The mother-in-law was paralyzed, called her daughter-in-law to take care of her, and was angrily angered by her daughter-in-law: You said you would not expect me

01.

It is not difficult to find that most mothers-in-law who are unfriendly to daughters-in-law have daughters, even if they do not have daughters, they have some money in their hands, their husbands are loving, and their sons are filial piety.

Therefore, they feel that when they are old, or when they are sick, they will not need their daughter-in-law.

Since it will not be used in the future, now naturally there is no need to be friendly to the daughter-in-law, and it is still possible to put up the mother-in-law's shelf, why not enjoy it.

My mother-in-law is like this, my husband has endured her all her life, her son is also filial piety, and 2 daughters, and she has some money in her hands, so she thinks she is full of confidence.

If the husband had not been able to carry it clearly, this marriage would have ended long ago.

My husband and I met each other on blind dates, and my mother-in-law was not satisfied with me as a blind date.

I think the door is not right, and in fact, our family situation is similar, but the mother-in-law is arrogant and looks down on people, so I knew before I got married that my mother-in-law was more powerful.

My parents saw my mother-in-law's attitude, and naturally did not want me to have anything to do with this blind date.

But my husband and I fell in love at first sight, and despite the disagreement of both parents, we wanted to be together.

Talking about marriage and marriage is not happy and dispersed, even if the bride price required by my family is not much at all, it is just a formality.

But the mother-in-law just did not agree, biting to death without a bride price, love to marry or not to marry.

My parents were angry at the time, but they couldn't stop me from insisting, and finally the marriage was still married, and after the simple wedding, I began my married life.

Because my in-laws are not willing to pay for a wedding house, my parents are angry, and naturally they will not pay for us to buy a house alone.

02.

We have not worked for a few years, our savings are not much, and we have almost spent all of them in marriage, so naturally we can't afford to buy a house, so we can only live in our in-laws after marriage.

In the past, the family chores in this family, the mother-in-law took on more, and my father-in-law and my husband also helped together.

But after I moved in, my mother-in-law became a hand-wavering treasurer and asked my husband and son not to help.

When she had time, she began to be fascinated by square dancing, and she also took her husband out with her, and when she came back, she had to eat hot dishes and hot meals, and she began to sneer before she did.

But whenever she wanted her to do her a favor, she either said that housework was the daughter-in-law's business, or said that she was uncomfortable, and that she was either dizzy or had waist pain all day.

Fortunately, my husband hurt me, no matter how noisy my mother-in-law is, as long as he is at home, he will share with me, but he is busy with work, and sometimes he is really weak.

My husband also told my mother-in-law, but it didn't work, and I was helpless.

Once, because the boiling water I gave her was too hot, all kinds of numbers fell on me, I did not hold back, I asked her: "Mother-in-law, I am your daughter-in-law, we are a family, you are not willing to help me within the scope of your ability, you did not expect to be sick and old in the future, no one to take care of it?" ”

The mother-in-law smiled and said: I have money in my hands, I have a husband, a son, and 2 intimate daughters, I don't expect you to take care of the elderly, so I can not care about your feelings.

It was really chilling, and I understood, because she didn't expect me, so it didn't matter to me.

I remembered that after I got married, I foolishly thought that as long as I was patient and sincere to my mother-in-law, she would definitely change her mind about me.

But in fact, she didn't have me as a family at all.

She also asked me not to worry about her property, she said that she had already been divided into 2 daughters, and since the son was disobedient and insisted on marrying you, then don't worry about the family's money.

I looked at her, sneered, and said, "Got it, you remember what you said today."

After that, no matter how she provoked, I didn't care, I just did my own thing.

I spend money to buy vegetables to cook, you can eat what you like, and if you don't like to eat, you buy vegetables to cook.

I also no longer continue to be patient, do as much housework as I can, no longer as before, cleaning until midnight, just for my mother-in-law a smiley face.

I used to live like this day by day, but then I moved out.

I am pregnant, my husband is very happy, I have my own child, my father-in-law is also very happy, they all say that they are going to be grandfathers after generations, naturally they are happy.

Only the mother-in-law, with a cold face, refused to disguise it.

Because she felt that her husband and son would pay more attention to me as an outsider in the future, but it was not normal for the family to pay more attention to pregnant women.

03.

The mother-in-law was not happy, so she let the 2 daughters come back to live with the children, and all kinds of troubles.

Emotionally unstable during pregnancy, when I was so noisy that I couldn't sleep, I came out and said a few words about the child.

The result is good, the mother-in-law does not spare, pushing and shoving me.

I didn't stand still, my stomach hit the corner of the table, and I was bleeding.

Fortunately, my husband was also at home, and I was sent to the hospital in time, and there was no big problem for adults and children.

I finally couldn't stand it anymore and offered to move out, even if I rented a house.

My husband was also angry, this time also agreed to move out, and quickly found a house, after moving out, my life was a lot quieter, the mood is also very comfortable.

Mom and Dad gave us a sum of money, and we were ready to borrow a little more with our friends to buy a house of our own, and began to look at the house intermittently.

Later, on the day I got the real estate certificate, I suddenly started and gave birth to twin daughters before the due date.

The husband was very happy and refused to give up, and the father-in-law also brought his mother-in-law to see the child after hearing about it.

The father-in-law's joy overflowed into words, and he caught the people in the room saying that he had become a grandfather, and let us move back (we bought the house with our in-laws behind our backs), saying that there was no one to take care of them outside, and the children suffered a lot.

Before my husband and I could say anything, my mother-in-law spoke: I gave birth to two daughters, how golden and expensive, really pretentious.

After hearing this, my heart did not fluctuate, after all, I was used to it.

The husband's face was very ugly, he originally wanted to tell his parents that he had bought a house, and wanted everyone to be happy together.

Now when the mother-in-law says this, don't say that she will not move back to live, and I don't want to say anything about buying a house.

Later, anyway, I was confinement in my mother's house, and after the child was full moon, our family of three moved to a new house.

With the help of my mother's family, I took the child with me, and life was relatively easy, just like that, a year passed quickly, and I suddenly received a call from my mother-in-law.

It turned out that the mother-in-law went out on a trip, fell down, and did not know what was going on, and when she came back, she actually suffered a stroke and was paralyzed.

There is no way to take care of yourself, and you can't do anything other than talk.

This year, the father-in-law's health is also very poor, he also needs to be taken care of, naturally he can't take care of his mother-in-law.

Originally, the mother-in-law wanted to let the 2 daughters take care of them, but the daughters said that they were busy at home, couldn't leave, a bunch of excuses, they came to see several times, verbally cared about it, and there was no following.

04.

It is not impossible to spend money on a nanny, but most of the money in her hand is given to her daughter, and her son certainly cannot give too much, so she cannot hire a home nanny.

Besides, she was not willing to spend this money, thinking that there were people in the family, why should she spend money.

Thinking about it, she thought of me as a daughter-in-law.

At first, she wanted her father-in-law and my husband to call me, but my father-in-law said that you forced the person away, and you had to tie the ringer.

The son said, she will not stop me from filial piety to you, but Mother, you really went too far, I can't open this mouth to let my wife take care of you.

No way, she called me herself, and her tone was not as aggressive as before, but she still looked straight.

I had a vendetta, not to mention hearing her rightfully ask for it.

So I simply and directly refused, saying: Mother-in-law, I am clumsy to take care of you, maybe it will affect your mood, you still find your 2 daughters to take care of it.

I hung up the phone when I finished, and I didn't answer any more calls.

I don't know if it was too harsh, but from the day I moved out, I was ready.

For the in-laws, I don't pull my husband to take care of filial piety, as long as it is reasonable, but don't expect me.

"Ten years to see the mother-in-law and ten years to see the daughter-in-law", really not to say, any emotion, it is impossible not to pay, there is a return.

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