He Suohuan, a writer of sexual affective psychology, writes love stories, interesting strangers, and material knowledge.
If "fishing women" also have a rank, they can also be divided into 4 grades.
Top fishing girl: hang the rich generation, become the stepmother of the rich second generation, and let the grandfather and son rush to spend money on her.
Middle-level fishing girl: hanging the rich second generation, let the rich second generation pay for her with monthly living expenses, and go to the clothes to hide her merit and fame.
Ordinary fishing women: straight men with high income, ordinary boys in addition to high income, strong work ability, lack of experience in the matter of love, easy to fall in love brain.
Bottom fishing women: not picky eaters, as long as you meet a boy, find ways to "slaughter him"; No matter how small a fly is, it is also a piece of meat.
This is the personal experience of a male reader.
Conditions of both parties:
Male ordinary office workers, second-tier cities, almost 120,000 a year.
Employees of the parent company, who have a pension after retirement, have a down payment for a house and a car.
The girl is a salesman, the specific income is unknown, and the appearance is outstanding.
Background:
Through the blind date website, after online chat, the girl took the initiative to invite the boy out for dinner and dating.
Blind Date Begins:
The girl booked a restaurant and the boy arrived 20 minutes early.
He waited for about half an hour before the girl was late.
The boy was about to say something to order, but the girl said, "Please wait, I still have a few friends coming." ”
The boy is simple and has not yet guessed the girl's intentions.
Not long after, the girl called "3 girlfriends" with a call.
When the people arrived, a few girls began to order.
After a meal, I ordered the most expensive dishes in 8 stores, and the highest price dish was more than 1,000; This is not over, several girls also opened 2 bottles of red wine.
The boy then realized that something was wrong.
He finished the meal hard, during which the girl spent most of her time chatting with her girlfriends, talking and laughing.
It's just that a few simple questions are asked to the boy, and the blind date is like going through the motions.
At the checkout, the boy was dumbfounded when he saw the bill.
The price of the dish is 3,000, and the price of two bottles of wine is 3,000, adding up to 6,000 yuan for a meal.
At this moment, the boy realized that he might be "soaked".
Take the initiative to pay, it is more lossy, after all, he only came alone and did not drink;
Don't pay, and embarrassed to open your mouth.
After thinking about it, the boy proposed: "The first time we meet, we are still better AA system, I will pay 3000, and the rest will come by yourself." ”
I have to say that the means of fishing for women are becoming less and less advanced.
And this boy is indeed a little "innocent and cute".
Change to other boys, see the girls bring a few girlfriends, see them after ordering, I guess I find an excuse to slip away.
"I didn't eat the food, I didn't drink the wine, all the dishes were ordered by you, we have nothing to do with each other, how can I possibly pay for you?"
It's just that this boy is still a little "kind".
Knowing that it was a pit, I also jumped hard.
I have to sigh:
Some boys are not suitable for online blind dates, let alone participate in blind dates in some unreliable places.
I saw one netizen share:
She also has a friend by her side, who is such a person.
Every time there is a boy appointment, she will definitely accept the invitation.
After letting the boys treat guests to eat, they must go to the supermarket to sell fruit, and they must buy the most expensive; Even if it is not what she likes, as long as the boy is willing to pay, she will buy whatever she sees.
Not only that, the expenses of the family will also make the boys who pursue her pay.
What's even more excessive?
This girl is still a divorced woman with a son.
Sometimes, the means to catch women are beyond your imagination;
I really don't understand, why so many boys can't get rid of the routine of "being fished women as cash machines"?
It turns out that licking the dog licks to the end and there is nothing.
What are the characteristics of a woman?
First: only let you pay, she doesn't pull a dime
This is the most superficial, lowest-end trick to catch women.
They don't "hint at you," but they explicitly want all kinds of things.
For example: when eating, you should choose your own high-end restaurant;
After eating, I will pull you to go shopping together; When you go shopping, you have to buy clothes and bags.
Let the boy pay in front of so many people, under normal circumstances, a boy who wants face often does not refuse.
Second: accept the boy's giving, but do not recognize the relationship between the two
For example, she is willing to do something between you as a couple, making you mistakenly think "we are in love".
However, she never makes your relationship public in the circle of friends, and every time you confess to her, she is vague or makes excuses to refuse.
In short:
For your efforts, she will not refuse to come, and accept all the orders; In the face of your pursuit and confession, she swayed from side to side and was silent.
Girls on a blind date with girlfriends, what does it mean?
First: timid, with girlfriends strong and bold
Second: I lack assertiveness and want my girlfriends to help "check"
Third: When there are more people, there is more right to speak
Fourth: want to take the initiative in blind dates
Fifth: From the beginning, instead of taking the blind date between the two of you seriously, I went through the motions
Sixth: Fishing for women
Today's Topic:
Have you ever had a bizarre blind date?
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