Musk, the world's richest man, has had two wives and made many girlfriends, so why does he say that he can't find his heart?

Text/Tang Jingnuo

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Frankly speaking, whether a person will have a happy gender relationship or not, and whether the person has money or not, whether he has achieved fame or not, is not necessarily related. The family is rich, and it is also likely to be unhappy, such as Musk, the world's richest man today. He has had two marriages, both failed, and after the divorce, his personal life began to be enriched, and he made a lot of girlfriends, but it seems that he did not find the person he wanted. He said: "I'm looking for a serious partner or soul mate, like that. If I didn't have love, if I didn't have a long-term partner, I couldn't be happy." However, looking back carefully, it was found that the reason why he could not find love was traceable.

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Elon Musk was born on June 28, 1971 in Pretoria, the administrative capital of South Africa, the father of an engineer, the mother is more famous, is the author of "Life by Me" Mayer.

However, Meyer's early life was more tragic. Musk's father was a domestic abuser, and Meyer was often abused during the nine years that Meyer was with each other.

According to the Internet:

"Once, Ero took Meyer to dinner, and during the meal, Ero and Meyer got into an argument, and Ero beat Meyer badly in front of everyone."

Later, Musk also recalled:

When I was 5 years old, when I saw my father hitting my mother, I would pull my father's foot and beat him the bend of his knee to stop him from hitting my mother.

Until Meyer was 31 years old, she finally couldn't stand her husband's beatings, angrily left South Africa and lived an independent life.

After his parents divorced, Musk lived with his father. Since his father was an engineer, he was very interested in technology from an early age.

At the age of 12, he successfully designed a space game software called Blastar, which he sold for $500 to PC and Office Technology magazine.

Since then, he has studied and developed at the same time. At the age of 24, he felt that the time had come to start a business, so he dropped out of Stanford University and officially began his entrepreneurial career.

Since then, his career can basically be said to be smooth, after years of accumulation, in 2021, he has become the new world's richest man, his life, in his career, is quite successful.

Looking back on Musk's life, in terms of career, he is indeed an absolute genius, in the field of research and development and business, so it has today's success.

However, God is fair, and although Musk is now the richest man in the world, his marriage life is unsatisfactory, which makes him feel very headache.

Let's start with his first marriage.

His first marriage was with Justin Wilson. The other party was his classmate when he was studying in Canada, and the other party was also a rare excellent woman in the world, beautiful and a writer.

He even called the other person his soul mate:

"There is a flame in your soul, and I see my own shadow in you."

However, Musk, who has done a very successful career, does not know how to love, that is, all his talents and energy are in his career, and he does not know how to establish a real intimate relationship.

When he was with Justin Wilson, he said to each other:

"I am the master of our feelings".

However, the other party said to him:

"I want to be your partner, not a bench player; I want to feel your equal love while giving it love."

Here, it has to be said that the power of genes is very powerful, Musk's father to his mother, has always been violent and controlling, he is also extremely controlling of his own wife.

Justin Wilson has a summary of Musk's personality:

"Extreme success comes from extreme personality, and there are many other sacrifices to be made. But if you are a very extreme person, you have to be yourself, and happiness is no longer the most important goal in life for you. ”

This type of person has a prominent feature in intimate relationships:

As an extreme egoist, he interacts with every girl, turning each other into his appendages, controlling each other, and letting the other party use it for himself. "Control" is the intimate relationship in their hearts. They do not know how to love a person, is to understand each other, to care for each other, and even to achieve each other, they love a person, not to exchange love for love, is to control and use, only to ask for each other.

So, that's why, when Justin Wilson wanted him to give love, he divorced the other person; his second wife, Tallura Riley, took her to see his big rocket the first time they met; and broke up with his beloved ex-girlfriend because his job at SpaceX and Tesla required him to live in Texas or travel overseas, and the other person didn't go with him.

However, he is desperate for love:

"I would never be happy without a partner. Falling asleep alone would kill me. ”

Therefore, in the first half of his life, there was no shortage of women at all. He has had two wives and four or five girlfriends, all of whom are very good women, but he still feels that he has not found true love.

The reason for this is only because of himself.

It's that he doesn't figure out what intimacy is all about, to put it bluntly, he doesn't understand love. He wants a stable relationship that blends with his own spirit and flesh, but once a woman is with him, she becomes an appendage by him, and the two are only subordinate, so he will feel that there is no belonging, and there will be a kind of loneliness that is cold in the high place.

His first wife was talented, his second wife Riley was a British doctor of physics, nicknamed the sexiest quantum physicist in the world, and had also starred in "Inception", "Pride and Prejudice", "Westworld", and later girlfriends, who were also online in IQ, emotional intelligence and appearance.

These people can establish deep intimacy with him, but he directly strangles the intimate relationship in the cradle, leaving only control and "practicality". He has actually found a soul mate, but he doesn't know how to get along with each other.

If he wanted to find love, he had to understand what his mother said:

"We need to work harder than men, we have to let them know we're valuable, and then women need to support each other and men need to support women instead of leaving them behind and not leaving them behind."

Therefore, when women are looking for a partner, they must look at the essence through the phenomenon, and it is important for the other party to be rich and famous, but it is more important to see whether he has love in his heart.

There is no love in the heart, only control and practicality of the man, you will never have an intimate relationship between you, even if the other person is the richest man in the world, you and the other person are married, you are his employee, not his family.

That's why Musk gets married, marries every girlfriend, and signs a prenuptial property agreement.