, they will be single for a lifetime.

Because they miss youth, they miss the opportunity to get married, and in later time, as they get older, their chances of getting out of a single will also decline.

Only by grasping young capital can we choose a better partner

The famous thinker Marx once said: "If you want to live a beautiful life, only two people are united, because the half of the ball cannot roll, so the important task of each adult is to find the half that matches himself." ”

People are social animals, and being alone will eventually be lonely, so everyone needs a group of their own, such as a family.

People are different, not everyone has a career, but everyone can have a family.

With a family, there is a home, and in the days to come, there will always be a family for you.

In order to turn dreams into reality, everyone must use their own advantages, there is no doubt that both men and women, the biggest advantage in marriage and love is age, so everyone must use youth to get the results they want.

Especially when ordinary people are old, it is likely that they will not even have the opportunity to retreat to the second place, in order to avoid loneliness and loneliness, everyone should try to get married as early as possible.

Don't follow the so-called first start a business and then start a family, in the end you will find that the vast majority of people living in this world have no career to reverse, they have a job to support their families.

If this is the case, why should everyone delay the best youth for those ethereal things?

Life is a one-way journey, and every step you take is critical because you have no room for regret.

Grasping youth, starting a family first is the wisest choice.

Original author of the Zhuang Di Xiaomeng/Emotional Column

May your life be full of surprises, and may your happiness come as scheduled.