Why Musk is so bullish, seeing her, I understand

Elon Musk, the crazy cattle man, has achieved world leadership in all four industries.

SpaceX, his private rocket company, was able to successfully recover a rocket that was fully operational from orbit, launching the rocket and soft landing the rocket.

This achievement alone surpasses the aerospace science and technology of the three big countries in China, the United States and Russia, and you know, this kind of thing he did is not something that a private company can do at all.

The second is the creation of Tesla's high-end electric car, as well as PaypaI, the world's largest online payment company, it is said that Alipay is a reference to it, some people say that his achievements are beyond the reach of ordinary people in their lives.

Born in 1971, he is another wizard after Jobs who has been named a "god".

Seeing today's Musk, many people should have a hard time imagining that Musk was once tied up in poverty, had no money but to buy second-hand clothes and live in a rented broken house.

Of course, this cannot be said that Musk's family is poor, but his father is happy to see it.

Musk's mother, Ms. Meyer, lived outside alone with three children after the divorce, and she was very financially strapped in order to pay for the children's living expenses, room expenses, tuition fees and other expenses.

The ex-husband said that in this way, she would return to him because of poverty and inability to raise the child, and in order to obtain custody of the child, the ex-husband repeatedly sued Meyer for ten years.

Ms. Meyer divorced without getting a penny of marital property, which is equivalent to netting out of the house, to know that Musk's father entered the electrical engineering industry in the early years has completed the accumulation of wealth, it can be said that in South Africa is a rich rich man.

In order to cope with the prosecution of her ex-husband, Ms. Meyer spent all her savings over the years, divorced, not only lost one life, but also lost half a life.

This matter should be placed on the average woman, who must obediently return to her ex-husband to "enjoy the blessing", why should she suffer such a hardship.

If I used to feel that I let my children suffer with myself, why bother with a rich husband? Even if there is a quarrel and a contradiction, it is not a big deal, and it is easy to endure.

It wasn't until, knowing the inside story, that I had to start "admiring" Meyer's courage!

A divorced single mother at 31 years old, with her three young children living in a rented house, but also to earn money to support the family, to take care of the children's daily life, it sounds difficult.

But Meyer felt that even if it was so difficult, it would be better than having to endure him twenty-four hours a day.

What kind of man would make his wife so afraid?

Meyer painted her husband's plane at home a few minutes before giving birth to her eldest son Musk, the contractions were painful and unbearable to call her husband to the hospital, I didn't expect her husband to refuse to take her to the hospital, and finally dragged until the contractions interval of 5 minutes before not hurrying to leave.

Still calling her lazy and stupid along the way!

Meyer told the first half of her life in the book "Life by Me", this marriage lasted for 10 years, she often felt frightened, long forced to accept curses, stupid, ugly, boring, and other spiritual PUA She once felt that she was particularly bad and had no self-confidence.

In addition to the emotional abuse, her body was also severely beaten by her husband, and in public, she suspected that the wife who was a model could use other men to talk to other men as a reason for beatings.

Again and again, Meyer finally thought of divorce, but her husband threatened to take a razor to cut her face and shoot her three children in the knees, so that she could only live with three crippled children.

It's scary to think about! This marriage can also force people into mental illness.

In the end, in order to be able to get a smooth divorce, she did not share a penny with her husband, and only had the custody of three children. She could have taken the children back to her mother's house and reduced the burden. But for fear of affecting parents, they can only take their children far away to live in another strange place.

She recalls herself chasing her on the street with a knife on the eve of her divorce, and she still has palpitations years later.

He has been deeply hurt by men, and has also experienced the dark years, and has lost confidence in life countless times

However, in the end, she used her strength and hard work to support her three children.

She teaches children to be independent, kind, and friendly, and she also says there's no need to overprotect children, which only creates their disconnection from reality and responsibility.

"My children have benefited greatly because they have enough independent survival, and it is also because they have seen with their own eyes that their mother has worked so hard to make the whole family have a place to live, have enough food, can afford second-hand clothes, and work so hard alone.

You see now how easy my life was, how hard my history of struggle was. ”

Meyer Musk says:

Every decade of my life has been better than the last. In my twenties, I had a mess except for three wonderful children; I had a terrible time in my thirties; I was still busy with survival in my forties; in my fifties, I came to New York to start over, trying to get my career on track and make new friends; it wasn't until I was in my sixties that I gradually settled down because of work and my children and grandchildren.

Ms. Meyer married at the age of 22, became a single mother at the age of 31, and in 40 years traveled to multiple cities in three countries to develop her career, during which she trained 3 excellent children, got two master's degrees at the same time, and shined in the modeling industry at the age of 69.

This is rare! In 2020, at the age of 72, Meyer became an inspirational Internet celebrity grandmother.

Such a legendary experience is not for everyone, it should be the darkest moment of life, but I did not expect that Ms. Meyer lived out the king of the explosion!

Even now, any identity, single mother (father) work instability, entrepreneurship, and a difficult and door-picking ex-husband, which can crush a man or woman.

Such a powerful mother is really admirable, no wonder she can raise such an excellent son as Musk.

If there is a mother, there must be a son!

But I really agree with that sentence, you don't have to be overprotective of your child, remembering that my cousin is still at home at home at the age of 35, which should be caused by parents overprotecting their children.