Today's preacher is
Winner of the city's "Most Beautiful Family" - Toe
Hello everyone! I am a household painting from Xu'an Village, Liutao Town, and I work as a rural revitalization specialist in the village. My family is an ordinary rural family, four generations in the same household, living in a large courtyard, harmonious, and not particularly brilliant, that is, some small touches and small luck in ordinary life, and I just did what a daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law should do.
It is said that the most beautiful thing in life is the first meeting, and my husband and I encountered a big event shortly after we got married. At that time, we had just started a small family, with less income and more expenses, I brought more than 10,000 yuan when I got married, originally planned to keep it for small business, increase some income, before we could implement this beautiful plan, my mother-in-law was hospitalized with a heart attack and urgently needed money. Without hesitation, I took all my savings and accompanied her throughout the process, taking care of her food and living until she was cured and discharged from the hospital. This experience, to put it simply, understands the worry, anxiety, and nervousness in it. It was this experience that further narrowed the distance between my mother-in-law and me, and our relationship became closer and closer.
The weather is unpredictable. Just over a year later, my mother-in-law's grandmother was diagnosed with a brain tumor and had to be hospitalized and urgently needed to be accompanied. At that time, I was also very entangled in my heart, on the one hand, the mother-in-law who was hospitalized for surgery, on the other hand, my mother-in-law who was not in good health, and my son, who was only ten months old, was waiting to feed. After thinking about it and discussing with my husband, I took on the responsibility of taking care of my in-laws and was hospitalized for nearly a month, until my in-laws were successfully discharged from the hospital, and I breathed a sigh of relief. It is said that there are people who are blessed, and it is better to see that a large family is healthy and healthy than anything else.
Happy families are all similar. I disagree with the saying on the Internet, "You are responsible for earning money to support your family, and I am responsible for looking beautiful." I think that if there is only one model in a family that one person gives and the other person enjoys, it is difficult to last long. Women in the new era should be confident, self-reliant, self-reliant, and have their own social interaction. Now that the society is highly inclusive, there are many jobs at the doorstep, and you can't just rely on others to live, you must better show your style. In order to alleviate the family's difficulties and help the family pay off debts, I actively looked for a job, handed over my children to my mother-in-law to take care of, and went to work in the village kindergarten by myself, which is convenient for taking care of the elderly and children at home, and also has a stable income. My husband also went out to work to earn money to support his family. Today, our family lives happily ever after.
I often teach children to be self-confident, self-reliant, to respect the old and love the young, to know how to be considerate of others, and to set an example for children to give more and dedicate more. In 2018, I applied for a job as a poverty alleviation specialist in the village, and in the busiest years of poverty alleviation, I had to record data, reports, households, inspections, etc. every day, often working overtime, and when I was busy, I couldn't care about going home to eat, and it was even more difficult to take care of my family. My mother-in-law is very considerate of me, taking the initiative to help me cook, take the children, pick up the children to and from school, she often said that she always takes medicine and can't do heavy work, then help at home, and often tells me not to worry about trivial things at home, to focus on work. In those years, my mother-in-law's silent support gave me great encouragement, and my work has always ranked high in the town.
What touched me the most was that whenever I was so busy that I forgot to eat, my mother-in-law would call intimately to remind me, and often put the rice in the pot to warm me up, so that I could eat hot rice when I went home. Every time she saw me coming home late and physically and mentally exhausted, she would say distressedly: "The body is my own, no matter how busy I am, I have to remember to eat, and I can only work when I am well." "It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, but I feel so happy, and my good mother-in-law has warmed our family.
As the saying goes, pain is exchanged for filial piety. I remember in my heart how good they are to me and to my children, and I often share interesting things and delicious food with them. When the season changes, I always choose their clothes and shoes in advance, and they also wear them happily, which is both comfortable and proud. We also talk about everything when we get along on weekdays, and often talk about our parents' shortcomings. When it was cold, I took the female elders to the bathhouse to take a bath. Over the years, I have arranged novel fruits, meat dishes suitable for supplementation, etc., according to the season, and I feel in my heart that it is only the surface to give them a taste, and sharing food and happiness with them is the true meaning.
Good family style is passed down from generation to generation. My grandfather is a veteran of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, who has passed away for many years, and I will chat with my grandmother whenever I have time. Grandma has a good temper, and my mother-in-law has not blushed for decades, I have a good learning style, and I have a good relationship with my mother-in-law. From my mother-in-law, mother-in-law, me, and my children, we all like a relaxed family atmosphere, we all respect and love each other, and care for each other. From me and my children teaching my mother-in-law to use smartphones and WeChat, to taking them out on holidays to take them out and see the surrounding scenery. The family guards the warm and sweet big family with their hearts.
Looking back on the experience of the past ten years, I am glad that I can "see, carry clearly, put down, and carry it". When it is most difficult at home, I can see and carry clearly, do not value money and other things outside my body, and only hope that the family will be healthy and safe; At the beginning of my family, I could put it down and carry it, not seeking great wealth, but just working hard and living hard. Over the years, my mother-in-law has felt sorry for me, I have treated my mother-in-law like a mother, and the immersion and test of life have made all of us, the small family and the happy flowers of Hemei.
Say a thousand words and ten thousand, home and everything prosperous, family happiness is complete. People get along with each other and are considerate of each other. As the saying goes, "two good in one", as long as everyone is open-minded, supports each other, and humbles each other, there will be no hurdle that cannot be overcome, and a mountain that cannot be overcome. Especially when families get along with each other, they must not only give their own sincerity, but also see the dedication of others, as long as they work together, support each other, trust each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other, they will definitely be able to make their lives better and more beautiful.
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